Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Zinnia and Jersey Tiger
Finally, FINALLY, a zinnia is making its appearance! It's taken a couple of months for the plants to get big enough to bloom -- when I look back at how tiny they were when I first planted them out, I guess that's not surprising.
We've actually done OK when it comes to seedling survival. I lost three zinnias almost right away, all to slugs, but two more zinnias, my four sunflowers and my cosmos have grown well. I planted an additional two zinnias a bit later that also seem fine. So we should have some more flowers coming up.
Dave and I went all the way down to Greenwich yesterday -- basically the opposite end of London -- to have lunch with our friends Mike and Sally, who live down that way. We hadn't seen them in more than a year, and before that it had been two years, so we really need to get better about spending more time together. Three of the four of us are retired now, so maybe that will help!
Anyway, we had lunch at the local Banana Tree (one of a chain of Asian food restaurants), and I had a yummy curry and two lychee mojitos. (They had a two-for-one deal on the drinks, and I could hardly let that second one go to waste, right?) I'd hoped to also visit my favorite junk shop in London, which is right down the road from there, but I had to get back home by 4 p.m. for a call with my financial advisor. We had to skedaddle.
And can you believe I didn't take a single picture on that whole outing? I must be losing my touch.
That's why you're getting more pictures of the garden.
When I took the trash out yesterday, I found a Jersey tiger moth sitting atop the bins. It seemed like a bad place to be, so I gingerly moved it to a nearby buddleia plant. I think it must have been newly emerged, or maybe just damp, because it seemed a bit clumsy and uncoordinated -- I tried to prompt it to fly so I could show you its beautiful underwings, and instead it just flopped over on its back. Message to moth: Don't do THAT when a bird is hanging over you! Anyway, hopefully once it dried out it became a bit more agile.
Dave and I had a weird experience watching an episode of "The Golden Girls" last night. (Yes, we watch "The Golden Girls." We are gay men of a certain age and it's required.) Blanche said to Dorothy and Rose, "I am abhorred," and of course that became the basis of a joke. But I think using "abhorred" that way is grammatically incorrect, isn't it? I don't think a person can BE abhorred, except by someone else; I think they have to abhor something. It's a transitive verb that needs an object.
In fact, we weren't even sure what she was saying at first. I had to put on the closed captioning to understand her -- a sure sign that I am becoming my parents!
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STEVE Hello?
ReplyDeleteFAGIN Hi Steve. It's me Fagin. Just calling you for a health check on your finances.
STEVE What do you advise Fagin?
FAGIN Well there has been unusual activity on your accounts but I have a solution.
STEVE What's that?
FAGIN Temporarily you need to transfer all of your money into one of my personal accounts. Then when I return from my holiday in The Bahamas we will make new arrangements to protect your money and see it grow.
STEVE Oh thanks Fagin! You are a great adviser. Can you give me your personal account details?
FAGIN I think that my offshore account in The Cayman Islands will be best. Are you ready for the numbers?
STEVE Go ahead Fagin...
That moth and your garden are lovely, watching the emergence of a dragonfly is also good. Surely you can only be abhorred by something that is tangible.
ReplyDeleteShe could be abhorrent. But I don't know why she'd say that about herself. I certainly appreciate your upholding the gay obligation about Golden Girls!
ReplyDeleteIt is funny wordplay. Replacing the familiar "adored" with "abhorred".
DeleteMy motto for planting just about anything is to plant enough for wildlife AND me.
ReplyDeleteI hope I understand this but can't you be abhorred by someone? And you could be a person who is abhorred. I don't remember Blanche mixing up words, so I doubt she meant adored. Your lunch with friends sounds nice, even if you had to cross the river.
ReplyDeleteBlanche was saying "I am abhorred" in a similar sense to "I am appalled." And abhorred can't be used that way. It was a setup for a joke, which if you click the video link in my post will make more sense. (It's too long to explain in writing!)
DeleteI'd never heard the word abhorred before so I looked it up:
ReplyDeleteAbhorred (adjective or past-tense verb) means to regard something with extreme disgust, hatred, or loathing. It describes a deep, intense aversion or repugnance toward an action, person, or thing.
Makes sense, though I would think Blanche would say appalled!!
Pretty little tiger moth! I hope it gets to live out its entire little life.
ReplyDeleteI am pretty sure that you're right and "abhorred" is definitely not used correctly but they were able to get the cheap "whore" joke in there.
We had lunch in a pub in Greenwich - near where my grandmother was born.
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