Saturday, May 30, 2026

Larvae, and a Musical Neighbor

Speckled wood butterfly on our "Bowl of Beauty" peony

I pre-wrote some of this post last night, thinking that rather than blogging, I would be on my way to Heathrow airport early this morning to pick up my brother and his family. They're visiting for a week from the USA -- the first time they've come to England! A landmark occasion for all of us.

But then my brother texted in the middle of the night and said the first leg of their flight landed late and they'd missed their connecting flight to London, so they're on a later plane, coming in around 1 p.m. (They're going to be exhausted.) And I'm blogging as usual.

With that in mind, I spent yesterday getting the house ready for visitors. I mowed the lawn, for example, and dealt with simple cleaning. There's more to be done but it's presentable, which is about as good as it ever gets around here. (They're not staying with us -- they have a hotel -- but the place still needs to look decent.)


While cleaning up the garden I threw out lots of flower stalks from the green alkanet. The flowers have more or less faded and I don't want them going to seed. We already have more alkanet than we can handle.

But while throwing them in the garden waste bag, I saw several little larval ladybirds like the one above (which was on a hellebore). They're attracted to any plant with aphids, which they eat -- and alkanet has plenty of aphids. So then I had to extract the alkanet from the yard waste bag and examine the stalks to make sure I saved what larvae I could find. I retrieved about ten of them and put them on some of the remaining alkanet in the garden.

This is why I hate weeding. It not only kills the weeds, but whatever critters are living ON the weeds!

Then, in the afternoon, I went to a pub outing with some former co-workers. It was a farewell hurrah for another guy who's retiring, and for my former boss's boss, who's also leaving. It was fun catching up with everyone from work again. Have I really only been gone six weeks? It feels like a lifetime! I have one more going-away event to attend on June 12, our end-of-the-year luncheon, and then I will be well and truly finished with that job.



Here's a weird little video for you. Through all the warm weather last week, I kept hearing a woman singing operatically. I couldn't figure out where it was coming from, and in fact I still don't exactly know. It's from one of the apartments behind us. Apparently we have a neighbor who's a singer, or fancies herself one.

I thought I'd share this little urban peculiarity. In the video I think she's just singing scales, or some rudimentary vocal exercise. The sound isn't terribly clear but if you crank the volume you should hear her right at the start, and then around the 15- and 30-second marks.

We often have perplexing music coming from those apartments. Remember our flutist from years ago? I'm not complaining, though -- it's better than listening to leaf-blowers and lawn mowers!

Incidentally, it's interesting to see -- in that linked video clip of the flutist -- how healthy our mock orange (Philadelphus) looked. It's quite straggly this year, with few leaves and flowers. I'm not sure why.

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  1. Mock orange blooms on last year's growth; we learned the hard way that the time to prune it is immediately after it has finished flowering. Next year's flowers appear on this summer's shoots!

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    1. Yes, we did know that. One of our mock oranges is fine, but the other is very twiggy with few blossoms or leaves. I suspect it has something to do with a tree the neighbor planted that blocks some sun.

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  2. Our mock orange is giving off loads of sweat scent, very nice as it is close to our composters.

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    1. We have one near the patio that smells nice too!

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  3. I hope that your brother and family have a lovely time here. What/where do you plan to show them/take them? Luckily that awful oppressive heat of earlier in the week has gone, though maybe they are used to such heat? Look forward to photos of them. Are there kids involved?

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    1. Unfortunately my brother is very privacy-focused, so there will be no photos on the blog! Maybe from a distance. :)

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  4. It's great that your brother and his family will be here in Merrie Old England for the first time. With an adopted Londoner as their guide, I am sure that they will have a better experience of London than American visitors who have to find their own way round. But if they wish to visit some of the real England, please send them up to Sheffield for a couple of nights. They can stay here in The Pudding Hotel which is managed by a man who has based his persona on Basil Fawlty.

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    1. Alas, they may not make it to Fawlty Towers North, but I will make sure they know they're invited. :)

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  5. I am happy for you that your brother and his family are visiting. You are right, they will be very exhausted from their travels when they arrive. I hope you all have a great time.

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  6. Have a great visit showing them the sights!

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    1. They say they don't want to do touristy things. They want to see the "real London."

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  7. I did raise the volume but I could only hear some distant squeaks.
    Very wise to have family stay at a hotel. I'm sure you with all your free time, you will be a wonderful London guide.

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    1. There were also birds in the video, so if it sounded like squeaks I think you were hearing those!

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  8. How fun your brother and all are coming. They'll have a wonderful time with a "native" (almost) as a guide for the major and the offbeat. How long are they staying? And just London or will you get them out of town for a day trip. So many options!

    I'd much rather hear the singing than the noise-boys we have at the lake who come to mow lawns that don't need it more than a few times a year (or are so big that you wonder why anyone would want to live there. Don't start me.) It's not too bad at home because lawns are small and people mow when they need to with small mowers and not "big things" that require a trailer to haul. Have a great time with the family!

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    1. They're not here long -- six nights. We've talked about going down to Brighton, maybe? Depends on the weather.

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  9. How nice that your brother and his family are visiting! Hope you have a wonderful time showing them around.

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  10. What fun! A visit with your brother's family will be a great change of pace for you.

    What I love about how you hate killing things is that it often gives ME an excuse to not do yard work. Which is silly because you do a LOT of yard work, so why I'm inspired in the other direction is a mystery. (Not really - I'm basically a slug and only pay attention to things that give me permission to continue to be a slug.)

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    1. Yeah, it is a good excuse to just let things slide. I do a lot of yardwork but not nearly as much as is optimally required!

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  11. You say "There's more to be done but it's presentable, which is about as good as it ever gets around here." That's how I feel when visitors come, too. I'm never going to have the perfectly clean house, but I make the effort.

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  12. Oh, Steve. I have smashed THREE of the Georgia thumpers in the past week that were in the garden. And they are not small although they haven't yet reached full maturity. I had such mixed feelings about it. There are SO many of them and they are pests who eat my plants but they are living beings.
    It's a confusing situation.
    I hope your family has a great time visiting you! Even if there aren't many pictures, I will love hearing the stories.

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    1. Ugh. I couldn't stand to smash them just because they're so BIG! I think cars kill a lot of them. You could always just set them out on the road. :)

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  13. How great to have your brother and family visiting. I bet you will have fun.
    Your opera singer made me chuckle. I think I told you that my friend Riley coaches opera singers. Before he and David recently bought a new house, they had one of the singers come to the prospective house to sing to make sure the singing didn't carry through the walls and disturb the neighbors.

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    1. Funny! That's a consideration most of us don't have to think about, right?!

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  14. How wonderful to get a visit from family! I agree that the place needs to look decent; I always clean before any visits or Book Club, then wonder why, since it doesn't look that much different. Except to me!

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    1. Well, that counts for something -- to give you greater confidence and ease as a host!

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  15. Mock orange is lovely and I find some years are better than others for flowering.
    Any insect that eats insects that destroy garden plants are always encouraged and welcomed. Saving them from the rubbish is a very good deed.
    Enjoy your time with family. There is lots to see on a first visit.

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    1. Yeah, we want those predator insects! (As long as they're not predators to humans.)

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  16. That will be fun having your brother and his family visiting you for a change. I never did hear the singer.

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    1. She's pretty faint. If you're watching on a phone or tablet you may not hear her without headphones.

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  17. I’m in London soon I hope we can meet for a cocktail

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  18. It's good that your brother could give you a heads up about the change in schedules. Enjoy the visit.

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    1. Thanks! Yes, he kept me informed so I didn't show up at the airport six hours early, thank goodness.

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  19. I had to crank my volume to 100% just to faintly hear her over the bird twitterings. AND I remembered to turn it back down right away so I didn't blast holes in my eardrums when listening to a playlist or two later.

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    1. Yeah, she's very faint in the recording, but she's easy to hear in person!

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  20. I hope your brother and his family will enjoy their first stay in England, and that the weather will be good for sightseeing and other things.
    If you hate weeding, why do it at all? I have never understood the entirely manmade dividing of plants into unwanted weeds and wanted plants; they are all plants, and all have their place in nature.

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    1. Well, I don't do much of it. I only pull weeds that overshadow the grass or my plants, because I don't want the grass to die and I want my plants to get sun. Most of what grows wild in between the plants I just leave alone.

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  21. I could easily hear the singer and wonder if she was practicing the hard bits!
    I don't do much gardening, just barely enough to look interesting. But I love wildflowers including "weeds", and I do explain that as a card carrying member of Xerces Society, I'm protecting pollinators!

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