Sunday, February 15, 2026
Rodentia
I'm cheating a bit by writing this post on Saturday afternoon, and scheduling it to publish Sunday morning. That's because we have to catch an absurdly early train to get to Gatwick in time for our 9:40 a.m. flight. I don't know what I was thinking when I bought these plane tickets -- 9:40 a.m. seemed like a reasonable departure time (and the tickets were probably cheaper) but when you consider that you have to get to the airport two or three hours in advance, well, ugh.
The good news is, I reached out to the hotel in Málaga via Whatsapp and they did receive our documents and told me somewhat impatiently that I would be getting access codes to the door on the day of our arrival. So never mind that thing on their website that says we get the codes 48 hours in advance.
In other news, look! The bench outside the phone exchange on Finchley Road has been replaced! I'm shocked that they bothered to install a new one. I figured they'd just go benchless after hauling the old one away. After all, who sits in front of the phone exchange? But no, a new one was evidently warranted.
I spent yesterday packing, doing routine houseplant care and catching up on blogs. I am bringing no books but at least ten of my back issues of The New Yorker with me to Spain. I'm going to read them there and/or throw them away, one or the other.
We did nothing special for Valentine's Day, though Dave did buy me a pastry on the high street. If he's not trying to get me to drink more, he's buying me pastries. Has he taken out extra life insurance on me?!
This week's garden cam video comes from the patio, where I set up the camera right outside our bedroom door to see who or what is prowling around out there at night. Plenty of foxes, or perhaps just one very persistent fox, as well as a few unwelcome critters.
Here are some highlights:
-- At 0:20, you'll see a fox trot by with several links of sausage hanging out of its mouth. This is not the first time we've seen foxes with sausages in our garden. Someone must be feeding them, or maybe they've figured out how to raid the high street butcher's rubbish bin?
-- At 1:03, yikes! A rat! This is not terribly surprising since we live in the city, especially with foxes gnawing on sausages in the garden. But it doesn't make me happy because the last time we saw rats on the patio we had to call an exterminator and I am still psychologically scarred.
-- At 1:23, a token pigeon. I got tons of videos of solo pigeons wandering the patio in daytime.
-- At 1:44, a pair of amorous robins. That male is definitely trying to get the female's attention.
-- Random fox wanderings, and then at 2:52 it runs in at top speed and seems to be surveying the corner. Maybe it saw one of the rodents? It looks like it's in hunting mode.
-- At 4:04, a robin sings happily in the pre-dawn darkness.
-- At 4:26, the fox sneezes while sniffing the garden plants. I think it's hunting again. At least there's no coughing this time!
-- At 4:30, we get a brief daytime shot of the fox. Look at its beautiful red fur! It's easy to forget how colorful they are, looking at the pale infrared footage in my nighttime videos.
-- At 4:40, a mouse visits. I'm not sure that's any better than a rat.
-- At 5:00, I put down a bit of duck breast for the foxes. Now, before you criticize me, let me assure you I have only done this sort of thing three or four times in all the years we've lived here, and I would not have done it had I known we have rodents out there. So don't blame me for the rats. I think they're probably coming around because of the bird feeders. (You can blame me for those.)
-- At 5:12, the fox eats the duck breast and sniffs around hoping for more.
-- At 6:13, the rat is back. The camera caught no evidence that the rodents got any of the duck, thank God.
-- Two token squirrels at 6:47, the only other daytime visitors besides the pigeons and robins.
-- We finish with a last fox sighting. I think the fox is probably attracted to the patio partly because of those rodents. I hope it eats them.
Interesting that we saw no cats on the patio -- where it looks like we need them!
This coming week, I've set up the camera to film the bird feeders directly. I want to see if those rats or mice are climbing the pole and having a nosh. If so, I need to relocate the feeders away from the house. (I probably should anyway.)
Saturday, February 14, 2026
Ch-ch-ch-changes
This is sitting in the driveway of a neighbor down the street. I think it's the soundboard for an upright piano. As I understand it, old pianos are very hard to sell nowadays, given that lightweight and easily portable electronic keyboards are available. Remember how my family struggled with that issue when we tried to sell my grandmother's Steinway years ago? And that was a baby grand, not "just" an upright.
Still, it makes me sad to see a piano reduced to this condition.
I have had a killer week, and I'm not sure why. It should have been easy, with two days of parent-teacher conferences during which I dealt with no students. But of course I had plenty to do, because God forbid I be permitted any downtime. Yesterday and Thursday I weeded part of our non-fiction section and covered and labeled about 50 new books, among other things, and when I balked at immediately stamping, sorting and boxing up all the weeded materials, my boss seemed surprised. It was 3 p.m. on a Friday before a break and I was done. I came home.
I only have 26 days of work left! That freaks me out a little bit, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to retirement. My co-workers are talking about making major changes in the library, "genrifying" the collection (sorting mysteries from romances from classics, that kind of thing) and getting a new computer system. I am nothing but relieved that I won't have to deal with any of it.
I'm sure I sound like a spoiled, work-averse baby here (is there such a thing as an enthusiastically working baby?) but as I get older I find that I am much less able to embrace workplace changes, and my boss is a rip-everything-down, nothing-is-sacred kind of person. I need to get out.
Meanwhile, Dave and I have to get ready for Spain! We're leaving early tomorrow morning, and I'm already having a bit of anxiety about our first hotel, in Málaga. The reception is closed after 2:30 p.m. and I was told to send them our documents and they would give us access codes to the door, and I've sent what I'm supposed to send, but I've received no codes. If I'd known this "hotel" was really serviced apartments with no full-time reception I'd have booked somewhere else. I want to be checked in by a person. Argh!
Here are some fun or interesting links I've saved that you might enjoy:
-- The story of the North London house that gave the band Fairport Convention its name.
-- Five photographic treasures displayed at the somewhat recent Paris photo fair.
-- A CBS News segment about a mysterious cache of photos from San Francisco, taken during the Summer of Love.
-- A discussion of the impact of ring-necked parakeets on our local ecology. You'll recall we see lots of these birds in our garden on our bird feeders.
-- One of our favorite video clips from British television, from the TV show "This Morning," in which Gino D'Acampo takes down presenter Holly Willoughby in ineffably Italian fashion.
-- And from just this week, the obituary of actor Bud Cort, who famously played Harold in "Harold and Maude," one of my favorite movies.
Friday, February 13, 2026
Bulb Report
As you can see, the bulbs are a bit further along now. The snowdrops are open...
...as are the daffodils. We have four clumps of them running down the side of the rose bed, all planted before we moved in, and they come up reliably every year. (And we no longer have to put protective stakes around them because Olga's not here to trample them!)
The Leucojum, which is similar to a snowdrop, is blooming too.
The crocuses looked promising at first. This (above) was taken on Feb. 7.
But this was yesterday. The squirrel gods have deemed that no crocus shall be allowed to reach flowering stage!
Thursday, February 12, 2026
Stickermania
Aas you know, I always keep an eye out for unusual stickers when I'm walking along Finchley Road (which, in general, is not a very scenic thoroughfare). Here are some I've found in recent days.
Perfunctory Googling this morning didn't solve the mystery of the sticker above. There are songs called "Not So Good," so maybe it's a reference to something like that, but otherwise the meaning is lost on me.
I think "Tommy" must refer to Tommy Robinson, England's criminal right-wing provocateur and all-around loose cannon.
I'm not sure what this one's about. Looks like a logo, but Google isn't sure for what.
"Boo" has posted several stickers featuring chili peppers.
"Clean Out Louis" really IS a band, or at least a musical duo. I think they're Danish. Apparently one of them is named Louis -- a fact he didn't know until he was six years old, if this article is to be believed. Perhaps he's trying to "clean out" this alter-ego?
And finally, yet another cat sticker. I never tire of them.
Wednesday, February 11, 2026
Pondering Light Bulbs
There's an apartment in the building behind us where the light is always on. I took the picture above at 3 a.m. this morning, when I got up to get a glass of water. That light is bright, but it doesn't illuminate the whole scene the way it does in the photo -- that's a function of the iPhone's "night photography" feature.
When I turned off night photography, this is what I got:
Not as interesting as a photo, but closer to real life.
Anyway, I think the apartment is vacant. I wish someone would go in and turn off the light. I was a child of the Carter years, when we all talked about energy conservation and were instructed to turn off every light when we left the room. The New York Times says this is no longer necessary, because modern bulbs are so much more efficient than they used to be. (In 1974, the paper said just the opposite -- "It all three million customers in New York City and Westchester County cut off a single 100‐watt bulb that might burn six hours a day, the savings would be 1.5 million barrels of oil a year, 10 days' supply." Apparently incandescent bulbs really were incredibly wasteful, with most of the energy expended as heat rather than light.)
Today is just a half-day with students. Parent-teacher conferences begin in the afternoon and run for the next two days, which means Dave will be busy meeting with lots of parents online (which he's going to do from home), but I don't have much to do during this time since far fewer people will be in the school building itself. I suppose I can neaten shelves.
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
Picnic in the Street
Yesterday I was carrying the yard waste bags out to the street and I noticed this ladybug (aka ladybird) on one of the discarded stems of the dusty miller (Senecio). I gently broke off that leaf and brought it back to the main plant in the garden, where the ladybug took refuge. I probably disturbed its winter hibernation by trimming away some of the foliage where it was concealed. Hopefully it will find a new retreat until spring comes.
I had to come home yesterday at lunch because our boiler has been leaking and we had a repair scheduled. It only started dripping last week, but by Sunday the leak was worse and I thought, "We can't go away to Spain with this thing dripping like that!" I called British Gas yesterday morning and got a repair window of noon to 6 p.m. I stayed here for the first part of the shift, and Dave relieved me around 1:30 p.m. so I could get back to work. Martin, the engineer, was here by mid-afternoon and our boiler is once again watertight.
It's always something.
Meanwhile, the roofers working on the house next door set up a picnic lunch in the street, right in front of our steps. I'm not sure I've ever seen anyone eat lunch in the street before. I wondered why they didn't use the parking space in front of the house (it's full of roofing supplies, I realized later) or the back garden (maybe too wet). Anyway, they didn't seem to mind.
On the way home in the evening I stopped on Finchley Road for a bubble tea (I get the taro milk with tapioca beads). When this place first opened several years ago it was quite swanky, but now it's looking a little downtrodden. I still like their stuffed bubble-tea toys, even though they are themselves bearing the stains of spilled bubble tea.
Monday, February 9, 2026
A Quiet Day
It's official -- I'll be headed back to Florida in early March, for a quick trip to join a "celebration of life" for my stepmother. I bought my ticket yesterday. I bought premium economy again, and it wasn't much more than what I've paid in the past for tickets in regular economy, so I felt pretty good about that deal. More legroom and the world's most expensive glass of "complimentary" champagne!
That's about the only meaningful thing I did yesterday, besides realize that we'd better stop spending so much money. Between our travels at Christmas, our trip to Spain, our summer cruise to Italy, this new ticket to Florida and my new laptop, I am hyperventilating about our checking account balance. We have more in savings but I'd rather not rip through that like a racehorse on the straightaway.
I went out yesterday morning with grand plans to transplant a buddleia that was growing at the back of our garden, underneath our fig and ornamental plum trees. The location was far too shady and last year it didn't look so good. Well, no transplanting was necessary, because when I looked again yesterday it was dead as a doornail. This is not a crisis. We have more buddleia than we know what to do with.
So I spent most of the day on the couch, reading. I polished off three New Yorkers. Oh, and I organized and archived all my photos for the last month or so.
In the evening, Dave and I went to see "Melania." NO! I'm KIDDING! I would never pay money to see that ridiculous film and in fact I wouldn't even watch it for free because WHO CARES?! Mr. Pudding posted this brilliant review from Mark Kermode on his blog and I have to link to it here as well because I got such a kick out of it. "Melania always talks about working," Kermode says. "When she says working, she means trying on frocks."
Other memorable lines from his review:
"It's like somebody making a documentary in which Eva Braun feels sad about war whilst Hitler invades Poland."
"She makes Derek Zoolander seem smart and self-deprecating."
"In its final act, it basically turns into 'Triumph of the Will.' It's a piece of handsomely mounted, crypto-fascist propaganda...a heist movie about a crime family breaking into the seats of power and stealing the cutlery whilst destroying democracy."
Trump "claims to be a peacemaker and a unifier and the ghost of Leni Riefenstahl fills the room."
(Photos: Stickers on Finchley Road.)
Sunday, February 8, 2026
Rainy Walk and Coughing Fox
Free picture frame, anyone? Kind of a peculiar way to offer it up, and I'm afraid the rain hasn't done it any favors, but it's there if you want it. I also found a free chair (below) that I left behind.
I came across these treasures on an unexpected walk to work yesterday morning. I realized that I once again needed a computer cable adapter, this time to download the video from the garden cam to my new Mac. Remember how it only has two ports and my devices don't fit them? Also, Dave couldn't find his headphones and thought they were at work, and I had a couple of other things to drop off at the office. So I took a walk.
I got the adapter, dropped off the stuff and couldn't find Dave's headphones. And because I wasn't on a timetable I could make it a leisurely walk, stopping to take pictures now and then, even though it was raining lightly. I remember a photography teacher of mine telling me years ago to get out in all weather, because pictures on a rainy day could be just as interesting as those in sunshine and they offer all sorts of possibilities.
When I got back home, I went on Amazon and ordered my own cable adapter, which I should have done last week.
So that was the morning.
In the afternoon I spent time catching up on blogs and reading The New Yorker. Yes, I'm finally trying to work through my massive backlog of New Yorkers. I've been off the magazine entirely for several months but I intend to catch up. We'll see how that goes. Right now I'm reading an issue from August!
Here's what the garden cam yielded from the past week or so. At 0:24 we get a good look at a fox stretching, and at 0:43 we see one scratching and then hear the poor thing having a coughing fit. Wonder what brought that on? I suppose foxes get respiratory illnesses too, especially in this weather. At the one-minute mark we briefly see Pale Cat and then Tabby comes by at 1:29.
In the afternoon I did some springtime pruning. It seems a bit early but the roses are already putting out new growth so it was time. I pruned them back as well as the buddleia.
I haven't heard a thing from the tree man about clearing that ivy at the back. I think we've been ghosted. If I want it done I may have to do it myself. Which will be interesting, since we don't own a ladder.
We have crocuses, but as you can see, the squirrels are already gnawing the flower heads off!
I came across these treasures on an unexpected walk to work yesterday morning. I realized that I once again needed a computer cable adapter, this time to download the video from the garden cam to my new Mac. Remember how it only has two ports and my devices don't fit them? Also, Dave couldn't find his headphones and thought they were at work, and I had a couple of other things to drop off at the office. So I took a walk.
I got the adapter, dropped off the stuff and couldn't find Dave's headphones. And because I wasn't on a timetable I could make it a leisurely walk, stopping to take pictures now and then, even though it was raining lightly. I remember a photography teacher of mine telling me years ago to get out in all weather, because pictures on a rainy day could be just as interesting as those in sunshine and they offer all sorts of possibilities.
When I got back home, I went on Amazon and ordered my own cable adapter, which I should have done last week.
So that was the morning.
In the afternoon I spent time catching up on blogs and reading The New Yorker. Yes, I'm finally trying to work through my massive backlog of New Yorkers. I've been off the magazine entirely for several months but I intend to catch up. We'll see how that goes. Right now I'm reading an issue from August!
Here's what the garden cam yielded from the past week or so. At 0:24 we get a good look at a fox stretching, and at 0:43 we see one scratching and then hear the poor thing having a coughing fit. Wonder what brought that on? I suppose foxes get respiratory illnesses too, especially in this weather. At the one-minute mark we briefly see Pale Cat and then Tabby comes by at 1:29.
In the afternoon I did some springtime pruning. It seems a bit early but the roses are already putting out new growth so it was time. I pruned them back as well as the buddleia.
I haven't heard a thing from the tree man about clearing that ivy at the back. I think we've been ghosted. If I want it done I may have to do it myself. Which will be interesting, since we don't own a ladder.
We have crocuses, but as you can see, the squirrels are already gnawing the flower heads off!
Saturday, February 7, 2026
Daffodils
I just now took this photo in order to have something to put on the blog! I don't know why I haven't been more inspired to take pictures lately. A lot going on, I suppose. But for what it's worth, here are our daffodils, coming more fully into bloom as they usually do in February. (My hand is in the photo because the flowers flop in the rain, and it's raining AGAIN this morning.)
I had a really solid night's sleep last night, which felt amazing. I was exhausted. We've had some family drama that has consumed about 98 percent of my brain over the last couple of days. It's not anything I feel comfortable blogging -- at least, not yet -- but I talked to my siblings last night via Zoom and I think it's all going to work out OK. It's related to my stepmother's estate, and it's been an emotional roller coaster. Fingers crossed, we've arrived at a good place.
My next-door neighbor on the right -- the good neighbor who we almost never hear anything from, and whose wall we share -- is having some work done on her house. A huge scaffold has been built in both the front and the back, and I'm hearing some guys clambering around on it now. I think it's roof work. If it keeps out the rain, I'm all for it.
Meanwhile, I have no idea what's going on upstairs. It's been weeks since I've seen or heard anyone from the family that moved in after the Russians left last summer. Their car is still in the driveway but if they're home they're very quiet. I don't think they're around. Also, the apartment listing is still up, though it does say it's "under offer" and perhaps that's real-estate code for "unavailable." I can't tell what's happening. The mysteries abound.
I am looking forward to a quiet day at home, doing some reading and not much else.
Friday, February 6, 2026
Iguanas
Well, this has been a dispiriting week. My stepmother's death has knocked all of us on our backs, for a variety of reasons. I'm sick of hearing and thinking about Jeffrey Epstein and his disgusting cult of exploitation, and I'm sick of rain and grayness and winter. I'm in one of those moods.
Did you see the story about the iguana cull in Florida? Iguanas, which are not native to Florida but like a lot of exotic reptiles have run wild in many areas, do not react well to cold. When the temperature dips too far, their nervous systems shut down and they literally fall out of the trees where they live. They're not dead, just in a cold-induced torpor -- they reawaken when the temperatures warm up again. Meanwhile, it rains iguanas.
Apparently it's been so cold in Florida that iguanas have been dropping left and right, and the authorities have encouraged people to collect the poor helpless critters so they can be "humanely" euthanized. I understand that they're an exotic species competing with native creatures for limited resources, but still, this seems patently unfair to me. Talk about kicking someone when they're down! It's very effective as a public policy, though, and more than 5,000 iguanas have so far been killed.
See? Dispiriting.
It's also been a long week at work. Fortunately next week we only have a few days with students and then it's parent-teacher conference time, which means the library will be pretty quiet. Maybe I can do some back-office stuff and some shelf-organizing. And then Dave and I are off to Spain!
(Photo: A colorful window at Roche Bobois on Finchley Road.)
Did you see the story about the iguana cull in Florida? Iguanas, which are not native to Florida but like a lot of exotic reptiles have run wild in many areas, do not react well to cold. When the temperature dips too far, their nervous systems shut down and they literally fall out of the trees where they live. They're not dead, just in a cold-induced torpor -- they reawaken when the temperatures warm up again. Meanwhile, it rains iguanas.
Apparently it's been so cold in Florida that iguanas have been dropping left and right, and the authorities have encouraged people to collect the poor helpless critters so they can be "humanely" euthanized. I understand that they're an exotic species competing with native creatures for limited resources, but still, this seems patently unfair to me. Talk about kicking someone when they're down! It's very effective as a public policy, though, and more than 5,000 iguanas have so far been killed.
See? Dispiriting.
It's also been a long week at work. Fortunately next week we only have a few days with students and then it's parent-teacher conference time, which means the library will be pretty quiet. Maybe I can do some back-office stuff and some shelf-organizing. And then Dave and I are off to Spain!
(Photo: A colorful window at Roche Bobois on Finchley Road.)
Thursday, February 5, 2026
June
This is my stepmother, June, 40-plus years ago with our dogs Moldy and Mildew. Yes, those were their names. I could do a whole post on unusual dog names, but for now I want to focus on June, who died Tuesday night in Florida.
This did not come as a surprise. You may remember that when we went home at Christmas we discovered she was desperately ill and she went right into the hospital while we were there. She got some treatment and seemed to improve, and more treatments were planned, but she then declined very quickly. I won't go into great detail to protect her privacy and that of the family, but I will say that she had a bladder tumor that went untreated for a long-ish time, and that led to kidney and other complications.
My relationship with June was always a bit complex. I suspect this is true for any boy whose father marries another woman. My parents divorced in 1974 and my father married June in 1976, and my mother was never subtle about feeling wronged. In fact for about ten years she walked around in a rage. I was always fiercely loyal to her, and I couldn't get beyond the feeling that June was an interloper. This was neither true nor fair, which I came to see as I got older, but it colored all my interactions with her when I was a child.
She was younger than my mother and brought two children of her own into the family, a son and daughter by her previous husband. I've always thought of them as my stepbrother and stepsister and in fact I still call them that, but my father did adopt them so they're really just my brother and sister. Again, my terminology was affected by my mother's anger.
June was an interesting personality. She could be quite blunt and forceful, especially when dealing with us kids, and when I was young she hurt my feelings more times than I can count. But I think she never meant to be hurtful, and I didn't quite realize until adulthood that even her own natural children felt the same sting. She wasn't treating any of us any different. She was the oldest of seven kids in a large military family and she learned to make herself heard.
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| At a vacation condo on Longboat Key, 1980 |
She was a good cook and somehow cajoled my father into participating in a gourmet cooking group in the 1980s. (I think my father's participation exclusively involved eating.) She loved needlework and in her leisure hours could always be found on the end of the sofa in her living room, needlepointing or cross-stitching, sometimes at a frame with a large magnifying light. She made so much needlepoint and cross-stitch that she ran out of places to hang it all. She loved clothes and sparkly accessories and even had fur coats -- in Florida!
She was generous at the holidays and Christmases at Dad's always came with a big pile of presents -- far more than my brother and I got from our practical and somewhat abstemious mother. She loved playing cards and taught us all canasta, spades, hearts and other games, which we inevitably played after dinner on our annual weeklong beach vacations to Longboat Key. She was more fun than my mom, of that I have no doubt, and that's what my dad needed in his life.
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| Needlepoint at the beach, 1981 |
She was also a career woman. She started as a teacher and a typist -- which is how she met my dad, typing the manuscripts for the textbooks he wrote with a university colleague. She moved on to sales, first as a distributor of Foster-Grant sunglasses and then pharmaceuticals. She and my father occasionally got sent on sales trips to places like Bermuda or San Juan, which seemed very exotic to us. (We kids never got to go.)
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| June with Manny the chihuahua, 2015 |
In her later years she loved going on cruises, and I mean she LOVED them. My father wasn't big on traveling as he got older, so she would go cruising with her mother, my step-grandmother, and they traveled the world multiple times over. June went everywhere, sometimes two or three or more times. You may remember that after my father died, she bought us all a cruise. Last year she was on a worldwide cruise for six months, though I'm not sure how often she got off the ship.
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| June and her friend Marianne in Hyde Park, 2023 |
When Dave and I moved to London we met up with her a couple of times as she passed through town on her travels.
At times like this, it's a drag to live overseas. My brother and step-siblings are all gathered in Florida ironing out arrangements, and although I've told them I can come if I'm needed, I think it's likely that I will stay in England until they've nailed down dates for services. Then I can go back for those, and help with whatever still needs to be done.
So, how am I feeling about this? That's a good question. I'm mostly just stunned by the rapidity of her decline. I suppose I'm sad, but as I said, our relationship was complicated. We were friendly and even affectionate with each other, but the feelings, for me, were always a bit guarded. Maybe I never completely got over the sense that loving June would betray my mother.
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
Trendy Bates and a New Lamp
The weather was super-dreary yesterday, with cloudy skies and spitting rain. Even so, I had a moment at work in the morning when I thought, "I have to get out of here!" So I took a quick walk down the St. John's Wood High Street, and on my way back I passed these flats with their unusual windows.
Never mind what led to my moment of desperation. Let's just say I spent a lot of my walk thinking about how happy I am that I only have to survive my work environment for two more months. And not even that, because we have two weeks of break time during those two months. Deep breaths!
On the high street, at the Oxfam used book shop, I came across this Penguin boxed set of H.E. Bates novels. I haven't read anything by Bates in ages, but I liked the few books that I picked up in charity shops soon after we came to London (despite the dubious racial references). So I bought these. I might not read them all but we'll see.
I have no idea who that woman on the box is. The covers of all the books also feature attractive young women who probably have nothing to do with the plots. This set was published in 1973, and I guess Penguin was trying to make Bates trendy.
(By the way, if you click that link above, you can also read possibly my earliest blog reference to our avocado tree, describing the planting of the seed that produced it. So that tree will be 14 years old this summer!)
And remember those tiny teasel seedlings that were growing inside the seed head? Well, I carefully tugged them free and put them into their own soil in a seed tray. More teasels for the garden! (We don't really need more teasels but I couldn't watch those seedlings inevitably die, stuck in their spiny pod.)
Also yesterday, my replacement bedside lamp arrived via eBay. This is an identical match to the one the painters broke. Some of you mentioned in comments that they should have paid for it, and I suppose that's true, but it wasn't much money -- about £30 with shipping. It wasn't worth it to dicker with them. I just wanted to move past it!
Tuesday, February 3, 2026
I'm a Nigerian Prince
I got a notification from Ancestry shortly before Christmas that my DNA report had been updated. Apparently they do this from time to time, as they gather more and more information about global DNA and better refine their data.
You may remember that I first did this DNA analysis nine years ago, and it hasn't changed significantly since then. I am still overwhelmingly English -- and now they can even break down what parts of England I'm from. I have additional Scottish, Welsh and German ancestry, and traces from Ireland, Sweden, and West Africa.
It's that West Africa bit that fascinates me most. I have no idea what the story is there. I do have plenty of family from the South in the years before the Civil War, so it's not impossible that at least one of my ancestors had some African blood. Things like that certainly happened back then, as we all know from Thomas Jefferson's history with Sally Hemings.
What's interesting is how the source of my African DNA changes from one report to another. Initially, Ancestry said only that it was West African, and reported it as a "low confidence" result, so I considered it a fluke or a throwback to some distant primordial past.
But with each report it's become more specific -- the second report pinpointed Mali and a few other adjacent countries as the source. The third eliminated Africa entirely and folded in Norway and Iceland. (It seems to have dispensed with low-percentage results.) The fourth report brought me back to Africa with DNA more specifically linked to Ivory Coast and Ghana, but got rid of that Norwegian connection.
The newest version shifts my African roots to Nigeria. And as you can see above, it's very specific, right down to certain ethnic groups.
I have no idea how accurate this is, but as I said, it's not impossible. The accuracy seems more likely the more specific we get, and this is pretty darn specific. I'm not aware of any stories in my family about ancestors with African connections, but of course that's not the kind of thing anyone talked about back then. In American society, certainly before the Civil War but even afterwards, there were social benefits to "passing" for white.
I can see how it might happen. Let's use Sally Hemings again as an example. She was one-quarter African, but still enslaved, and she was having children by Jefferson, so they would be 1/8 African (assuming the Jeffersons had no African ancestors of their own). With each successive generation there's a greater likelihood that those descendants would marry further into white European-American culture. That kind of intermarriage could seemingly lead, in modern times, to results like mine. (I'm not saying I'm a descendant of Hemings and Jefferson, just that I could be a descendant of that kind of coupling, which was surely not rare.)
It's pretty fascinating. I wish my brother would take a similar test. I'd be interested to see if his revealed anything more, though obviously the DNA he inherited would be somewhat different from the DNA I inherited. He could be less African than me -- or more.
The "journeys" on my mother's side remain very accurate. My maternal grandmother was from southeastern North Carolina, which is shown as a "hot spot" on the map above, and my maternal grandfather's people were New Englanders and New Yorkers.
And on the paternal side, Ancestry zeroes right in on the ancestral home of my father's people in northern Arkansas.
Pretty fascinating stuff!
Monday, February 2, 2026
Trees, Pre and Post
Well, I finally got Lightroom working on my new computer. It took the "nuclear option" -- erasing the program entirely, as well as all of its past photo catalogs and the application that controls it, Creative Cloud. I tried to "uninstall" them but even the uninstall program gave me an error message, so I wound up just dragging anything that made reference to Lightroom or Creative Cloud into the trash and hitting delete. Then I was able to log in to Adobe using my regular log in and download a new, updated copy of both Creative Cloud and Lightroom (which is apparently now referred to as "Lightroom Classic").
I have all the photos backed up in both unedited and edited form, and of course I still have my old, creaky computer (for the time being) so I haven't lost anything. I can't imagine why I would need the old photo catalogs anyway. I think I'm fine moving forward.
It was such a relief to get that problem solved.
Otherwise, I spent the day doing stuff around the house -- more neatening up after our painting job, mainly. I re-hung parts of our bedroom curtains so they wouldn't droop so badly. We do intend to get better window coverings at some point. And I caught up on my blog reading, though I'm still behind on answering comments. Argh!
I never did post a picture of last week's tree-trimming job near the back wall, so here it is, in case you were curious. The tree guy removed a ton of ivy from this elder tree, but not all of it -- he kept the stems so we'd have some greenery at the top. I actually think it looks pretty good -- a bit bald and naked, like a new haircut, but it will grow out more naturally.
Here are some before shots from a few years ago, when we had a different tree-trimming crew neaten up this area. As you can see, the new look above is a big change.
Here's the tree on the other side, absolutely loaded with ivy, as well as a climbing rose. This is what I want the guy to come back and clean up, because as I've said, he's already cut the main stem of the ivy and it's all going to die. I'd like him to remove the greenery -- I don't mind if he leaves the bare stems that are adhering to the tree trunk, because I know they'd be hard to strip off. I just don't want all those dead leaves and branches hanging there. The rose can stay, though it probably needs some pruning.
He hasn't called me back yet. I get the impression he's not that interested in doing this second job, and it would indeed be difficult. But I hope he follows through. We shall see.
(Top photo: Some graffiti on the "Black Path" near the railroad tracks.)
Sunday, February 1, 2026
Tally Ho!
It's been so damp lately, baby teasels are sprouting from seeds still in the pod. I may put some of those in their own pots to cultivate them for spring!
Well, I'm back on a computer -- a new one, which I went out and bought yesterday. I usually go to the Apple Store in Covent Garden, but I suspected Covent Garden would be insane on a sunny Saturday, so I instead I took a bus up to the Brent Cross shopping mall. And wouldn't you know, that was insane too! Heaving, as the British would say. I navigated the mysterious sign-up-and-wait system of Apple Store shopping, and used my waiting time to pretty much settle on the machine I wanted.
After a painless transaction I emerged with a new 13-inch MacBook Air running the Sequoia OS, with 16 GB of memory (quite a bit more than my old machine). I can see all the keys -- they haven't been worn away by too much frenzied typing! And the screen is so new and clear and free of blemishes! It's also much lighter than my old machine.
So I'm pleased all around, except for one thing: I cannot get Lightroom, the Adobe software I use to edit my photos, to run on this new machine. You'd think it would be as easy as going to their website and downloading an update, but no. Nothing downloads, even when I'm signed in. Apparently this is a known problem. So I have to monkey around with that today.
I also had a bit of a kerfuffle about cables. The new Macs are so smooth and minimalist that they only have two cable ports, both requiring USB-C cables. There's no place to insert a flash drive or memory card or any regular USB device, like my camera. So I had to go back to the Apple Store to buy an adapter, and I realized moments after I bought one that it really wasn't what I needed, which they didn't seem to stock. So I took the tube to work and picked up the adapter I use there. Thus I was at least able to shift all my data to the new machine via my back-up drive.
I took the photo above outside the Brent Cross mall. I was amused by the "Tally Ho!" -- apparently that's the last stop in North Finchley, outside the Tally Ho pub. But it also seems like a friendly greeting!
I did a lot of other stuff yesterday too -- cleaned the kitchen, where the painters had splashed some stuff around the sink, repaired a picture frame that was damaged when it fell off our newly-painted wall (the nail was loosened by the painting), and re-hung two pictures with new hooks. I took care of some houseplants and trimmed some stuff back in the garden too. It's about time to prune the roses and the buddleia, but I'll give them another week or two.
Do you remember me blogging about Ben Wilson's chewing gum art? He's a street artist who paints on hardened bits of chewing gum left on the sidewalk. The piece above is located near the school where I work. I first wrote about it 13 years ago, and revisited it again eight years ago. As of yesterday, it's still there, albeit looking faded and worn. Its companion piece, also shown in those posts, is long gone.
Oh, the police arrested some guy for our neighborhood stabbing. Still no word on who was stabbed or why, or who was arrested, but I'm virtually certain this was not a random thing. It's likely to be a beef over drugs or women, as is often the case.
Saturday, January 31, 2026
Breakage and Police Drama
More blogging by phone today. I managed to get my computer working yesterday
enough to do a backup, so I haven’t lost any data, which is a blessing. (I
back things up every few months anyway, but my last one was in October, so I
was overdue and fortunate I made it work.)
Today, I’m off to get a new computer, I suppose.
The photo above shows my bedside table, which will give you an indication of
how desperate I was for a photo to blog. Here’s another tale of woe: The
painters broke my green glass bedside lamp, which I’d had ever since we moved
to London. (I picked it up free from a room full of cast-off household goods
being left behind by other teachers!) So for now I’m using that red desk
lamp, which was in the closet of our flat when we moved in. I’ve turned it
toward the wall for less direct light.
I’ve already ordered a replacement for my green lamp, which was an IKEA
product (“Lykta”). They’re no longer being sold but I found one on eBay for
not much money. It should be here soon.
What did we ever do without the internet?
Well, we were nicer to each other, for one thing.
Speaking of which, as I walked to work yesterday morning I passed this scene
on the next street over. The cops had not only the roadway closed but the
sidewalks too. This is a street where I walked Olga almost every morning when
she was younger and I think of it very much as our neighborhood, so I was
curious what happened. (Once a reporter, always a reporter.)
I asked one of the officers on the scene. He would say only that there had
been “an incident.”
It wasn’t until I got to work that I read someone had been stabbed! Yikes! The
story, as is often true here, is maddeningly short on details. But it happened
at 4:30 pm the previous day, and I do remember seeing a helicopter fly
overhead just as I was coming up my front steps after work. That was the air
ambulance, arriving to take the victim to the hospital. Apparently his
injuries are life-threatening.
I don’t ever remember anything this dramatic happening in our little ‘hood so
I’m eager to hear the rest of the story. Hopefully we will.
Remember how I just posted about “decline porn” and the safety of London?
Hmmmm.
I thought this was amusing. I happened to enter my first name into a Google search the other day (can’t remember why) and these are all the prompts that came up. It sucks that Stephen Miller is now one of the top standard bearers among the Stephens of the world! I had not heard of Stephen Hough or Stephen Bernard Libby, and “Stephen traitors” perplexed me until I learned he’s a participant on a TV show (called “Traitors,” obviously, which I have never watched).
Anyway, this might be fun to try with your own name. I have a feeling the lineup would be different if I were Googling from the USA. That list seems heavy on the Brits.
Friday, January 30, 2026
Back in Place
I’m blogging from my phone today because my computer has decided to completely die. I’m not sure what’s going on there. It worked fine yesterday when I got home from work and now it’s just showing me the red “recharge battery” symbol — and it’s been plugged in and charging all night. It won’t even turn on using the power cord. Argh!
I suppose I need to go buy a new computer. This one’s been around for a while. I think I got it in 2015.
Anyway, before that snafu, I was excited to report that our repainting project is DONE! Woo hoo! As you can see above, everything in the living room is back in place — including Dave. He and I worked a couple of hours after getting home from work to put our rooms in order.
And here’s the very blue bedroom. I like it! We have to re-hang the big picture on the left but that’s roughly where it goes. As you may have noticed, we moved the gigantic yucca from the living room to the bedroom because the ceiling there is higher. I’m a little afraid it’s going to fall on me in the night and put my eyes out. Wouldn’t THAT be a news story? “Man Loses Eyes While Sleeping.”
Please ignore the awful drapes — a problem still to be resolved.
Dave decided that he wants fewer tchotchkes sitting around, and despite all appearances I’m really not a tchotchke person either. So I’m going to box some of them up and stick them in a closet. As someone in the comments said a few days ago, painting provides a great opportunity to evaluate all your stuff — both ownership and placement.
And here's the Cranberry Crunch front door!
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