Sunday, November 6, 2022
Wardrobe Organization
I had to go pick up a prescription for Dave in St. John's Wood yesterday morning. He went to a hospital urgent care center near the school on Friday but the doctor forgot to give him some of the recommended medication, so I went back for it -- ear drops and throat spray. That's St. Elizabeth, above, keeping watch over the hospital's entry foyer and the empty wheelchairs.
Dave is not a happy puppy. He's having trouble eating because his throat and ear are so painful. He says the doctor swabbed him for strep, and I guess we don't have the results of that test yet. His fever seems to be down, though, so that's a good sign.
It was indeed very rainy yesterday. I spent the day reading The New Yorker and I'm pretty much caught up now and ready to start "Great Expectations." I also did a load of laundry, watered some plants and organized Dave's armoire.
Dave's method of storing clothing is basically to pile everything up -- and I say "pile," but even that implies a level of neatness beyond what I'm really describing. I'm convinced that he forgets he owns a lot of his clothes because they disappear at the bottom of a mound or the back of a shelf. I hung his pants in one place, shirts in another, summer stuff in another, stacked shorts and t-shirts together and flipped the stacks so he'd wear some of the stuff that had previously been relegated to the bottom.
A lot of it he probably won't want to wear, because when Dave wants to dispose of an article of clothing, he doesn't put it in the trash or the charity bag. He shoves it to the back of the closet. I remember when I met him he had a big pile of clothes on the floor of his closet. I took them all to the cleaners and got them wearable again, and only much later realized that was pretty much his clothes disposal pile.
The other day I came home to find a pair of socks lying in the middle of the bedroom floor. "What are these?" I asked him.
"Oh, they have holes in them," he said.
"So they're trash?"
"Yeah."
Of course one wonders why they were not therefore in the trash can...just like one wonders why dirty clothes often don't make it to the hamper.
But anyway, his clothes are much more organized and hopefully visible now, and whatever he doesn't want to wear perhaps we can get into a charity bag.
Here's one more Halloween pic I forgot to use earlier -- a creative jack-o-lantern I saw on my way home from work!
Dave's method of clothes storage and disposal is alive and well in this household too. Not due to my efforts.
ReplyDeleteHope he gets well soon.
One wonders how long such good clothes organisation will work. I used to put my clothes that I hadn't worn for one year under my bed and if left there, they were thrown out. Now I can do it by just looking in my wardrobe. I hope Dave is better soon.
ReplyDeleteThat is my favorite Jack-O-Lantern of the year!
ReplyDeleteI laughed as I read about Dave. That sounds exactly like San Geraldo including the trash socks on the floor. SG often tells me excitedly “I discovered a whole bunch of clothes I didn’t know I had. They still have the labels on them.” He has his own closet (and dressers) and I have nothing to do with it.
I have great expectations that you will start reading "Great Expectations". As for Dave's clothing philosophy, it seems quite similar to my own. Orderliness and logic are highly overrated in my view and yet those who espouse these traits have little compunction in imposing them upon those of a different, more carefree persuasion.
ReplyDeleteReading this makes me think of the "Odd Couple," and you two seem to fit the profile!
ReplyDeleteWhen I was swabbed for strep, she ran a high-speed test, result and rx in two hours. If Dave's already on antibiotics though, perhaps less need for speed. Anyway I hope he does better soon.
ReplyDeleteStrep is horrible. I hope he doesn't have it. And what is it with some people who just don't throw trash in the trash can. My husband will open a package, leave the trash on the counter and walk away while the trash can was one step away from where he was standing. Drives me nuts.
ReplyDeleteLove that pumpkin xx hope Dave is improving
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree with Marcia - you two may be a remake of the Odd Couple! Hope Dave gets well soon.
ReplyDeleteToo Funny
ReplyDeleteThere is something very satisfying about organizing things. I recently did that to my closet, getting things ready for the winter months. And, I took 5 bags of clothing to the charity shop. A year from now, I'm sure I will wonder whatever happened to some blouse or pair of slacks that is now gone.
ReplyDeleteThat pumpkin is very creative!
There seems to be lots of sinus, throat, ear stuff going around. I hope his new meds make the difference. Those are miserable symptoms to have! (and I thought a strep test was an instant one)
ReplyDeleteI LOVE that jack o'lantern!
That's the best Jack O Lantern I have ever seen. Your story about Dave's closet reminds me of a guy that I flew with back in the 70's, three of us lived an a 3 bedroom apt, he didn't really use a dresser, he kept a lot of his clothes in plastic trash bags (I'm serious) needless to say he always looked a bit rumpled. Having said that, He was one of the best pilots I ever flew with, went on to American Airlines and finished out his career as a 777 Captain. Go figure....
ReplyDeleteLove the pumpkin carving. That was really well done.
ReplyDeleteStrep is miserable and very painful if that's what he has. My system is to leave clothes hanging up until I notice that they're gathering dust. Then I get rid of them...usually.
ReplyDeleteI hope the prescription pick up does the trick. And your tidying his piles was maybe your way of improving his life even if you couldn't cure his ailment.
ReplyDeleteThat is exactly how Mike handles his clothes too. Anything not hanging in the closet just gets dumped in a pile. And his closet is full to bursting - & he wears about 5 things. Not that I'm immune - I do put all of my clothes away, but there are a lot of things that I never touch.
ReplyDeleteHope Dave feels better soon!
I hope Dave improves soon. I had a throat abscess when I was in my twenties. It hurt so much. So I am grimacing in sympathy with Dave. I imagine the throat spray was to numb it? Hopefully he's on the mend.
ReplyDeleteAs for clothing, don't get me started - I am a terrible clothes acquirer and hoarder, acquiring most of mine from used clothes stores because I like the variety and it's easier to afford quality things. But, and it's a big but, I have a body that's hard to fit so things always need a tweak or a makeover but I am not confident in my sewing skills so they sit un-fixed, in many cases for years. Right now I'm downsizing so my son can move back home, and I have sent bags and bags of clothing back to the used clothing stores that I never wore. I thought I'd be sad about it, but I feel FREE!! I haven't bought anything for about six months so I think I'm over that habit, but there's a lesson there for me to draw on if I start getting the urge to buy again :D Looking after a spouse's clothing and dealing with their habits is a whole 'nother ball game than taking ourselves by the ear, though, isn't it? lol
I once was going through our closet and discovered clothes that Tim had never worn in our married life. (Think platform shoes for men...disco era!) I began setting things aside to get rid of them. Tim came in and began going through the stuff. His point was that they still fit. A bit of an argument ensued. He promised to begin wearing the stuff. At that point, I quiety put it all back into the closet. I've been sneaking the stuff out through the years and not telling him for fear he'll begin to wear these things.
ReplyDeleteI am Dave and that is why I have my own room and Dennis has all of the closets.
ReplyDeletePirate has Dave's method of organisation!!
ReplyDeleteDave needs to take honey for the throat. I have one cupboard for everyday clothing. I just wear a limited range of clothes all year. Things disappear to the back of the cupboard and get forgotten about.
ReplyDeleteI have a tendency to pile things up.(clothes) It doesn't help to have someone organize me. then I'm really lost.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like we live with the same man.
ReplyDeleteThat's a really great jack'o'lantern.
ReplyDeleteIs it possible to sit down with Dave and go through the pile item by item so he can decide whether it will be worn or got rid of? If he's anything like someone else I know, probably not, but worth asking at least?
Sabine: I'm glad I'm not the only one contending with this!
ReplyDeleteAndrew: I'm not sure it will last but it will at least make things (temporarily) visible.
Mitchell: I don't understand this phenomenon at all. When I buy something I wear it, usually right away!
YP: I only "impose" them so he doesn't spend more of OUR money on clothes he doesn't need!
Marcia: We are in some ways, for sure!
Boud: Yeah, I read about those high-speed tests. I have no idea why Dave didn't get one of those, but anyway, I think the course of treatment is basically what he's doing now.
Ellen: Ha! Dave does that too!
John: Isn't that a brilliant pumpkin?! So creative.
Ellen D: Except the "Odd Couple" weren't technically a couple. At least, not admittedly so!
Padre: Laughter is the best medicine, as they say.
Sharon: Five bags! Good for you! I get rid of stuff little by little, so I seldom have such a large haul all at once.
Kelly: Apparently it CAN be instant, or at least rapid, but that's not the kind Dave got.
Jim: Well, I think the storage of clothes -- or personal habits in general -- don't have much to do with intelligence or ability. Some people are very smart and capable but personally they're complete slobs.
Allison: Isn't it?! I wonder if it's an original design or if they got it from a book.
Margaret: Ha! That's a good method too.
Marty: That's an interesting idea. Let's go with that. (Rather than me being a fussbudget.)
Bug: That's the other funny thing about clothes -- we all have our favorite items that we wear more than the others. I kind of envy people a hundred years ago who just had a couple of outfits!
Jenny-O: Well, I'm glad you feel good about offloading all those "project" clothes. Sometimes something that initially seems like a fun undertaking becomes a burden.
Debby: Ha! It's funny that whether or not something fits is the sole criterion for keeping it.
Linda Sue: Dave talks about needing a bigger armoire but he just needs to keep the one he has organized. If he had a second closet he'd have TWICE as much unworn clothing.
GZ: As do many people!
Rachel: Well, I guess it's bound to happen, but do you ever empty out what's at the back?
Red: Well, that may be true in this case, too!
Pixie: Ha! I guess a lot of people (probably mostly guys) live like this.
River: We do that once a year or so, but he hates every minute of it!
Hmmm. Beginning to wonder if Rick and Dave were separated at birth!
ReplyDeleteWell done on actually finishing the New Yorker -- just in time for another one. I finally stopped subscribing because they never got finished and piled up. Neat piles.