Saturday, June 6, 2026

Lilies, Nigella and a Girl With a Cat


Well, my brother and his family are off to Heathrow this morning for their return to the USA. Dave and I had them over last night for a farewell dinner -- Dave made flank steak -- and I think we all agree it was a fun and successful visit.

We met up at noon yesterday for a pub lunch in St. John's Wood, and then took a walk to Regent's Park to stretch our legs before circling back to the school where I used to work (and Dave still does). Dave met them there to give them a tour, and I came home and did some photo editing. I am SO BEHIND on managing and archiving all my photos, especially with this huge slide-scanning project happening. I'll be working on that more today.

As you can see above, our yellow lily is blooming again this year. But the Asiatic lily behind it dropped its buds and it looks like we'll get no flowers. That's probably partly due to the two honesty plants also growing in the Asiatic lily's pot. After the honesty sprouted on its own, I thought all three of them might manage in there but with our dry spring I think the Asiatic lily just didn't get enough water and/or nutrients. Oh, well -- there's always next year.


We also have a single love-in-a-mist, or Nigella, that sprouted by the back steps. We used to have tons of it growing there but it's gradually been crowded out by other plants, weeds and grass. I'm amazed there are still seeds out there to sprout. I think this is the only flower so I'm not sure we'll get any more fertile seeds, but if it produces some I may save them and try to grow them on next year.


All during my brother's visit I was continuing to scan and post my rescued slides, about ten per day. The second Flickr album now has 143 photos in it, and more will be forthcoming. The picture above, from 1974, was a long-shot rescue attempt; the slide is so dark that it's almost black and I could barely see the image. So I scanned it and used Lightroom to brighten it up and bring out the contrast. It's sort of ghostly in its effect.

I downloaded the garden cam yesterday and found that the batteries gave out at some point in the middle of the week. So no garden cam video this weekend; I'll save up what little footage I have and put it all together for another video next week. I know you're all heartbroken. 😀

I intend to reappear elsewhere in blogland today and catch up on all my fellow bloggers' lives! Forgive me if I don't go back and answer all my comments from the past week, but I have read and appreciated them all. Frances asked several days ago why Americans are so infatuated with visiting Stonehenge, which she termed "a few old stones in a field." I think it's basically their age -- I can't think of any large-scale monuments in North America that even vaguely approach the age of Stonehenge. Mesa Verde, in Colorado, has been an inhabited site for thousands of years but the existing cliff dwellings there "only" go back to the 1200s or so. There are other ancient sites but they're mainly excavated areas where spear tips, arrowheads and that kind of thing have been found. Nothing as large as a stone circle. So that's my inexpert opinion!

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  1. Ha ha...it's still old stones in a field !! Much better tourist places to visit.

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    1. I suppose it just depends on what interests a person!

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  2. Your brother and his family have had lots of different impressions and experiences during their short stay in London, and it was great timing with you not working anymore so that you could spend a lot of time with them.
    The child with the cat could be me! We have photos of me when I was about three, with our neighbour‘s black and white cat half across my lap. The cat‘s name was Bellamie (belle amie, French for beautiful friend).

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    1. This is partly why I enjoy these old photos -- they connect with people and spark memories!

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  3. The black and white photo is interesting. My English family and friends have been to Stonehenge, but once, and you don’t hear about that so much. Lots of old stones to be found in England, I guess. I went to Mesa Verde and, at the time, was in awe of its age. I’m so glad you and your family had such a great visit. Nigella is stunning. I’ve never seen one.

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    1. Yeah, I think if you live in England, the idea of being surrounded by antiquity isn't very novel -- whereas in the states anything older than a few hundred years seems impossible.

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  4. I think that Yanks like to visit to Stonehenge because of the Richie Havens album - "Stonehenge" (1970). He did a great version of "I Started a Joke" by The Bee Gees.

    Farewell to Brother Walter, Peggy Sue and Marybeth. May Hermes -The God of Aviation - protect them as they wing their way back across The Atlantic to Trumplandia. "There is another world out there and we saw it!"

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    1. I'm going to find that Richie Havens album! I haven't heard his version of "I Started a Joke" but I've always liked that song.

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  5. Nigella is reputed to seed freely, but ours never have. We count ourselves lucky if any come up.
    We stopped growing lilies in the back garden when we realised they are poisonous. It's a shame, as they are such showy blooms.

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    1. We used to get tons of Nigella and we never planted it -- but as I said it's been gradually shaded out, which is a shame. I don't mind if the lilies are poisonous. I don't eat them, and Olga never nibbled our plants either.

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  6. I remember Nigella, we had a fairly large stand of them years ago in a different house and yard, they self seeded quite well, though I also saved seeds and gave seedlings away to friends.

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    1. Yeah, I think if I want to keep them around I'm going to have to go on a preservation campaign!

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  7. I still don't get the excitement over Stonehenge. But I grew up with ancient stuff, including my relatives, so there's that. That was a swift visit, but the visitors experienced plenty.

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    1. This made me laugh. Good one, Boud!

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    2. Ha! Yes, we crammed a lot into a brief week.

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  8. I Throughly Enjoyed The Family Write Ups - Their Experience Sounded Top Shelf Because Of You - As You Are Aware , So Much Simpler Traveling When A Member Of The Tribe Knows The Layout - The Photos Were Fantastic With Each Adventure - It Is Those Insignificant Moments In Time That Stick With Others - Again , Glad You And Your Brother Are Speaking , Close Enough To Visit , And Most Importantly , Departed On Excellent Terms

    Well Done ,
    Cheers

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    1. My brother and I have always had a good relationship, thankfully. In fact pretty much everyone in my family gets along, which is fortunate.

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  9. The fact that ancient peoples dragged those big stones and hoisted them up and into the ground, topped them with massive lintels in an extraordinary feat of engineering? And as AI says "Astronomical Precision: The stones were perfectly arranged to align with the movements of the sun. On the summer solstice, the sun rises directly over the Heel Stone and shines straight into the center of the circle." A site like that is filled with numinosity and wonder. Wow. How did they do that? I would love to go there.

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    1. Yeah, you're right -- it's not just the age but also the marvel of the engineering.

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  10. That picture of the Nigella is stunning.
    As for Stonehenge, it's the age of it, and the why and the what of it.

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    1. Absolutely -- the mystery is a big part of the appeal. I remember seeing Stonehenge on shows like "In Search Of" in the '70s!

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  11. Yeah. I think there's more to Stonehenge than a bunch of rocks in a field. At the very least it's a testimony to the odd things humans do and as Colette pointed out, an example of the fact that humans have been aware of and fascinated by the way our planet works for a very long time.

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    1. Yeah, it does show an awareness and curiosity about the sun and the seasons.

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  12. I know unwilling for a cuddle cats. The last photo of a girl with a cat is delightful.

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    1. That cat seems quite comfortable, as far as we can tell!

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  13. So glad the visit with your Brother and Family went so well. It's good you're salvaging those damaged Photos, I like how the one with the Girl with a Cat turned out and it was worth preservation. I think Stonehenge had Purpose, it was a lot of work to erect it and we don't know everything about our Ancient Civilizations to draw accurate conclusions about what they did or why they did it. It would be fascinating to know tho'.

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    1. Part of the beauty of Stonehenge is the mystery, though, right? If we had all the answers it would demystify the structure.

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  14. That Nigella photo is so pretty you could frame it!

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    1. Well, thank you! (And the Nigella thanks you too.)

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  15. And most history in the USA is post European invasion, for a very long time there was an active campaign to erase or ignore anything before Columbus (he was lost and he was a bigot.)

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    1. Yeah, ruins and relics that pre-date Columbus are few and far between, certainly in North America. More common in Central and South America, I think.

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  16. How can you be behind on anything now that your time is your own? In retirement, you designate your time usage to suit yourself!
    That Nigella is beautiful!
    Hopefully, your brother and his family have arrived back home safely!

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    1. That's true -- I'll have to think about my definition of what being "behind" on something really means!

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  17. The ruins at Chaco Canyon are pretty impressive but they only date back to the 800s.

    I think a lot of the interest in Stonehenge is the sheer size and weight of the stones and how far away they came from. Us modern people can't imagine how people constructed it without the use of heavy machinery. Same fascination with the pyramids. I doubt we could achieve it if we tried today, so dependent as we are on our modern tools and machinery.

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    1. Yeah, even the places we all think of as the oldest in North America are nothing compared to the stone circles in England. And you're right, the engineering marvel of transporting and erecting those stones is a huge part of the appeal.

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  18. I think you are right about Stonehenge. It's the age and the fact that it was built without cranes and bulldozers by what we think of as primitive people.

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    1. It really is remarkable to consider. I was too busy trying to stay out of the rain! LOL

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  19. The girl with the cat photo is indeed ghostly. Your emoji after "I know you're all heartbroken" made me smile.

    Love,
    Janie

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  20. I would still like to visit Stonehenge because of its age and aura of mystery. There are many tourist attractions I wouldn't be interested in though--like any kind of Ferris wheel. I don't like heights and don't think they're an attractive addition to a city. (just my own opinion) I'm glad your brother and family had such a great visit and saw so much!

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    1. Well, as they say, to each his or her own, right? I think the views from the London Eye are fantastic, though it's not an inexpensive ride!

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  21. Stonehenge is a massive complex, the Stones being a later addition.
    Worth looking into not just looking at!

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    1. They have a little replica village there, as I'm sure you know, showing how people supposedly lived back in the day.

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  22. Stonehenge carries ancient history, ritual and even mysticism with links to the solar system. It is so much more than just large stones set in a circular formation.
    Your yellow lily is beautiful.
    Your family got a good introduction to England. They might need a second visit to explore more.

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    1. Oh, absolutely. England takes more than one visit. Dave and I have lived here 15 years and we still haven't come close to seeing everything. I've never even been to Wales!

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  23. A lovely colour Lily and the Nigella is beautiful.

    All the best Jan

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  24. Stonehenge is not just about the visible stones. It's what lies beneath and the history of the location. I've visited twice and enjoyed it both times.
    I remember when we visited Poverty Point Louisiana it just looked like some hills, but it turned out to be far more than that. https://ksrgmck.wordpress.com/2024/12/06/poverty-point/

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    1. Yeah, there's a lot of structure and pattern beneath the surface of the soil. I'm sure this is all explained at the site, though I confess we were so disrupted by the crazy weather that we didn't look for it. (I've been to Stonehenge three times.)

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  25. For your next visitors interested in ancient sites, I recommend Avebury and nearby Silbury Hill. Both accessible without booking or entrance fees. Quite atmospheric.

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  26. What a great visit they had. It's always nice to see familiar things through the eyes of others for whom it is new. And that nigella is a wow. I think I need some of that!

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