Tuesday, February 18, 2025

Another Day in Paradise


Morning: Eggs, toast, grapefruit on the front porch. The weather is cool and crystal blue. The next-door neighbor, Tom, stops by to ask how Dave's parents are doing. He seems shocked by the suddenness of their move, but we explain how it happened -- Dave's dad's back injury, and how it left his mother (who has her own mobility issues) unable to care for him. Tom goes into a monologue about his Dutch heritage and his history in Michigan.

When we later tell Dave's parents about Tom's visit, they roll their eyes. "That guy likes to talk," they say.


Dave's sister leaves to take the parents to some doctors' appointments. Dave and I drive out to Anna Maria Island to see the hurricane damage. On the Cortez waterfront, the Seafood Shack stands decimated -- "crushed by the storms," as my brother wrote earlier. We all ate here as children. Now it's going to become a public dock and marina.


And of course, the Rod N' Reel Pier, which I wrote about last fall after Helene damaged it and Milton destroyed what was left. The sign says they intend to rebuild. A guy in biking gear is taking selfies next to the fenced-off pier entrance, decorated with wreaths and flowers. He shares his stories of fishing here with friends while growing up in Bradenton. I share mine of late nights with college friends, sitting on the end of the pier with bottles of Miller Lite, watching fish churn the water and a Space Shuttle launch on the other side of the state, blazing a trail like a shooting star in reverse.

Dave and I drive back to the mainland, navigating horrendous high-season traffic, to join his parents for lunch at Discovery Village. Dave and his sister go back to their apartment to assemble more furniture and fill out 10-page insurance forms that inexplicably come with multiple envelopes, yet all seem to be going to the same place.

I duck out for a Starbucks coffee and find this:


What is it about Trump that creates this kind of enthusiasm? People loved Reagan, Kennedy, Clinton, Obama, but none of them, to my knowledge, inspired their own roadside shops. Neither did Newt Gingrich, Barry Goldwater, Rush Limbaugh or other earlier heroes of the rabid right. I suppose it's because Trump is not just a man. He's an attitude.

I drive back to Discovery Village and we hang around until dinnertime, when we go to a nearby Italian restaurant. We find an easily accessible table and park Dave's parents' walkers next to a wall. A jazz band plays too loudly and I, trying to eat healthy, get the biggest, most ridiculous salad I have ever seen, topped with about half of a full-sized chicken (diced). I eat a third of it, bring home the rest and throw it away.


Today I'm off to Tampa to meet my brother for some family business before heading north to Jacksonville.

24 comments:

  1. "Trump is not just a man. He's an attitude." That is an incisive observation. What did it mean to vote for Trump? A vote for the 1960s, for the elusive American Dream, for brashness and rule-breaking and the "can do" philosophy of the early pioneers. And of course his voters had regularly seen him on TV in "The Apprentice". I wonder if The Trump Shop sells Trump punchbags?

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  2. Oh, the politically misguided folk of Florida. Wile they are looked after and cared for by Latin immigrants, legal or not, they are also surrounded by gay and lesbian people too. Yet they vote for hate and the hater #47. It's disappointing, to say the least.

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  3. I am glad to hear you are seeing your brother while you are there. I was wondering if you would be catching up with him too on your short visit. Glad it is all going well and I like your heading today, sounds joyful.

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  4. That sounds like a busy time. Dave and his sister are very good to the parents. They're lucky people to have them and to afford their new place. Good for everyone. And you're seeing your own folks,too. All good!

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  5. Seeing that "shop" all I can think of is "Tell me you're in a cult without saying it."

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  6. In a different era, I enjoyed visits to Florida. But I’m glad all seems to be going well. You’re good sons/son-in-law.

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  7. Glen and I went to Anna Maria once and went to both the Rod 'n' Reel pier and the Seafood Shack because of course that's what you do. Did.
    Sometimes salads are so calorie-laden that you might as well just have gotten the spaghetti alfredo.
    That Trump thing is disgusting and horrible and I hate it and yeah, that, too, is Florida.

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  8. Another Excellent Stateside Update - You Know I Believe In My Heart That The Donald Is A Complete Phuc But He Is A Marketing Genius - He Has The Entire Country , If Not The World , Mentioning His Name Hourly - Safe Travels Up North , Enjoy The Vacation Time With Mr Dave , And Hopefully The Family Matters Are Taking Care With Sympathy And Compassion

    Stay Strong ,
    Cheers

    P.S. Missing The Photos Of Ol Olga Girl

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  9. That sounds like a lovely, productive day (at least for Dave & his sister). I've been saying that Trump is a mascot. The people who love him sure do love him. Sigh.

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  10. Hmmm... nice shop. So tastefully done.

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  11. You are a brave man walking that closely past that obscene shop. It would have made me very nervous to be that close. Kind of like how I tend to slow down or change lanes when I come up behind a car covered with equally discouraging stickers.
    Your salad story made me laugh. Who eats a salad that big? I've been served salads like that too.
    Looks like the weather is looking good but I see it was windy from that first photo.

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  12. I certainly would want to put a bomb in Trumps pants if I were younger and more adventurous. Not that that would help the "attitude" , that seems to have taken over - reality, step aside rational...zombies of stupidity taking over. But really who is being stupid here- we let them take over. so.....
    Florida is just another state where Stupid is born and gets solid grounding/ We live so far from there- up in the corner where stupid pretty much gets a beat down- so far. Our state is on trump's death wish list.
    There is one house in town that decorates in the same way with fervor, rooting for their favorite mad dog in a fight with kittens...

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  13. You sound ground down by the insanity of it all, climate change and trump stupidity.

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  14. It sounds like Dave's parents are getting nicely settled at DV and the support systems will meet all their needs.
    FL landmarks destroyed by the storms will be missed. Rebuilding seems filled with conflict and doubt. Will the next storm destroy the new builds?
    The DT FL mentality is strong. The posters covering the building shows lots of support. Typical FL. That said, in MA we have a core group of DT supporters. Two friends/neighbors have recently bought second properties in FL. One has just completed an ocean front rebuild/repair due to storm damage. He tells me...that is the cost of living in paradise!

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  15. When the Chinese tariffs start taking hold, that shop owner will no longer be able to afford his mass produced plastic icons. Given a choice between necessities and buying junk, traffic should fall off pretty quickly. I would like to see this store in six months.

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  16. Enjoy all of this and especially the mild climate. What is a shop like that selling, apart from hats and flags? Anything useful, like stuff you could throw at something and make a very loud noise?

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  17. That blue sky is intense and the Seafood Shack is damn near the same color it almost disappears. In fact it is the same colors, just in different places. What will happen to Dave's parents place in the park? Does his sister live in Florida? Rebuilding never restores the charm. They always want to make it bigger and better.

    And the Trump shop? I don't get it either and I do actually blame 'you' for voting for Trump.

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  18. I don’t get it either but according to the Trumpers within my circle, he is the first president to cater to them. I think it highly debatable as to the amount of catering but they are convinced.

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  19. As for the "trump Shop", owned and patronized by the very people that he's going to screw the worst. Thus it is ever with cults.........

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  20. Your story about the salad and taking the leftovers home and throwing them away made me laugh - I would have done the same thing. I don't trust food that has been at room temp for long enough to tackle it once, wait for me to decide it's time to leave the restaurant, and get home to a refrigerator!

    I just don't understand the cult of MAGA. The first I ever saw Trump was on "The Apprentice" and my immediate and continuing impression of him was that he was an egotistical, casually cruel man. I don't get the draw for people. I've seen and read interviews with folks who voted for him and even when they acknowledge his crassness, his lies, and his failure to deliver on campaign promises, they still say they'd vote for him again and they appear to worship him. Why?

    On a more cheerful note, I'm glad Dave's folks are going to be in a place where they will get the support they need. I suspect that Dave's sister has been doing a fair bit of the heavy lifting (metaphorically and maybe literally) until now. This should be less worry for Dave as well. Kudos to the parents for making the hard decision.

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  21. Glad Dave is able to be there to help his folks. It's a lot of work and stress to make such a big move. I'm glad his folks are adapting and hope they are happy there.

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  22. Salads don't keep well so I would have thrown it away too. The weather sounds lovely, but the politics are atrocious. Trump's attitude is piss poor--as is his "governing" style.

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  23. It's a challenge setting up parents in a senior facility.

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  24. How is the food at Discovery Village? Institutional feeling?

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