Tuesday, July 21, 2026
Chaos and Tragedy
Yesterday was completely chaotic. It started out well enough, with this peculiar boat pulling up alongside ours in La Spezia, which made a great photo with the sunrise. Is Warner Brothers getting royalties? I imagine so.
We disembarked the cruise ship at 8:45 a.m., and boarded our chartered buses for Rome at 9:30. It took more than an hour to drive the 39 miles from Civitavecchia to our hotel, the Marcella Royal near the Villa Borghese. We all piled out of two buses, dragged our suitcases two blocks to the hotel and stepped into the blissfully air conditioned lobby to find lots of other people already there -- some leaving, some arriving, some apparently just hanging out. It was madness for a while, with many people lined up in the sun outside (on a 97º F day -- that's 36º C) just waiting to even access the lobby. Dave and I were fortunately some of the first in the group so we at least waited inside. Eventually we were shown to our room.
We put our bags down and decided to go find lunch. Now, things get fuzzy for me here, and you'll see in a moment why this is important. I think I grabbed my camera bag, because we intended to go from lunch for a brief walk around a nearby piazza, and I wanted to be able to take pictures. I don't have a clear memory of carrying it to lunch but I believe that I did.
We ate at the little restaurant on the left, behind those triple-parked cars (which is why I took this picture, using my phone). The food was great -- bruschetta pomodoro and some sage ravioli for me, and a couple of beers. Then we wandered around the piazza, which turned out not to be a piazza at all but the Gardens of Sallust, a conference and arts center built into some Roman ruins. Interesting, but we didn't stay because it was deathly hot and we wanted to get back to the hotel. I took one more picture with my phone.
We got back to the hotel, and lay down for a nap. A couple of hours later, I woke up and wanted a drink of water. I looked for my camera bag, which contained my bottled water, and it was nowhere to be found in our hotel room. This is when I realized I must have left it behind in the restaurant.
I checked with the front desk just to make sure I didn't leave it in the hotel lobby, and they didn't have it. I went back to the restaurant, and they said they'd found nothing.
So I looked at the "Find My" function on my iPhone, because my AirPods were in my camera bag. They were shown as being in a neighborhood behind the Termini train station -- not an area I'd visited. Someone had clearly found/stolen and spirited away my camera bag.
I knew immediately that I was pretty much sunk. The odds of getting it back were minuscule. But Dave and I took a taxi to the address, determined to try. "Find My" showed (and still shows) the AirPods in the middle of a street, so we looked into parked cars and checked the area. Our taxi driver even helped. There were three large rubbish bins next to the street, and his theory was that someone discarded the empty bag (or maybe just the AirPods) in one of those bins, knowing they could be traced. I tried to get the AirPods to make noise but couldn't get that function to work, and I even unloaded the bins about halfway but found nothing. (And then I put the trash back, don't worry.)
So, yeah. My camera is gone. Not a loss I take lightly, and I hate the fact that I can't be exactly sure how it happened. My best guess is that I took the bag to the restaurant and left it on the floor beside my chair. Why I didn't realize it while we were walking around immediately afterwards -- and I was taking pictures with my phone -- I don't know. I blame the heat, the two beers and the chaotic day.
I filed a report with the Carabinieri so I can hopefully claim the camera on my travel or homeowner's insurance. It's an expensive camera (with three lenses) but it's also 15 years old, and it has done yeoman's work for all that time, so I'm not too broken up about it. There were no pictures on it -- I'd downloaded everything, fortunately -- and it has felt too heavy and antiquated for a while now. Maybe I'll buy a new one that better suits my needs at this point in my life. Or maybe I'll just use my phone and/or my stepmother's camera. I once had dreams of turning photography into some sort of profession, but let's face it -- all I'm ever going to do is blog.
Likewise, I don't mourn the AirPods -- a couple of years old and easily replaceable. I do mourn the loss of my house keys, which were in the bag, but we have spares. (I don't think it's likely that someone will fly to London to burglarize us, but I may look into changing the locks because our address is on the bag.) I carried an antique key on my key chain given to me 42 years ago by one of my best friends in high school, and I mostly hate to lose that key, even though it fits no lock.
I lost nothing else of value. My passport was in my pocket, thank goodness, along with my wallet and phone -- I never put any of it in a bag for just this reason.
I have a feeling I will be mulling this over for a while, trying to figure out exactly how and when I became separated from the bag and how I didn't notice for so long. Dave never noticed anything either, and his memory is as fuzzy as mine about when and where I had it last. As I said, it was a crazy day, and Rome is a crazy city, and it is what it is.
What's really bizarre is that this is the second camera I've lost in a traveling mishap in a Mediterranean country. I lost my old Canon AE-1 (a film camera) in 2000 when a taxi driver in Greece drove away with my backpack. And that time I lost my whole bag -- all my clothes, my undeveloped film, everything! Never got any of it back. So at least this situation isn't that dire.
We are going to try to make the best of our brief Rome visit today and see some sights before heading to the airport at 5:30 p.m. for our late evening flight.
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Well darn it, Steve. That sinking feeling in the pit of one's stomach as the realization dawns - ugh! That camera was an old friend, after 15 years.
ReplyDeleteChris From Boise
That sinking feeling -- exactly. It's such an awful sensation.
DeleteThat's one of those things that you will be thinking about for weeks.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you still have wallet, passport and phone but house keys with address is a worry.
Well, I belatedly realized the address isn't on the bag, so I think I'm OK in that sense.
DeleteThat sucks. But I’m glad you listed the positives, like the fact that the bag didn’t contain your wallet, passport, IDs. That would have made it a nightmare. Oddly, I was relieved to read there were no photos on the camera! I hope you can enjoy your time in Rome anyway.
ReplyDeleteYeah, losing photos would have made things much worse. When I lost my camera in Greece I was more upset about the film than anything else!
DeleteOh dear! That must be so disconcerting. I agree that acombination of the chaotic day, heat and beers caused this to happen. So weird about tracking the ipods but not finding them. I‘d change the lock on your front door, too.
ReplyDeleteIt could have been a lot worse, though. You are wise to never leave passport, wallet and phone in a bag.
I've never lost a passport but I've twice been pickpocketed and lost a wallet, and it's such a hassle.
DeleteOh I felt my heart sink when I read this, but was so relieved to read you had already uploaded the photos, (downloaded?) but still it's an awful thing to have happen. I agree you should get your home locks changed just in case.
ReplyDeleteHaving saved all the photos really DOES make everything better!
DeleteI do hate to lose anything, I would rather give away, hopefully your insurance will cover the loss.
ReplyDeleteI hope so! I would think under either travel or homeowner's insurance we ought to be able to collect something.
DeleteMy favourite nightmare! My husband and I have travelled a fair bit over the last 10 years since we retired, including several trips to Europe (from Australia), a couple of cruises, lots of overnight stays with relatives in the UK, and Australia, - and I am perpetually terrified of losing a bag, or more lately the smartphone, in exactly the same way. That is, putting the bag/phone down to do something else, and then forgetting to pick it up when moving on. Fortunately it has never happened to the point of loss - well, to be honest, it has happened once or twice, but we have been able to retrace our steps within seconds or minutes, and retrieve whatever it was, sitting just where I stupidly left it. Oh the horror, as Dr Spo would say. As I was reading this post, and seeing where it was going, the hair on the back of my neck stood on end. (Does this really happen, or does it just feel like that?) I have been loving all the posts from this travel jaunt. Will miss them when we get back to garden posts from London! LOL
ReplyDeleteWhen I was on our cruise ship, I left my phone on a treadmill in the gym. It was only a few minutes before I realized it, but gave me a jolt! (Clearly I didn't learn my lesson, though! LOL)
DeleteIt's not a Disney cruise ship?
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your camera and the stress it must have caused you. Hunting for it and filing a report must have taken time. There are better things to do in Rome, I'm sure. I advise phone number only on anything, not an address. If the thief knew someone in London, keys express by plane, well.....
Safe journey home, always the best place to be but it can take time away to appreciated it when you return.
No, it's some kind of a passenger ferry, I think. Disney doesn't own those characters.
DeleteActually, I belatedly realized only a phone number was on the bag, so I got lucky in that sense.
Well you did not lose your photos that is one consolation and you will be able to get a new camera which should inspire you once back in London. Your phone photos are not bad either. All in all you had a splendid holiday.
ReplyDeleteYes, this is a good opportunity to get a new camera, and maybe one that's not quite such a monster!
DeleteIt always stinks losing something like that even if everything is replaceable. I've traveled many times to the Philippines (and many other places) hauling around my camera bag, lenses and other paraphernalia but the last four or five years, I've traveled exclusively using my iPhone for picture taking. I'm not taking award winning photography to enter into contests. It just goes onto my blog and maybe the occasional photo album. The freedom of having another hand free while walking around with my phone in my pocket and not worrying about sitting down my camera while eating or doing other things is incredibly liberating. I gave my dSLR to my youngest to play around with at this point because I know I won't be going back.
ReplyDeleteThat's the thing -- when I thought I might be taking contest-worthy photography I needed that big camera, but realistically, that's not what I'm doing. The DSLR still has some advantages, mainly in photo quality and depth of field, but I might well be able to just cope with my phone.
DeleteBags on floors and on backs of chairs are the things of joy for thieves. Sorry it happened to you Steve. Rachel
ReplyDeleteNormally if I set a bag on the floor I keep the strap around my leg. I have no idea why I didn't do that this time!
DeleteOh no! I'm sorry to hear about your camera. That really puts a damper on the last of your holiday, but as you say, it could have been worse.
ReplyDeleteSafe travels home, Steve.
Yeah, I have to maintain some perspective about it. It's a tragedy but it's not THAT big of a tragedy.
DeleteFrom experience in my extended family, there's at least one theft occurring while in Italy, especially in the cities. Could just as well be taken from your hotel room, has happened.
ReplyDeleteThere is a very slim possibility that's exactly what happened, but I doubt it. We had computers in our hotel room and I would think those would have been taken too if the room had been burgled.
DeleteThe bag could have been stolen while you were still at the table. It can happen lightning fast. But I'm glad it wasn't worse. The tragedy in your title made me think people, not things. So in the scheme of things a big nuisance but nothing you can't recover from.
ReplyDeleteI was sitting in a corner and never left the table, so I don't see how anyone could have taken it while we were there. But yes, you're right -- "tragedy" is a relative term. This is a recoverable event.
DeleteClearly the rushing around the ship, getting off the ship., on a bus, to a crowded hotel, and then out to lunch makes it impossible to remember the bag!
ReplyDeleteI imagine someone saw it and thought it contained many valuables, and then it turned out to be nothing of value to them, only to you.
Well, the camera has value, just nothing compared to what I paid for it at the outset. I think the body sells used for $200-$300, and the lenses can each go for at least that much. I do think the craziness of the morning left me vulnerable.
DeleteLike you, I think what would bug me the most is not remembering the details of when it could have gone missing. But of course that's the point - if you were able to remember, then you probably wouldn't have lost it (unless it really was stolen while you were at the restaurant - not much you could have done about that, except notice sooner).
ReplyDeleteYes, that's what bothers me most! It's just so strange.
DeleteIt may take a while, but forgive yourself. Things happen.
ReplyDeleteThanks. That's wise and welcome advice.
DeleteI'm sorry this happened to you. Just puts a damper on the end of your trip. Glad you have what you need to get home. Safe travels!
ReplyDeleteWell, I suppose it's better that it happened at the end rather than the beginning! Otherwise I'd have spent the entire trip preoccupied with how to get the camera back.
DeleteWhat a shame for this to happen and put a blight on your holiday. I hope the insurance claim goes smoothly and you can start to indulge your camera passion with lots of research - there are many, many videos on YouTube - you'll be spoilt for choice.
ReplyDeleteI wish I enjoyed researching that stuff more. I'm honestly not a "gear" guy at all. I love composing, taking and processing pictures but I hate the mechanical end of it all.
DeleteOh man, but like you said, you had the important stuff in your pocket. And it was old so maybe an opportunity to get a new better camera. Like you I think I'd be most upset by the loss of the antique key. Bummer of a way to end the trip but at least it didn't happen at the beginning which might have cast a pall on the trip. Too bad you didn't take any pictures of the Gardens of Sallust because the description sounded interesting.
ReplyDeleteThe "gardens" looked interesting, kind of, but they didn't seem very photographable. It's a multi-story partially ruined building, renovated and expanded and partly underground, with some landscaping around it. I wasn't inspired!
DeleteI'll hope that someone has a conscience and actually mails your bag back to you!
ReplyDeleteOh, I wish. I hoped for ages that would happen with my Greece bag, but it never did.
DeleteYour check-in to the hotel sounds over-the-top! At least you and Dave were in the cool, while waiting for your room.
ReplyDeleteIt is disappointing when someone steals. Someone has your bag and camera, and they could take it to the police or mail it back. Choosing to steal with no sense of right or wrong makes me angry. That said, with the exception of the key, everything is replaceable and that's the best way to look at it.
Hopefully the rest of your day goes supremely well!
Yeah, although I did leave it behind, that doesn't change the fact that someone else stole it. I keep reminding myself of that!
DeleteThat is such a shame, but I do love your positive attitude towards it all. Perhaps if you manage to claim on the insurance you can get yourself a nice lightweight digital camera for future holidays, and to use on your wonderful days around your home locale snapping away at all the treasures you discover. I have to say as well, that your 'phone photos' prove that you are the one with the talent, not just your camera.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for those kind words. As Dave told me, "The camera is just a tool. The photos are in YOU."
DeleteOh Steve, I'm so sorry. That's such an awful way to end such a wonderful trip. It sounds like you have a positive attitude about it which is the best way to feel. It's just things and things are easily replaced. It's great that you had downloaded all the photos. Losing the photos would have been a much worse situation.
ReplyDeleteI just realized that as I'm writing this, you are probably on your flight home. Safe travels and welcome home.
I wasn't on my flight yet! We had a late one! Thanks for the kind words.
DeleteOh gosh Steve, what a crappy way to end a great holiday. But you did look on the positive side of things. You have your passport still, and the things lost can be replaced. Rome is a chaotic city, so how fitting this happened in Rome.
ReplyDeleteI'm just gobsmacked that I let my guard down so much, and I'm still not sure how it happened.
DeleteWell, the loss of the bag/camera sucks, but you have put it all into a good perspective. Bags being stolen in restaurants/bars is pretty common in European cities. A friend whose daughter is Parisian had her work laptop bag stolen from between her feet while she was standing at a crowded bar paying her bill. It was that fast and she didn't feel a thing. I've learned to either wear my (crossbody) bag on the whole time I am out and/or loop the handle around my leg and keep it between my feet in restaurants. Hope the rest of your trip is uneventful.
ReplyDeleteWow, that's crazy about your friend's daughter! I usually DO wrap the camera bag strap around my leg. I have no idea why I didn't in this case.
DeleteThat is unfortunate. Experience taught me (painfully) not to put anything where I can't see it, because I will leave it there. At least the passport is safe. You've had quite the trip.
ReplyDeleteI usually put my hat on top of the bag, which makes me remember it because if I get outside without my hat I'll realize it right away. But in this case, I put my hat on the adjacent table. Stupid!
DeleteWe’ve all done this at least once on a holiday so sorry xx
ReplyDeleteTravelers are vulnerable, in states of perpetual motion and confusion. It's easy for people to prey on them.
DeleteOh Steve, losing the camera (and lenses and the special key) IS a tragedy. Even if it's old and you wouldn't mind a replacement. And, the good news is that everything was downloaded, so you haven't lost your photos. I'm guessing when you heard the airpods you took photos of the car licenses in the area to share with the carabinieri, and maybe they could dig deeper in the bins (unless you went to the bottom). Although I'm sure by the time they'd be on it (and this stuff probably happens all the time) there would be little they could do. You had a great cabbie.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry your last day on such a wonderful holiday was so chaotic and sad. At least your l lunch sounded fabulous. Please don't beat up on yourself. It was a grim day and it was probably so good to just sit and have a lovely lunch -- well, it could happen to anyone. You have the most important stuff -- your wallet, passport, phone -- and Dave. But still... I'm so sorry.
I wish I had thought to take photos of the cars! I did look in the windows but didn't do anything else. In any case, the carabinieri didn't seem to enthusiastic to investigate. I imagine they see this kind of thing all the time.
DeleteWhat a shame! But as you noted, there are a lot of "it could have been worse" things about the loss. I would change the locks, just for peace of mind..
ReplyDeleteYes, it could definitely have been worse. As it turns out my address isn't on the camera bag. Whew!
DeleteIt's very stressful losing something like a camera. We go over and over our movements to try and find it.
ReplyDeleteIt really does put the brain into an obsessive tailspin!
DeleteOh Damn! I remember when you bought that camera, Excellent shots you have taken but it was cumbersome! A great opportunity to buy something more to your liking- easier to tote. Rome has such a weird vibe- but it is not everyone who can say " I lost my camera to the Romans" .
ReplyDeleteYes, I think this is a good opportunity to look into a camera that's better suited for my (advancing) age! LOL!
DeleteI am so glad that you downloaded your pictures, but yeah. That really sucks.
ReplyDeleteIt does.
DeleteI'm so sorry about the loss of the camera bag and all that it contained. It would bug me not to remember how I left it there but as you said, it was hot and chaotic.
ReplyDeleteThat's the worst part of the whole incident -- the hole in my memory!
DeleteThe triple parked Cars would make me glad I didn't drive around there! Now I'm up to speed on the Lost Camera Bag. Hot and Chaos plus losing something = not Ideal for a Vacay for sure to start the whole thing!!! At least you had downloaded your Photos. *Whew* That was the part I hated about my gifted Camera going missing, the Memory Card in it hadn't been downloaded yet so those Photos on it were Lost... and it was embarrassing that a brand new expensive Gift from a Blog Friend got Stolen within a Fortnite of receiving it too!!! I think some Young People that came into the Showroom while I was foofing it, saw it on the Cart of Merch I was stocking my Space with, and while some distracted me with Questions, one of the others Stole it. That's my best Guess coz it went missing the moment they left the Room and I was confused at first as to where had I set it down... on the Cart... by something in the Room... coz I was gonna Photograph the results of the Vignette I was making, so I did notice it MIA right away. By then that group had left the Mall, dirty deed accomplished, no telling how much Inventory they boosted from the Mall or other Vendors while there? Roving groups of Young People are doing that and it's a huge Loss Prevention Issue. The hole in our Memories is the worst part of those incidents tho', I agree.
ReplyDeleteI hate this for you. Of course it's not a real tragedy in the sense that no one was injured or anything but that camera has been like an extra limb for you for all these years. I remember you carrying it (I think) when we were in the archeological park in Cozumel. You took pictures of iguanas.
ReplyDeleteBut like Traveler said- forgive yourself. When something becomes so absolutely part of our routines, if we suddenly deviate for a second it's so easy to have forgotten the details and that makes us feel foolish but it's just human.