Thursday, March 19, 2026
Getting the Word Out
The sign-maker, whose apartment I pass on my walk to work and who was once fond of hanging elaborate signs in his/her window criticizing Boris Johnson and other Tory leaders, has now taken to sending messages to our Labour politicians. Perhaps this is a sign of how unhappy everyone is with Labour, even the center-leftists. I don't think Keir Starmer is so bad, honestly, but to hear the media talk he's a disaster. Early on he did make some strange choices and decisions that seemed to me very un-Labour-like, but I think he's been better recently. I'm not sure how the next round of elections will go for him, though.
Speaking of which, we got a flyer in the mail yesterday reminding us to vote in early May. Our first opportunity to vote in England since we became citizens! I don't even know where to go or what to do, though I assume that will become obvious as we get closer to the time. I don't think they're national elections -- just local councillors -- but still, I'm excited to participate for once.
I spoke with my boss yesterday about our need to tell kids about my imminent departure. As I told her, I don't want to just disappear and have everyone assume I'd been fired, or worse, hit by a bus. She agreed and we concocted a plan to put up a slideshow in the library wishing me a happy retirement, with photos taken over my 14-year career at the school. I helped her put it together and I think we'll start showing it soon, so the cat will be out of the bag.
I did tell my pal, the eighth-grader who often quizzes me about cameras and wanted me to shoot film for him to develop, and I was surprised by how strongly he reacted. He literally put his hands up to his face in a "Home Alone" gesture and said, "NO! WHY?!" His skin flushed red and I was afraid he would burst into tears, but fortunately he didn't. I told him I'd still see him since Dave still works at the school and I'll be attending events now and then. It made me feel terrible that I blurted it out so casually but I didn't expect that degree of reaction!
I'm actually beginning to feel a little dread about my departure. Excitement, but also a sense of what-the-heck-am-I-doing?! How will I keep myself occupied? I hope I don't regret this.
I met up yesterday after work with a blog reader, Joni, who happens to be traveling through Britain and France. She e-mailed me out of the blue several weeks ago and mentioned she'd be passing through and did I want to connect? So we had a pint together at a pub near the school in St. John's Wood. I think it may be the first time I've ever met up with anyone from blogland who didn't also write their own blog. She told me about her trip and we chatted about our shared affinity for dogs and some of our common experiences with people in the blogosphere. Today she's headed back home to Canada. Safe travels, Joni! (No, her last name is not Mitchell.)


RE the voting......you should get a card with your voter number on it nearer the time telling you where to go to vote.....usually a church hall, maybe a school building or similar. You get given a sheet of paper with the names of the candidates and you stand in a little wooden " booth" to put your tick on who you prefer to represent you locally. Then, you put the paper into a black sealed box . When you leave from voting there might be people outside asking questions about your vote, but you don't have to tell them anything!!
ReplyDeleteand it will be on a Thursday
DeleteThanks for the tips! Interesting that voting is done with tick marks on paper, and not with machines. And weird that it's done on a Thursday!
DeleteDon't worry about how to fill your time once you finish working, time has a way of filling itself, just don't plan too much in the first few weeks.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I think those first few weeks will be me taking it easy!
DeleteI like how we espresso sipping socialists who live in the best areas of cities, actively agitate against conservative governments, and then when parties more to our taste are in power, we still agitate against the government.
ReplyDeleteIt is a great thing to let the children know you are moving on, for your own reasons. Good on him or her.
It seems that it's almost impossible to govern these days. People have such unrealistic expectations even for GOOD leaders, and very little tolerance for missteps.
Deleteinteresting seeing the poster re tax the rich. We have that in Scotland to a small extent. More people...including those in the upper tax band..have moved to Scotland, and the tax income for the Scottish government has risen by £160 million. (2023 figures just available)
ReplyDeleteNice to see that Joni met you as well as Yamini Mclean, a blogger not too far from me in Scotland
Nice to have tax revenue going up! I wonder if it's falling in England as a result? Yes, Joni mentioned meeting a blogger in Scotland!
DeleteIt's possible you may have attained Hero status to some of the youngsters and they will miss you.
ReplyDeleteWell, I doubt I'm a hero, but it will be a change for them!
DeleteYears ago I was a member of The Labour Party. I re-joined in order to help vote Sir Keir Starmer into his current leadership position. I do not regret that decision. However, I have been appalled by the treatment his government have received from the establishment and their media organs. It has seemed like a concerted campaign to rubbish every action, every speech, every proposal. I find it all so very unpatriotic and sad. It is obvious that the campaign of denigration is working and we may be heading, like a runaway train, to the awful prospect of The Reform Party running this country. I will always vote Labour as I have always done.
ReplyDeleteI agree -- I think Starmer has been unfairly hammered by the media and his critics, though, as I said, I found some of his choices perplexing myself. (The whole "taking-heating-subsidies-from-old-people" thing, for example.) I imagine pro-Reform forces are behind a lot of the criticism, overtly or covertly. I intend to be a reliable Labour voter too.
DeleteReform party? maybe not, it would be more interesting if Polanski ran it, he started 'tax the rich' movement. Starmer is learning on the job, running a country is difficult if not nigh on impossible, I think he is trying to get it right. Sorry for the politics Steve but really it is only a cross on a piece of paper and then the world goes on as usual.
ReplyDeleteI do think Starmer is doing his best and we ought to be working with him rather than preparing to toss him out with the bathwater at the first misstep.
DeleteNow that the word is out, I can forsee a significant farewell being organised for you ...
ReplyDeleteOh, I hope not. I really don't want to be the center of attention in any big way. A slideshow is about all I can take!
DeleteThe kid's reaction was sweet; it shows the impact you made on him.
ReplyDeleteIt was surprised myself! I never imagine that I've made much of an impact!
DeleteYou will be amazed how in a short amount of time you will wonder how you ever had time for a job!
ReplyDeleteI hope so!
DeleteI think the young photographer has a little crush, awww! I'm betting there will be a nice event for you, if the kids have anything to say about it. I'm also betting that the last minute qualms are bang on time.
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't know if it's a crush -- I think it's just shared interests! You're probably right about last-minute qualms being expected.
DeleteI was going to say the same thing as Boud - that sounds like a crush. Sweet!
ReplyDeleteI think he undoubtedly feels comfortable talking to me, which is nice.
DeleteMake a plan now, for what you are going to do in retirement. Write yourself a job description of the things you want to do or do more of. Find ways to engage. The social network of work will likely disappear very rapidly, if you don't have a social network outside of the school, start developing one. There are reasons why my late mother in law went to McDonalds for coffee three days a week, and set up the coffee at church twice a week.
ReplyDeleteI don't have a written plan but I do have some ideas. I'd like to get more involved in the Royal Photographic Society, for example, where I've been a member for years but I'm never able to participate in any activities!
DeleteI'm so glad you are alerting the kids to your departure (although Camera Guy might head you off on that account.) That is so touching to be admired and respected enough that you really wrecked his day with that news. Travel is right about a plan. A list of all the things you'd like to do but haven't -- some, projects with an end date; some, activities that can continue (like a volunteer gig, part time job, writing a book, visiting every (fill-in-the-blank) in London and beyond). Just because you write them down doesn't mean you have to do them if something better comes along but it's a guide line. Also, plan one meet-up with a person (other than Dave) a week. Or at least one "activity" a week. You've got this. It is the best gig ever!
ReplyDeleteOne meet-up per week is a good idea. I am a bit worried about my diminished social interaction.
DeleteI'm another one here thinking your sweet little photographer may have a crush on you. It's really good that there's going to be acknowledgment of your retirement.
ReplyDeleteI don't think you're making a mistake. I think you're making a CHANGE. Almost always a little scary (or a lot scary) but this, I think, will be a good one.
Yes, it's true, a big life change is always reason for trepidation!
DeleteDon't worry about retirement. There will be lots to do. You will find lots of volunteer opportunities.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure I will! Just have to keep my eyes and my options open.
DeleteYou will find lots to do when you are retired. If you read Travel's blog, he has adapted really well to retirement and always shares lots of his activities if you need suggestions. I enjoy volunteering and reading and walking. I'm sure you will love it.
ReplyDeleteI am so looking forward to reading with no interruptions!
DeleteI think you'll find lots to do in retirement. The one thing I do miss though is my patients, for you it will be your students I'm guessing. Could you volunteer one day a week to work at your school? Assisting in reading or art classes? Just a thought.
ReplyDeleteI can't work at the school for a couple of years after I leave, but volunteering I'm not sure about. Maybe!
DeleteYou'll be fine. I made no plans and found plenty to do. It was just nice not having to talk all day.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I'm looking forward to that, too. I'm honestly not a super-talkative person (surprise!) so I am ready for some peace and quiet!
DeleteI agree that it's likely the boy has a little crush on you. I also think you'll adapt to retirement and enjoy it. If you do get bored, I'm sure you can find a part time job.
ReplyDeleteExactly -- a part-time job is always a possibility if I find myself going nuts! (I don't think I will, though.)
DeleteLike others, my first thought was he might have a crush on you! I think the slideshow is a great idea! And I also think you will NOT regret your decision.
ReplyDeleteI hope he doesn't find my blog -- he would be mortified by all this talk of crushes! LOL!
DeleteThe student that shares your photography interests will miss you. You are likely the person he relates to best. Now he knows about the retirement, and you told him first which was perfect. He also knows you'll still be at the school because Dave will continue working with the band.
ReplyDeleteThe video sounds excellent. What a good idea!
Yeah, I thought I owed it to him to give him a little heads-up before it was widely announced. We definitely connect on the photography stuff.
DeleteI had a tough time starting retirement; I was used to a schedule and routine and being around lots of people and action, frustrating as that could be at times. Having an empty quiet house didn't help. Setting up a flexible routine worked best for me: when to walk, projects to do around the house and elsewhere, coffee dates, Happy Hours and eventually some volunteer work. I never got to the volunteer work since the grandsons arrived and have kept me busy. My students were devastated when I retired. It made it very emotional and hard.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure I will settle into some kind of a pattern, but I'm looking forward to having no pattern for a short time first!
DeleteAlthough the kid was upset, it sure is nice to see the impact you’ve of course had. I have confidence that you will immediately land on your feet, create a wonderful and different kind of life for yourself, and continue to inspire us all. I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few blog readers and haven’t been disappointed.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the vote of confidence! We shall see! Yes, it's nice to know that my time with students has meant something to some of them.
DeleteMove on confidently without regret, it is the right decision and your time is your own to do your wonderful stuff. Photography, writing, traveling, walking finding hidden gems. making new British friends out of the American bubble. I am excited for you and for us in blogworld to see what you come up with. Also - get a dog (?)
ReplyDeleteI AM looking forward to spending more time in England proper and less time in my ex-pat world. And a dog is definitely in the cards!
DeleteI'm sure you will find lots to do in retirement... enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
I think I will too. I've never had trouble keeping myself busy.
DeleteI predict that in a few months you will wonder how you ever had time to work!
ReplyDeleteA few months to a year past that you might inquire if you can return as a substitute, if they have such a thing. Looking forward to reading your adventures.
Yes, substituting is possible after a certain period of time. If I want to start taking those early-morning phone calls!
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