Tuesday, July 21, 2026
Chaos and Tragedy
Yesterday was completely chaotic. It started out well enough, with this peculiar boat pulling up alongside ours in La Spezia, which made a great photo with the sunrise. Is Warner Brothers getting royalties? I imagine so.
We disembarked the cruise ship at 8:45 a.m., and boarded our chartered buses for Rome at 9:30. It took more than an hour to drive the 39 miles from Civitavecchia to our hotel, the Marcella Royal near the Villa Borghese. We all piled out of two buses, dragged our suitcases two blocks to the hotel and stepped into the blissfully air conditioned lobby to find lots of other people already there -- some leaving, some arriving, some apparently just hanging out. It was madness for a while, with many people lined up in the sun outside (on a 97º F day -- that's 36º C) just waiting to even access the lobby. Dave and I were fortunately some of the first in the group so we at least waited inside. Eventually we were shown to our room.
We put our bags down and decided to go find lunch. Now, things get fuzzy for me here, and you'll see in a moment why this is important. I think I grabbed my camera bag, because we intended to go from lunch for a brief walk around a nearby piazza, and I wanted to be able to take pictures. I don't have a clear memory of carrying it to lunch but I believe that I did.
We ate at the little restaurant on the left, behind those triple-parked cars (which is why I took this picture, using my phone). The food was great -- bruschetta pomodoro and some sage ravioli for me, and a couple of beers. Then we wandered around the piazza, which turned out not to be a piazza at all but the Gardens of Sallust, a conference and arts center built into some Roman ruins. Interesting, but we didn't stay because it was deathly hot and we wanted to get back to the hotel. I took one more picture with my phone.
We got back to the hotel, and lay down for a nap. A couple of hours later, I woke up and wanted a drink of water. I looked for my camera bag, which contained my bottled water, and it was nowhere to be found in our hotel room. This is when I realized I must have left it behind in the restaurant.
I checked with the front desk just to make sure I didn't leave it in the hotel lobby, and they didn't have it. I went back to the restaurant, and they said they'd found nothing.
So I looked at the "Find My" function on my iPhone, because my AirPods were in my camera bag. They were shown as being in a neighborhood behind the Termini train station -- not an area I'd visited. Someone had clearly found/stolen and spirited away my camera bag.
I knew immediately that I was pretty much sunk. The odds of getting it back were minuscule. But Dave and I took a taxi to the address, determined to try. "Find My" showed (and still shows) the AirPods in the middle of a street, so we looked into parked cars and checked the area. Our taxi driver even helped. There were three large rubbish bins next to the street, and his theory was that someone discarded the empty bag (or maybe just the AirPods) in one of those bins, knowing they could be traced. I tried to get the AirPods to make noise but couldn't get that function to work, and I even unloaded the bins about halfway but found nothing. (And then I put the trash back, don't worry.)
So, yeah. My camera is gone. Not a loss I take lightly, and I hate the fact that I can't be exactly sure how it happened. My best guess is that I took the bag to the restaurant and left it on the floor beside my chair. Why I didn't realize it while we were walking around immediately afterwards -- and I was taking pictures with my phone -- I don't know. I blame the heat, the two beers and the chaotic day.
I filed a report with the Carabinieri so I can hopefully claim the camera on my travel or homeowner's insurance. It's an expensive camera (with three lenses) but it's also 15 years old, and it has done yeoman's work for all that time, so I'm not too broken up about it. There were no pictures on it -- I'd downloaded everything, fortunately -- and it has felt too heavy and antiquated for a while now. Maybe I'll buy a new one that better suits my needs at this point in my life. Or maybe I'll just use my phone and/or my stepmother's camera. I once had dreams of turning photography into some sort of profession, but let's face it -- all I'm ever going to do is blog.
Likewise, I don't mourn the AirPods -- a couple of years old and easily replaceable. I do mourn the loss of my house keys, which were in the bag, but we have spares. (I don't think it's likely that someone will fly to London to burglarize us, but I may look into changing the locks because our address is on the bag.) I carried an antique key on my key chain given to me 42 years ago by one of my best friends in high school, and I mostly hate to lose that key, even though it fits no lock.
I lost nothing else of value. My passport was in my pocket, thank goodness, along with my wallet and phone -- I never put any of it in a bag for just this reason.
I have a feeling I will be mulling this over for a while, trying to figure out exactly how and when I became separated from the bag and how I didn't notice for so long. Dave never noticed anything either, and his memory is as fuzzy as mine about when and where I had it last. As I said, it was a crazy day, and Rome is a crazy city, and it is what it is.
What's really bizarre is that this is the second camera I've lost in a traveling mishap in a Mediterranean country. I lost my old Canon AE-1 (a film camera) in 2000 when a taxi driver in Greece drove away with my backpack. And that time I lost my whole bag -- all my clothes, my undeveloped film, everything! Never got any of it back. So at least this situation isn't that dire.
We are going to try to make the best of our brief Rome visit today and see some sights before heading to the airport at 5:30 p.m. for our late evening flight.
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Well darn it, Steve. That sinking feeling in the pit of one's stomach as the realization dawns - ugh! That camera was an old friend, after 15 years.
ReplyDeleteChris From Boise
That's one of those things that you will be thinking about for weeks.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you still have wallet, passport and phone but house keys with address is a worry.
That sucks. But I’m glad you listed the positives, like the fact that the bag didn’t contain your wallet, passport, IDs. That would have made it a nightmare. Oddly, I was relieved to read there were no photos on the camera! I hope you can enjoy your time in Rome anyway.
ReplyDeleteOh dear! That must be so disconcerting. I agree that acombination of the chaotic day, heat and beers caused this to happen. So weird about tracking the ipods but not finding them. I‘d change the lock on your front door, too.
ReplyDeleteIt could have been a lot worse, though. You are wise to never leave passport, wallet and phone in a bag.
Oh I felt my heart sink when I read this, but was so relieved to read you had already uploaded the photos, (downloaded?) but still it's an awful thing to have happen. I agree you should get your home locks changed just in case.
ReplyDeleteI do hate to lose anything, I would rather give away, hopefully your insurance will cover the loss.
ReplyDeleteMy favourite nightmare! My husband and I have travelled a fair bit over the last 10 years since we retired, including several trips to Europe (from Australia), a couple of cruises, lots of overnight stays with relatives in the UK, and Australia, - and I am perpetually terrified of losing a bag, or more lately the smartphone, in exactly the same way. That is, putting the bag/phone down to do something else, and then forgetting to pick it up when moving on. Fortunately it has never happened to the point of loss - well, to be honest, it has happened once or twice, but we have been able to retrace our steps within seconds or minutes, and retrieve whatever it was, sitting just where I stupidly left it. Oh the horror, as Dr Spo would say. As I was reading this post, and seeing where it was going, the hair on the back of my neck stood on end. (Does this really happen, or does it just feel like that?) I have been loving all the posts from this travel jaunt. Will miss them when we get back to garden posts from London! LOL
ReplyDeleteIt's not a Disney cruise ship?
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your camera and the stress it must have caused you. Hunting for it and filing a report must have taken time. There are better things to do in Rome, I'm sure. I advise phone number only on anything, not an address. If the thief knew someone in London, keys express by plane, well.....
Safe journey home, always the best place to be but it can take time away to appreciated it when you return.
Well you did not lose your photos that is one consolation and you will be able to get a new camera which should inspire you once back in London. Your phone photos are not bad either. All in all you had a splendid holiday.
ReplyDeleteIt always stinks losing something like that even if everything is replaceable. I've traveled many times to the Philippines (and many other places) hauling around my camera bag, lenses and other paraphernalia but the last four or five years, I've traveled exclusively using my iPhone for picture taking. I'm not taking award winning photography to enter into contests. It just goes onto my blog and maybe the occasional photo album. The freedom of having another hand free while walking around with my phone in my pocket and not worrying about sitting down my camera while eating or doing other things is incredibly liberating. I gave my dSLR to my youngest to play around with at this point because I know I won't be going back.
ReplyDeleteBags on floors and on backs of chairs are the things of joy for thieves. Sorry it happened to you Steve. Rachel
ReplyDeleteOh no! I'm sorry to hear about your camera. That really puts a damper on the last of your holiday, but as you say, it could have been worse.
ReplyDeleteSafe travels home, Steve.
From experience in my extended family, there's at least one theft occurring while in Italy, especially in the cities. Could just as well be taken from your hotel room, has happened.
ReplyDeleteThe bag could have been stolen while you were still at the table. It can happen lightning fast. But I'm glad it wasn't worse. The tragedy in your title made me think people, not things. So in the scheme of things a big nuisance but nothing you can't recover from.
ReplyDeleteClearly the rushing around the ship, getting off the ship., on a bus, to a crowded hotel, and then out to lunch makes it impossible to remember the bag!
ReplyDeleteI imagine someone saw it and thought it contained many valuables, and then it turned out to be nothing of value to them, only to you.
Like you, I think what would bug me the most is not remembering the details of when it could have gone missing. But of course that's the point - if you were able to remember, then you probably wouldn't have lost it (unless it really was stolen while you were at the restaurant - not much you could have done about that, except notice sooner).
ReplyDeleteIt may take a while, but forgive yourself. Things happen.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry this happened to you. Just puts a damper on the end of your trip. Glad you have what you need to get home. Safe travels!
ReplyDeleteWhat a shame for this to happen and put a blight on your holiday. I hope the insurance claim goes smoothly and you can start to indulge your camera passion with lots of research - there are many, many videos on YouTube - you'll be spoilt for choice.
ReplyDeleteOh man, but like you said, you had the important stuff in your pocket. And it was old so maybe an opportunity to get a new better camera. Like you I think I'd be most upset by the loss of the antique key. Bummer of a way to end the trip but at least it didn't happen at the beginning which might have cast a pall on the trip. Too bad you didn't take any pictures of the Gardens of Sallust because the description sounded interesting.
ReplyDeleteI'll hope that someone has a conscience and actually mails your bag back to you!
ReplyDeleteYour check-in to the hotel sounds over-the-top! At least you and Dave were in the cool, while waiting for your room.
ReplyDeleteIt is disappointing when someone steals. Someone has your bag and camera, and they could take it to the police or mail it back. Choosing to steal with no sense of right or wrong makes me angry. That said, with the exception of the key, everything is replaceable and that's the best way to look at it.
Hopefully the rest of your day goes supremely well!
That is such a shame, but I do love your positive attitude towards it all. Perhaps if you manage to claim on the insurance you can get yourself a nice lightweight digital camera for future holidays, and to use on your wonderful days around your home locale snapping away at all the treasures you discover. I have to say as well, that your 'phone photos' prove that you are the one with the talent, not just your camera.
ReplyDeleteOh Steve, I'm so sorry. That's such an awful way to end such a wonderful trip. It sounds like you have a positive attitude about it which is the best way to feel. It's just things and things are easily replaced. It's great that you had downloaded all the photos. Losing the photos would have been a much worse situation.
ReplyDeleteI just realized that as I'm writing this, you are probably on your flight home. Safe travels and welcome home.