I’m writing this post Tuesday night, on the flight back from Rome. Among the things I lost in my camera bag were my two newest issues of The New Yorker, which I’d planned to read on the plane! So now I have nothing to do but write. I guess I could have bought another magazine, but never mind...
Today (Tuesday) was a busy day! After the nightmare of our Monday afternoon and evening, followed by a mostly sleepless night for me, I was determined to make it up to Dave by doing some sightseeing with him and enjoying Rome. We got up and out around 9 a.m. and went to the Trevi Fountain (above), which he had never seen. In fact, he’d never seen Rome at all, so anyplace we went was somewhere new.
I thought we might also check out the Colosseum and the Roman Forum, but Dave decided he’d seen enough and was ready to return to the hotel. To be fair, it was rapidly becoming hot as blazes and sweat was running down our backs. Also a thunderstorm was brewing overhead, but it never quite materialized, at least not where we were.
I tried my best not to think or talk about the camera kerfuffle but I wasn’t very successful, and as we sat in the Piazza Navona I felt a strong compulsion to search for it again. I was still getting a signal saying my AirPods were on that street near the back of the Termini train station, and I was convinced they were in that trash bin — perhaps still inside my camera bag. If Dave was just going to rest in the hotel, what was stopping me?
So I told him that was my plan. He tried to talk me out of it — he was worried about my safety, both from any criminal element and from environmental dangers like broken glass. But I had to be able to tell myself I’d done all that I could, and so far, I still didn’t have that feeling.
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| Sticker art on a street near the Pantheon |
We took a taxi back to the hotel, where Dave got out, and then I rode on to the street with the bins. I began digging through them again, and this time — without Dave telling me to stop every three seconds — I really focused on the task. I pulled bag after bag out of the bin and got down deep enough that I’m sure I would have found the camera bag, had it been there. I might not have found the AirPods alone, because they’re small and I couldn’t get them to make noise like they’re supposed to do when lost. (Every time I tried my phone just said that function was “off,” whatever that means.)
At one point three workers in neon orange pants and maroon shirts, perhaps garbage men, came up and one started yelling at me. I showed him my phone and explained what I was trying to do. He didn’t seem to speak English but he understood, and he and his pals walked away and came back a few minutes later with a rake. They pitched in and helped me! Together we excavated that bin thoroughly, to no avail. I looked in the adjacent recycling bins too, but they were much emptier — apparently Romans, at least in that neighborhood, aren’t big on recycling.
I also checked out the nearby parking lot again, and I did get a signal showing that I was practically on top of the AirPods while standing next to this white Land Rover, which was parked off by itself (and is apparently parked there all the time, given that it's on Google Street View). It seemed very possible they could be in that car but I couldn’t see them through the windows or underneath it, so what could I do? I felt out of options.
Perhaps I could have gone back to the Carabinieri with my scant evidence, but even if they took me seriously, what would they have done? Called the Land Rover owner, who would in all likelihood have told them to piss off and get a search warrant, and then moved the bag? All with me leaving the country in hours?
After more than an hour digging through rubbish and then loading it back into the bin, and surveying parked cars in the hot sun, I finally, finally felt I had done all I could do. I had to accept defeat. If the bag was there, it wasn't accessible to me. So close and yet so far.
I walked back to the hotel and took a long, welcome shower.
(Not your typical Roman vacation, I know!)
We began exploring the museum at 3 p.m. and it is a very grand place. Unlike the sights we saw in the morning, the galleria was new to me. Not really my kind of art, for the most part, but I did appreciate the Caravaggios and this stunning sculpture by Bernini of Apollo and Daphne, from 1622. Certainly better than rooting around in a garbage bin!
Finally, we headed to the airport and arrived in plenty of time for our 9:20 p.m. flight. (Why so late? What were our tour organizers thinking?) I was sad as we took off, knowing my camera bag wasn’t at my feet as always.
Oh — but there is one more happy side note. Remember my fear that the bag had my address on it? Well, I realized the luggage tag provided by the tour company did NOT use our address — just my phone number. So the fear that someone will arrange to burgle our house with my lost keys is now moot.
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And now, Wednesday morning, here I am at home. We’ve arrived back just in time to cope with a new hosepipe ban (aka a garden watering ban) imposed by Thames Water because of the UK's extended period of hot, dry weather. So we’ll be schlepping watering cans from the house. Welcome to England! At least the temperature is cooler than Rome, and the garden and plants seem to have survived our absence.






Welcome home.
ReplyDeleteNow you can get a new camera sorted and forget about that awful time.
Yes; I need to see this as an opportunity rather than a loss!
DeleteWhat an awful thing! I am sorry this happened. I know the feeling!
ReplyDeleteIt's the worst.
DeleteShame about the camera loss, but looks like you had a great holiday. Thanks for sharing it. Those poor dogs shouldn't be out in the heat though!!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the watering cans.......our hosepipe ban started last week, and I am already fed up with carting water about! Just trying to keep my favourite plants alive in a large garden.
The dogs were next to a fountain and I think they were fine albeit hot. I did wonder about the wisdom of walking them in that kind of heat! (The dog walker didn't look much better!) I just got word of our ban on Monday or Tuesday.
DeleteWelcome home Steve! Replace the camera and move on, I say. And hey, now that you're back, it's time to look for a puppy, right?!?!?
ReplyDeleteYes and yes! Dave has asked about the dog-search and I told him to begin preliminary operations! (He has to screen them because I'll want them all.)
DeleteWell you tried your best, there's not much more you could have done. Welcome home. ❤️
ReplyDeleteIf I'd had one more day I'd have gone back to the police with the information about the car, but I doubt they'd have been able to do much with what is essentially just an electronic hunch.
DeleteWelcome home. Take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I hope to catch up on your (and everyone else's) blog soon!
DeleteWelcome home.
ReplyDeleteI think I'd have given a second look into the trash for my bag because if I didn't I'd always be thinking it was right there and i missed it.
Exactly! I could picture it just lying there and me not digging that extra inch into the rubbish to find it!
DeleteI'm glad you went back & looked because you never know & you would have definitely felt like you hadn't done enough. That sticker art is EXCELLENT. Heh.
ReplyDeleteIsn't that a great sticker?! Dave spotted it and we had a good laugh.
DeleteYour tour organizers were thinking about making a little bit of extra money. I'm sure the late flight was much cheaper than one in mid morning.
ReplyDeleteToo bad the "Find Your Device" didn't work when you needed it. My wife couldn't find one of her car keys and we looked for weeks before giving up on it. So I ended up buying a new one which cost me $500 for the key and to reprogram the remaining one. For good measure, I attached air tags to all our keys so that hopefully won't happen again. It wasn't two weeks later I was snacking on something in my easy chair and dropped a bit of it. I reached down in the crack to retrieve the crumb and I found the car keys which are now useless, since the programming of the new keys makes the programming of the old keys useless. Hopefully there isn't a next time and if there is, I hope the "Find My" feature works.
Yeah, no kidding on the flight. I'm sure it was cheaper. It seems like a rule that the minute you replace a lost item the old one turns up! Maybe that will happen with my camera too? LOL
DeleteGlad you made it home safely.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ellen!
DeleteSo, what did you do on your vacation to Rome? Rummaged around in garbage bins.
ReplyDeleteIt was overall a very nice vacation. Glad you are home safe and the garden survived.
Yeah, the Roman leg of this trip was undoubtedly the weirdest vacation I've had in a while. LOL
DeleteGlad you are home where you can relax and recover from the Rome part of your trip. The heat has been miserable all over the northern hemisphere this year. We might have to start traveling in the winter instead.
ReplyDeleteApparently it was hot in the UK too but now it's very pleasant -- in the 70's F.
DeleteYou did everything possible to retrieve the stollen goods and that gives some satisfaction. I'm now thinking the owner of the Range Rover had something to do with the theft. I believe whoever did the deed, will experience a downfall. Think poetic justice.
ReplyDeleteThe fountains, museums and plazas are phenomenal. So much to see and you and Dave covered lots of ground.
I agree -- I think the camera and bag (or at least the AirPods) are stashed in that Range Rover. If I'd had one more day I'd have gone back to the police.
DeleteWell, that was a classic last day, probably one few have. I would have gone back, too. When you hear the sound, you just know you're so close. The bin cleaners certainly sounded helpful and that's a lovely memory to grab onto from an awful experience. That graffiti you showed would certainly represent my mood after the chaos and frenzy of that search. I'm glad you could have a greatly needed shower after that and then see some beautiful things. Welcome back home. I'm sure it felt good to walk in the door -- especially knowing it wouldn't be burgled (at least by Roman thieves!)
ReplyDeleteI WISH I could have heard the sound. That would have given me better evidence that I was on the right (or wrong) track. I think if I'd gone to the police and told them I could HEAR my AirPods in that car, they'd have taken action of some kind. But I didn't feel like I had enough simply based on the position of a dot on the map.
DeleteWelcome home, Steve and Dave!
ReplyDeleteYes, you definitely did what you realistically could to find the airpods and camera bag.
Now you can settle back into your home and usual activities. You won‘t forget this holiday any time soon!
That's for sure! LOL 🙄
DeleteWelcome home! I loved the Pantheon, such a step back into the past--like much of Rome. It wasn't my favorite city in Italy, but it certainly has some amazing history. Sorry you couldn't find the air pods. I understand exactly what you mean about only being able to let go after doing everything you could to find them.
ReplyDeleteIt is an amazing city, with so much history around every corner. If it had only been the AirPods that had been lost, I wouldn't have cared. But the camera (and my house keys) just killed me.
DeleteYou're home, time to move on and start thinking about adoption. Very cute pups all sprawled out.
ReplyDeleteYes, time to move forward!
DeleteYou had lots of adventure in your last day of the tour. the camera bag is a great story. You get so close and we're all wishing the bag would be found.
ReplyDeleteIt's so frustrating to think I was probably standing right next to it!
DeleteIt's too bad that a window on the Land Rover didn't break by accident. I wouldn't do that either but it would drive me crazy.
ReplyDeleteWelcome home.
LOL! I seriously thought about trying the doors but I couldn't bring myself to do it.
DeleteBenvenuto a casa. Isn’t it nice that you didn’t have that heavy old camera bag to lug home with you. I’m glad you weren’t able to enjoy a bit of Rome but I can imagine how hard it was to not get the loss out of your head (and knowing its general vicinity). Now, the shopping begins.
ReplyDeleteWelcome home. Now, which is first, the dog or the camera? Well, you'll need a camera to photograph the dog, though an iPhone will suffice pro tem. Decisions, decisions . . .
ReplyDeleteWelcome Home, glad your Address was not divulged on said Lost Camera Bag. Rome looked fabulous. And at least you didn't have the extra baggage of said Camera Bag, I am trying to put a Silver Lining on that Black Cloud of Loss. *Winks*
ReplyDeleteHome again. Time to sigh and relax. Travel is stressful! Especially when you lose something so important to you. But you're right- take it as an opportunity.
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