Tuesday, March 17, 2026

Notes and Cards


I found this sticker on my walk to work yesterday -- an unusual one, in that it's stuck directly to the sidewalk and it features the cats' paws and tail. Perhaps the cat artist is trying to do some new things?

I got my glasses repaired over the weekend and picked them up yesterday. When I was in Florida I damaged them pretty severely. One of the arms got jammed closed and I couldn't open it without basically forcing it, which I had to do in order to wear them. So I screwed up the joint, bent it somehow, and first aid was needed. Now they're back on my face, and at no charge! I'm not thrilled with these frames, which Dave bought ten years ago but then never wore himself, so in 2022 I had them fitted with my prescription. They're some kind of fancy German engineering and a little too complicated for their own good.

I polished off a couple more New Yorkers last night while Dave was at the doctor, getting some advice for his Crohn's. He's trying to take his treatment private, in the hopes that he can consistently see the same doctor over time and get some more attentive case management. We'll see how that goes. The doctor he saw last night is referring him to a different doctor and meanwhile has ordered tests.


Yesterday at work I looked through a huge file folder I've kept over the years filled with thank-you notes from students, birthday and holiday cards from co-workers, and other stuff. I have no idea what I'm going to do with it all. There's too much to keep, so I guess I need to do some culling. It's nice to be reminded that I've made a difference in students' lives, enough so that they felt a need to write to me. I always feel like such a crank at work, nagging kids not to eat in the library and to bring back overdue books, so I'm glad to see that they don't just associate me with scolding.


Here's the latest from the wildlife cam in the garden -- back in London and once again collecting footage of foxes, pigeons, cats, magpies and squirrels. The best moment comes at 1:41, when a fox comes right in for a quick sniff of the camera. Normally they're very wary of it. At 2:45 I move it to get a better angle, and at 3:02 I put down some fish skin left over from dinner, which a fox eagerly eats a few hours later. At about 5:23 a fox trots in with a bone or dog treat in its mouth, which it proceeds to bury in the garden.

(By the way, the camera was still set on Florida time -- so don't pay attention to the time stamps.)

Several posts back, one of my commenters admitted somewhat sheepishly that they no longer watch the wildlife videos. By all means, if they are not your thing, don't feel obligated! I find them relaxing and in this crazy world, when humans are doing such terrible things to each other, it's nice to see other critters just going about their business. To me there's something quite calming about seeing a squirrel scratching around in the leaves or a pigeon pecking at nothing. Plus they're fun to edit together. But I promise not to find fault with you if you'd rather just skip them!

Still no sign of the fox with the damaged tail, and I'm not sure I'm seeing Q-Tip (the fox whose tail has a white tip) anymore either. Unless maybe the foxes' coats change with the seasons? I've stopped trying to name them because I can't tell them apart. I also haven't seen Bell the Bengal cat in ages.

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  1. Well, you put the times to check the videos for activity, which I like to see.
    I would find it hard to throw the folder of nice messages and cards away. I imagine a very old Mr Reed going through the folder and staring wistfully into the distance as he remembers each student and teacher.

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    1. Yeah, I try to give people times so they can skip through if they're so inclined.

      It sounds terrible, but I already can't remember some of the kids who wrote those notes!

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  2. How lovely to receive those cards and notes. I bet you'll have a whole sackful on your retirement day!

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    1. I agree -- it's always a nice surprise to get a thank-you note from a kid.

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  3. Notes of appreciation are so good for the soul. You have the most important attribution, though - remembering people's names!
    The fox really made a meal of the fish skin - I was surprised at that. (I mean that it took a long time to consume it.)

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    1. I really make an effort to remember names. I was always happy when the librarians remembered my name when I was in school.

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  4. You could always take photos on your phone of the cards, maybe in small groups of four or so, and then keep them in a folder on your computer. I love the cat stickers. :-)

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    1. Yeah, some sort of digital storage might be the way to go!

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  5. Keep the notes, edit them into a book, reflections on a life of learning.

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    1. I'm not sure they're book-worthy, but I like the idea of scanning or photographing them.

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  6. best trail camera photos of any blog i have seen. ontario canada

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    1. Wow! Well, that's a compliment! I am pleased with the quality of the camera, I agree.

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  7. I enjoy the garden cam videos and it’s wonderful to see your garden coloring up with spring. You made a fox so happy with the fish skins. That collection of notes from students would be hard to give up. Can you gang them up and scan them?

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    1. Scanning or photographing them is a good idea.

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  8. It looks so springlike. Flowers and green. I love it. I don't always watch the videos all the way through, but I do watch most of them. Here, a fox's coat does change with the seasons, and perhaps Q-tip's tail has regrown its fur. I always though it was an injury.

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    1. I think it was an injury of some sort. It looked like the tail got caught in something -- a door, or a dog's jaws!

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  9. Personally, I enjoy your videos and seeing all the critters wandering through, acting like they own the place! The fox and Pale Cat's close-up was a nice surprise! I have to change my theory that Pale is a male!
    You should keep all those notes ... 📝 Good memories!

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    1. I just can't figure out Pale Cat's gender! It definitely roams like a male but it looks like a female.

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  10. What a nice pile of notes! I tend to be sentimental & keep things until I'm not (I threw out great swaths of old Christmas cards in January). I love the still from the video - it's so springlike!

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    1. I think it makes sense to "purge" stuff like that now and then.

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  11. I don't think I could part with those greeting cards, despite being a fervent winnower. And full disclosure: I hardly ever watch videos on blogs. To me they're a departure from the text I come in for and really appreciate. But I get that some people love videos, so I haven't made a point of it before.

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    1. Yeah, some people just aren't into videos, which I totally get. I like them if they're made by the blogger, but I'm less interested when they're someone else's content from YouTube and that kind of thing.

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  12. About the cards and notes, I had the same idea as some of the others - you could scan your favorites to save. Gosh, your garden looks lush! I hope Dave can find a good Crohn's doctor so he can get consistent care.

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    1. The garden is definitely leafing out! It happens fast!

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  13. You know, I might hold on to those cards and memories. They are a really tangible and special reminder of a job you've had and done well for many years.

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  14. I used to look after language students for Bell school in Bath and acquired a great deal of forms, letters and photos of the students but in the end threw them away, which I think I regret now. So maybe keep them.

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    1. I think I will pick and choose a few to keep, maybe.

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  15. I agree about the wildlife footage - it is calming, and a reminder that there is a world out there were all the small and big things that anger or frighten us do not matter in the least.
    Having to get rid of part of your collection of thankyou notes sounds difficult; what deserves keeping, what is less important? When O.K.'s Dad died, we found he had kept a pile of similar messages from young apprentices who received instructions from him (he worked in communal water provision). He had stuck some of this messages on the wall around his desk in the attic, where he often retreated to play music, do his taxes or other admin work, and I was touched almost to the point of tears when I saw this.

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    1. It's great that he kept them within his sight, to presumably give him a boost now and then.

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  16. It says something about you that the kids took the time to actually write notes to you.
    Usually you're lucky to get a full emoji text!

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    1. I'm sure they would prefer to text me, but that's not an option!

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  17. Wow, that's a lot of acknowledgement from students and co-workers. I'd probably read them all again and then put them in the paper recycling box. I just don't keep stuff like that and if I did probably would never go through them again. Really, if you brought all that home how often would you pull it out and go through it? Well, you probably would. It reminded me of when my sister and I were cleaning out our mother's house. That woman kept every card and gift tag she ever received and I bet once in the box, she never ever looked at it again but she kept that box every move they made.

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    1. I'm not sure I'd look at them much, if ever, but I might keep some. We'll see.

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  18. I would take the best or funniest bits of the cards , tear them and glue them on a board- collage and frame. Or you could photograph, print on fabric and make a Steve table cloth. so many options!
    I love the garden videos!

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  19. What a great collection of cards and letters from school students. You've made an impression on some of those kids.
    I enjoy seeing the "wilds of London" on your videos. Since I've been there and know the location in such a densely populated city, it always amazes me to see so much wildlife.

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    1. I agree -- even I am surprised by all that goes on in our garden at night!

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  20. I'd keep the cards and notes in a memory box for now. They show you are very well thought of and appreciated. When someone takes the time to write, it is heartfelt.
    I love the garden videos. Q-tip is the star of the show. I always look for him.

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    1. I hope he comes back! He may still be around, but perhaps his fur has darkened for the summer and the white tip on his tail isn't as obvious.

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  21. First of all, those notes are just the best and I couldn't let them go. I'd save them all and read them again when I had a bad day! And I like Mitchell's idea of scanning them -- and Travel's of putting them in a book. The ones I could read are so touching. Clearly you've made an impact and that's something to retire with to make you happy for all the complications of "new boss" and the past months. I like the wildlife (actually all) your videos. I need to remember this post so when our grand who is in love with foxes comes, I can share it with him. It's one of the best as far as foxes go (and Pale Cat is my favorite!). I hope the private docs will be more helpful and thorough than the NHS.

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    1. Anybody who loves foxes would definitely get a kick out of the wildlife cam! Yes, show your grandson!

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  22. I love the foxes which to me are exotic! I have a photo album with some special letters and notes in it. The rest I got rid of and there's more I could throw out.

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    1. I just can't imagine I'll ever read any of it again, but I guess you never know.

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  23. I just had to stop back because I just read an article in the NY Times about a red fox that boarded a car-transport ship in Southhampton and ended up in the Bronx. Your English foxes are now taking ocean cruises!

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    1. YES! I saw that story! I'm so impressed the fox survived. It must have found a supply of food and water somewhere on board.

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  24. I think Travel had a wonderful idea of what to do with all the notes and good wishes.

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  25. That orange and white cat was busy coming and going! I loved seeing the fox come up to the camera, but also loved seeing the pigeon come marching out from it at 2:28.

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    1. I'm glad you enjoy the squirrels and pigeons. I think they help leaven the video mixes so they're not all foxes, all the time.

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  26. I think it's lovely that you have received so many cards and notes ... well done you.

    All the best Jan

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    1. I only get a few per year, but it's nice to see them altogether!

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  27. Getting rid of those notes is going to hurt. I guess you could scan. That's very nice that the kids wrote to you.

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  28. Perhaps a photo or two of the notes and cards, just like the picture above, could be framed and hung? Or just kept in an album or scrapbook?

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    1. I could group the notes for a series of photos, I suppose!

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  29. I enjoyed that video, lots of variety - and it was interesting to watch the fox inspect the fish skin, find a dining spot, and delicately chew it up. I expected a more ravenous approach!

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