Sunday, June 12, 2022

Side Return


Here's part of our property I don't often show off. It's called the "side return," and it's basically an alley along the side of our house running from the back garden to the street. We don't use it for much of anything, except as a place to store the ladder abandoned by the dodgy roofers. But as you can see, at this time of year, even the side return is in bloom, with purple campanula all over the ground and a foxglove near the drainpipe. Those foxgloves appear year after year in that seemingly inhospitable location.

Things are continuing to look good for my mom. My brother says her UTI was essentially a false positive and her pneumonia "is not serious," so we're mostly dealing with residual effects of the flu. I asked my brother about Covid but he said she had a test -- the "big boy test," meaning not just a lateral flow -- and it was negative. He said she could be discharged today, but he wants to see her stronger first so he hopes they'll keep her a little longer.

I spent yesterday morning in the garden, planting some stuff we've had in pots -- hollyhock seedlings and a teasel. I also discarded the spent snapdragons and repotted a dahlia and a bunch of hyacinth bulbs.


Here's a garden problem that I've been dealing with. See those day lilies, sandwiched between a beautyberry on the left and some persicaria on the right, and almost covered by that blooming canopy of blackberry vines? Last year, those lilies were completely shaded out, and I don't think they bloomed at all. This year I'm keeping everything else trimmed to make sure at least the ones in the front get sun. Hopefully we'll have some flowers. A few years ago we transplanted a few from the back -- the ones really in the dark -- elsewhere in the garden to give them a better chance, but even they're not exactly flourishing. I think they still get too much shade in their new locations.

After gardening all morning I realized that my glasses were in my pocket, and while stooping and bending and squatting I'd managed to pop a lens out of the frames. So I walked down to the optician -- I didn't even bother to change out of my grubby gardening t-shirt -- and they put it back in. I also took care of another issue that's been nagging at me.

Back in 2016, when I first got my reading glasses, Dave got a pair, too. His prescription was much weaker than mine and within a few weeks he'd stopped wearing them entirely. But we spent something like £400 on them, mostly because of the fancy German ultralight frames. They've been sitting in his drawer untouched for six years.

Well, I asked the optician if they could put my prescription in those frames, so I'd have a second pair of glasses. So that's what they're doing -- for a rather shocking £160.

Mind you, I could probably go to the drugstore and buy a pair of off-the-shelf readers and be just as happy. So while I may pat myself on the back for economically using Dave's discarded frames, it's a false economy. Let's not talk about it.

26 comments:

Moving with Mitchell said...

At our house, we’d just say “I saved £240 on new glasses” and leave it at that.

River said...

What Mitchell said goes here too. Could you perhaps put those daylilies into large pots so they can be moved to sunny spots? I like your side yard. I'd maybe put a few large random-shaped pavers along it, but not in a straight line, just weave them between the campanula from the back yard to the gate.

Frances said...

I only need basic reading specs, and I get them from Poundland for.... guess how much! Just counted , I have 6 pairs in the 2 rooms I am close to at the moment. Always a pair to hand!
Yesterday I planted out the 5 sunflowers that were growing in a large pot as they were starting to dry out quickly. Hoping that because it is going to be dry for a while the slugs won't get them. I love your campanula .Such a wonderful colour. I have a small patch of it too.

Boud said...

I've been reusing spectacle frames for years, too expensive and well fitting to replace. The corrective lenses are expensive enough.

I love that alley. Such a good climate for flower gardening.

Bob said...

I'll give props for the recycling of the glasses!

Good news about your mom.

Anonymous said...

Oh no. Teasels are back in the news.

I don't think £160 is bad for new lenses. The lenses seem to cost more than the frames here. I used off the shelf readers for years and they were fine. I was sitting at an outdoor cafe when a nice looking guy walked past and I realised I couldn't properly see his face. Then I knew I needed proper glasses.

Jeanie said...

I am so glad your mom is improving and so quickly. That has to be a huge relief. Yes, it'd be nice if they could keep her an extra day or two and get her on her feet and a little more stable, but improvement is good no matter what.

I had to laugh at the glasses. When I got my new ones, I tried desperately to find the old frames I liked (two prescriptions ago) and to no avail. Sure enough, I didn't have the new ones ($400) more than a week before the old ones popped up. When I have cataract surgery, probably next fall, I'll get the new lenses in those frames!

Ms. Moon said...

"False economy". I know a lot of people (myself included) who practice that frequently.
"Forty percent off!" I'll tell my husband.
"Forty percent off of WHAT?" he'll say.
And so it goes.

NewRobin13 said...

Good news about your mom. Yay! I'm so glad that she is recovering.
I have two pairs of glasses. One is always the old one I use when I need new frames. I hand those to the optometrist. Then when I get the old frame back with new lenses, I take the pair off I'm wearing and save those for the next time I need new lenses.

jenny_o said...

I love those ultralight frames. It comes from years of wearing heavy plastic frames with even heavier strong prescription lenses in them, and the enduring of pain in the bridge of my nose. I don't even notice the glasses I wear now, and they are one step down from the ultra-lights. Just think of how stylish you will feel in your high quality glasses :D

I love campanula. Yours is gorgeous.

ellen abbott said...

I love that campanula. I wonder if it will grow down here. Frames and lenses are ridiculously expensive. Since my left eye started developing a cataract and my vision improved I no longer need drug store cheaters to read. I'm the only one in my immediate family that doesn't wear glasses. And yeah, false economy. The ads all say save 20%, save 40%. You aren't saving anything, you're still spending money. Save !00% by not buying it.

Wilma said...

So good that your mother's health is improving!

I take much better care of expensive glasses than I do of cheap ones. I bet you will get good use out of Dave's frames. Now that I don't need corrective lenses at all, I keep 2 really nice pairs of sunglasses that I love; sunglasses being quite important down here. Even when I used readers, I would get lightweight ones with excellent optics and comfortable, attractive frames. I had one pair at a time that I always had at hand. I prefer quality to quantity pretty much across the board.

Colette said...

"Let's not talk about it" made me laugh. Great ending.

Red said...

Lets talk about your gardening. Plants have a mind of their own. some can be very aggressive and push others out.

Kelly said...

Great news about your mom! As for your garden... you seem to have the magic touch, even in the difficult places. Is the beautyberry you mention the same as what I call an American Beauty Berry? (or French Mulberry) Does it produce purple berries?

Sharon said...

Those purple flowers are lovely. I have reading glasses in every room of the house but they are just those inexpensive drug store variety. They work pretty well.

Margaret said...

I'm so glad your mom is better! The frames sound very nice so I think it's worth getting new lenses in them so they can be used.

Allison said...

I found a brand of readers on Amazon that I really like - good thing, the drugstores around here never have the strength I need. Glad your Mom is doing better.

The bike shed said...

I have at least ten pairs of glasses _ I've lost count actually. There are half a dozen on hooks by my desk... I actually buy prescription ones from online suppliers - a sort of halfway house between totally cheap readers and the expensive optician ones

Ellen D. said...

Glasses are so expensive that it makes sense to reuse whatever you can! I noticed you aren't commenting as much as you used to. Is your blogging program giving you more troubles? It seem that I have been reading about this on other blogs... Hope they straighten it out as I miss your responses. ;)

Ed said...

I’ve bought my glasses online for probably the last fifteen years.

Pixie said...

My lens are always far more expensive than the frames. Doesn't sounds like a bad deal at all.

Debby said...

I had bifocals. This was not a good move. I switched to cheap readers for years. Now, I just don't wear them at all. I actually think it helped to ditch them.

Steve Reed said...

Mitchell: I like that approach! LOL

River: I think most of the day lilies will be OK where they are as long as I keep the stuff around them under control. The only ones that suffer are the ones farthest back, and as I said, Dave transplanted some of those already. We'll probably move some more to the center of the garden where they'll get more light.

Frances: I should do that -- buy some inexpensive spares -- particularly for work. Very rarely I leave home and forget to take my glasses with me!

Boud: It's ridiculous how expensive glasses are. I feel like I'm getting scammed on how much I'm paying for these new lenses!

Bob: At least they're not going to waste.

Andrew: If you don't want to read about teasels, you're on the wrong blog. LOL

Jeanie: It always seems to happen that we can't find what we want when we want it! That's a sure sign that we all have too much stuff.

Ms Moon: It's all psychology. The marketers know how to make us THINK we're saving money!

Robin: That's a good way to do it -- the frame-rotation method!

Jenny-O: They really are incredibly light. It kind of freaks me out.

Ellen: I don't know! There are several different kinds of campanula. They seem to like rocky or paved spaces, like cracks in walls and sidewalks. You can't quite tell from the picture but the side return is paved with concrete, and the campanula has taken root along the cracks at the edges and sent runners out into the middle.

Wilma: I think quality over quantity is always a good rule of thumb. I have a couple of good pairs of sunglasses and though I rarely use them here in England, they're invaluable when I go to Florida.

Colette: Thank you! LOL

Red: We do have some garden "thugs" like that. I just do my best to keep them under control.

Kelly: I think the beautyberry here is a slightly different species, but it looks VERY similar. Yes, the berries are bright purple.

Sharon: My stepsister does that -- keeps them spread all over the place so she's never without. I have one pair of glasses and it drives me crazy when I can't find them!

Margaret: Thanks for supporting my false economy! LOL

Allison: Thank goodness for Amazon. Yes, they're domineering and killing off high-street retail, but they DO have pretty much whatever we need.

Bike Shed: I've never tried those online sources (like Warby Parker). Maybe I should.

Ellen D: No, I can't blame Blogger. It's just my own schedule and lack of time. In fact I'm running late for work at the moment! Ack!

Ed: I know a lot of people who do that. I like giving some business to the high-street optician, but yeah, I'm sure he's charging me more.

Pixie: When we got glasses in 2016, I think I paid about £100 for my lenses. I'm just a little surprised they've gone up so much since then, but I guess with Covid and supply chain issues and plain old inflation, prices have escalated.

Debby: But you can see? I really struggle to read, especially small print, without some assistance. My distance vision is fine so I don't need bifocals, fortunately.

37paddington said...

I'm glad your mom is on the mend, and that "the big boy test" was negative. Seeing your "side return" reminds me of how different and distinct to place all our living environments are.

Mage said...

So glad your mom is better.
I miss gardening.