Saturday, September 5, 2026
An Anemone and More Bureaucracy
When I was walking Bailey on Thursday we passed a house where someone had thrown away several pink anemone plants, or at least cuttings from them. Why anyone would do this I have no idea, but I broke off a stalk with some flower buds on it and brought it home, and stuck it in some water, and yesterday morning was rewarded with this flower.
Our own anemones are having an off year, partly because of the drought and partly because they've been relentlessly trampled by the dog. In fact, I'm not sure they're all going to survive. But at least we now have this one flower and maybe we'll get a few more. Maybe the stalk will even root, though I doubt it.
Yesterday morning as I walked Bailey we got caught in an absolute downpour, the likes of which I haven't seen around here in a while. It didn't go on long but it really came down -- we got 1.8 mm of rain yesterday and I think it all fell in the span of about ten minutes. Anyway, Bailey and I ran part of the way home and then ducked into a doorway on Finchley Road for shelter and watched passing traffic in the deluge.
Apparently I'm going to have to get back in the habit of carrying around an umbrella, or at least looking at the weather forecast. This is a good thing, though. Maybe our drought is gradually easing.
Then I got a terrible jolt when the mail came. My stepmother's bank sent me a letter outlining the documents I needed to re-submit to claim my portion of her estate, and in addition to everything I've already submitted, including the recent apostilles, they asked for a "US Transfer Certificate" from the IRS. Now, I'd never heard of this -- and when I looked online, it seemed obvious that this document does not apply to my stepmother. It's needed when a US citizen or non-citizen taxpayer dies while living overseas. My stepmother lived and died in Florida! In addition, the IRS clearly says the certificate is not needed if a decedent's estate is being administered in the USA -- as in this case, by my stepsister. So what the heck was this bank talking about?!
I was tied in knots about this all morning, because if I'm required to get this document, it will mean waiting up to 18 months (!) according to the IRS, not to mention notarizing and certifying a whole raft of additional paperwork. And it MAKES NO SENSE. Some idiot at the bank either just looked at my London address and assumed my stepmother died here, or doesn't understand what the Transfer Certificate is for.
Finally, the clock ticked around to afternoon when I could call the bank in the USA, and I did. I explained the situation and the helpful Miriam "put in an expedited ticket" to get the "business office" to re-examine their demand for the Transfer Certificate. I'm supposed to call again next week to get the verdict.
And then we had the whole Blogger commenting situation. Like many of you, I couldn't comment on my own blog and I couldn't comment on anyone else's. I spent a bunch of time clearing my cookies and trying different browsers and my phone and restarting my computer, all to no avail. Eventually it became clear that this problem was bigger than me, so I left a complaint with Blogger, as did a bunch of other people, and these were consolidated into a single thread in the help center which tracked the problem. Now it appears to be fixed, insha'allah.
But bloody hell -- it was one of those days. By the time Dave got home yesterday evening I was in dire need of a martini (or possibly two) and a couple of episodes of "Keeping Up Appearances."


Thank goodness comments are being published today - it was just one sided conversations yesterday which are no fun at all.
ReplyDeleteLooks like a useful rain there - same here Friday morning.
Yeah, it's nice to have some feedback, isn't it?! :)
DeleteNot your best day then? I hope today is more relaxing for you.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely not! :)
Delete"Prince Haulage Ltd."- So that's how they shift Prince Harry around! It's a clever security trick spoilt by the obvious fact that they declare their mission in big white letters on the side of the vehicle.
ReplyDeleteunlike shifting the "big man" to a different jet in a concessions cart (or whatever it was)
DeleteOr maybe it's Prince William? Or would he have a fancier lorry?
DeleteI didn't bother complaining to Blogger, I knew it must have been THEIR problem not ours since so many of us were affected. I decided to just wait it out.
ReplyDeleteYou will have to start carrying an umbrella, but what about Bailey?
I hope the snafu with the estate is soon sorted.
I wasn't immediately aware it was affecting everyone else, so I wasn't sure. Bailey will cope with the rain! She's a dog!
DeleteI have the "Whole Bucket" on DVD for days like that.
ReplyDeleteExcellent! I have "Absolutely Fabulous" in its entirety -- also a welcome indulgence.
DeleteIt just doesn't stop with the legal stuff, does it? I hope every single thing works out and quickly. Will being in the US for your holiday help (as in visit the bank?) or is the issue on the UK side? I hope it's done. I complained to blogger too. Glad it's back.
ReplyDeleteThat's exactly my back-up plan. If I get a negative answer from the bank I'm going to refile everything from Florida using my Florida address.
DeleteMy father's estate was quite easy to get through probate for the most part; a few glitches but nothing too terrible. The worst part was dealing with the attorney handling probate who died a few months into the probate!!
ReplyDeleteHopefully it gets straightened out, kinda like Blogger.
Oh no! Talk about unexpected complications!
DeleteAt this point I'd be ready to relinquish my claim. Money isn't worth this kind of agita. I'm glad rain is returning. I expect everything will green up now.
ReplyDeleteI've seriously thought about it, especially since it's not much of a claim in the first place.
DeleteFinally, able to comment again! I think your theory of the bank wanting to keep the money themselves is looking more and more likely.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it? They're really making some ridiculous demands.
DeleteFrankly, I was relieved to have a day off of commenting both on others' blogs and my own. I wasn't worried about the issue at all. I'm feeling less concerned about certain things I have no control over these days. It will be what it will be, I suppose. And do we write our blogs just to get others' reactions? And are our own reactions to others' blogs really that important?
ReplyDeleteIt seems to have become so. But I do realize that without comments, we're sort of shouting (or whispering) in the dark.
That's probably a very healthy approach! I agree the inability to comment was a relief in some ways, but I wanted to be sure Blogger knew they had a problem on their hands.
DeleteP.S. We've evidently traded. It has been hot and dry for the last couple weeks and the ten day forecast shows more of the same. I'm ready for a change already even after the moisture rich coolish summer we had for most of it.
ReplyDeleteModeration in all things, as the Buddha said!
DeleteIt seems that there are many imbeciles in government service. They don't know how to read.
ReplyDeleteWell, this isn't even the government. It's a private bank making these demands.
DeleteBrutal - Just Flipping Brutal
ReplyDeleteBig Hugs ,
Cheers
Right?!
DeleteBureaucracy drives me crazy, as do large companies where you can't easily talk to a person. I'm glad you made a complaint to blogger because I have no idea how to do that either.
ReplyDeleteHopefully you took some deep breaths at the end of the day. This too shall pass.
It's ridiculous and infuriating that it's so difficult to call these companies and get someone on the phone who knows what they're doing, rather than a flunky in a call center with no power.
DeleteWe got some rain! Just kidding. It was about 10 minutes of a shower, not a hard rain which we need. Can't your brother in law deal with the bank on your behalf?
ReplyDeleteNo, we all have to file our own individual claims as beneficiaries. Apparently the executor can't do this for us.
DeleteAND that is why we have an attorney to deal with paper work and forms and such . I could not do what you have done!
ReplyDeleteThat was one helluva squall you got caught in. I left my best rain jacket in spiderman's hole, regretfully- it had a hood with a bill that fit nicely in sudden rain. Another reason to not like spiderman.
Beautiful save- the little pink anemone - fresh as a new born.
I remember you lamenting the loss of your jacket. I should have gone down there and fetched it for you! Probably too late now.
DeleteThat sounds so typically "government". Ugh. It WAS a bad day yesterday. I fell for the first time in years and I'm getting too old for that!
ReplyDeleteOh no! I hope you're OK! This wasn't "government" so much as "corporate" -- the bank is making this demand, not the IRS.
DeleteHope the estate gets settled soon. I'm sure your garden was happy to see that rain.
ReplyDeleteI hope so too!
DeleteThat is a beautiful anemone blooming in your vase. Nice rescue, Steve.
ReplyDeleteMoving money from one country to another is not well understood. When I inherited Sterling from a UK aunt, the UK solicitor/attorney could not electronically transfer funds to my US bank. One would think electronic transfer is universally common. I eventually got a check for Sterling, and my bank converted it to US dollars. Why do things have to be so inefficient?
The downpour was good for all the dry ground. Even a little rain helps.
It boggles my mind how difficult it is to move money from one country to another, and to live in one country while having resources in another. You'd think the world would be past this by now.
DeleteThat thing with the comments was very annoying. I'm glad they got it fixed. However, it looks like you had even more annoyances yesterday. That bank issue is extremely annoying. As you probably already know, I'm a former banker and I can assure you it should not be that difficult.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you've seen your share of intra-bank incompetence! People just like to pass the buck in these gigantic organizations rather than making a decision.
DeleteLizard people. I tried to tell you.
ReplyDeleteYOU DID! LOL!
DeleteArgh! Banks, lawyers, and estates. And from across the ocean. What a pain in the ass (oh, arse). Hope that gets resolved properly, and quickly. Drink a martini for me, too. I miss those. Maybe that will be my September splurge drink. Hope the rain is a sign of better times where you are.
ReplyDeleteI think an infrequent splurge on a martini is a wonderful thing! I keep thinking of you and the difficulties you had resolving your mother's estate from overseas. It's a nightmare.
Deletepaperwork!!! and people assuming without asking...exasperating!!!
ReplyDeleteI seems that whatever weather we are to receive will be exaggerated.
Dog...and umbrella...hmm!!
I can only guess that they made that assumption -- because otherwise the demand REALLY makes no sense!
DeleteSomeone at that bank seems to not know what's going on and hope that your talk with Miriam and explaining the situation will bring a resolution. Seems everyone was in the same loop as fr as not being able to comment on their own or anyone else's blog, yet Wordpress commenting was OK. Like yourself, I also tried clearing out websites and turning the computer on and off but beyond that decided to take a "wait and see" attitude. Things seem to be back on track, and wonder what the issue was that caused the problem.
ReplyDelete"Wait and see" is often the most effective solution to things like this!
DeleteTo look up the reason for the document was very wise.
ReplyDeleteUnless I've been messing about with settings or whatever on my computer, I generally just wait and see what happens. With a lack of comments on any blog, it was pretty clear that something big was underway.
I was a bit concerned because Chrome had recently updated, and I thought the commenting problem might be related to that. As it turns out, no.
DeleteI have faith that Miriam's expedited ticket will solve the problem. It's similar to one of the way I solve problems for clients when it's something I can't change myself.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
I hope so! I will definitely report back!
DeleteI too couldn't Comment on anyone else's Blog for Three maddening Days! It did self correct now. The Banks anymore hire people that have no idea what they're doing. I'm a Retired Bank Executive and I swear I wanna implode when dealing with Today's financial Institutions and their Employees. If I have to tell them how to do their job and the legal liabilities they're courting, I want their paycheck sent to me, they haven't earned it. Mini rant over, I hope all that mess works out for you so you can collect your inheritance without it being a further Dog and Pony Show. We've been getting crazy Storms, blew half the roof off my RV Garage and we're still dealing with the Insurance, Claim, etcetera while our Contractor is on Hold waiting to receive the Money for the supplies... the deductibles now are Insane. It's 1% of what they deem your Property Value is per Claim, luckily they are Idiots and deemed our Property worth $300,000 less than it actually is *whew*... and 2% for anyone on the East Coast, yowsah! And ouch. Our Contractor said he'd cover the deductible, I have to imagine he knows how much they are now? That Flower is just Beautiful, glad you rescued it.
ReplyDeleteThree days?! Wow, that's longer than I had to deal with the problem. Glad it's fixed! So sorry to hear about your RV Garage -- what a nightmare. Banks nowadays hire very inexpensive people, often overseas, to deal with their customers and meanwhile they have hollowed out all their staff and offices in the states. It's a shame.
DeleteAh Hyacinth. I watch Penelope Keith in To The Manor Born or The Good Life as consolation for a bad day or just because. Along with Ballykissangel. After Henry with Priunella Scales and many other classic britcoms.
ReplyDeleteYes, classic britcoms are always a balm for the soul! I haven't watched all those shows you mention -- I should try them!
DeleteI had to serve as the personal representative for two different estates and hope I NEVER have to do so again. Bureaucratic chaos. Hope the transfer certificate issue works out in your favor!
ReplyDeleteIt really is a nightmarish job. Fortunately, living overseas, I tend to be exempted from most executorial tasks. My brother handled my mom's estate and my stepsister is handling my stepmother's (and by extension, what remains of my father's).
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