Monday, May 18, 2026

Petunias


We may be having a chilly spring, but it hasn't slowed down our petunias or other patio flowers -- the geraniums and African daisies are blooming up a storm. I don't think the daisies have ever had a better year. There are three petunia plants crammed into that little hanging basket and I fully expect them to outgrow it eventually, but for now they look fine.

We got some sun yesterday, which was a welcome surprise given the cloudy forecast. I mowed the lawn:



As you can see, I've left a little patch for No-Mow May. I considered not mowing the whole lawn but it was becoming a shaggy mess. That unmowed area contains some bulbs and ragwort as well as that big teasel, so it makes sense to leave it alone.

I've also left the area around the birdbath wild, but so many birds peck their way through that grass -- which is right beneath the bird feeder -- that I can't imagine it contains any live insects.


And look! Something's been pulling the fluff out of Curlie the Pig. I suspect pigeons. Whether they're actually building nests with it, who knows -- but I'm glad it has at least interested some critter.

Otherwise, I was home all day yesterday. I polished off another New Yorker, including this riveting article about Nick Fuentes and the frightening drift of many young men to the political right. I don't understand this drive to destroy our system that some of them seem to feel. Won't that just be a form of self-punishment, while letting the billionaires skate? It's astonishing how adept people are at blaming defenseless scapegoats for their problems, while the true culprits deflect responsibility. I worry we are headed toward even darker times. The one potential upside -- many of these young guys have turned against Trump. They've decided he's not their guy, and they don't love Vance either.

Anyway, I've cut the New Yorker backlog down to five issues, which I think is pretty good, so maybe I'll begin reading some books again.

I really need to do something about my glasses. I have two pairs from the optometrist, one of which is broken and the other very old. The broken pair has those bifocal lenses that I hate, and don't really need. When I retired, I grabbed a spare pair of readers from my desk at work, and yesterday I began using those -- they give me clearer vision than either of my regular glasses, but they're cheap and plastic and probably won't last long. I'm glad I'm getting some use from them but they're not a permanent solution. I wonder, though, if I should just buy drug store glasses when I need them instead of going back to the optometrist for a pricier solution. Off-the-shelf readers seem to serve my needs just fine.

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  1. Do you have a "Poundland" anywhere near? They sell excellent reading specs usually 3 for £3 and they last for years! I have about 8 pairs lying round the house to pick up where ever I am!
    Good work on the garden, it looks great.

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    1. I'm sure we do have a Poundland nearby, but I couldn't tell you where. This sounds like a good solution, though!

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  2. I'm the other way, your eyes are important, take no risk and go and have them measured and wear bespoke lens for your vision, you can get two pairs reasonably priced in national chain stores.

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    1. The problem is, my optometrist keeps trying to sell me things I don't need -- like varifocals or, most recently, bifocals. I'm fine with reading glasses.

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  3. If you're okay with inexspensive readers, then more power to you. I'm helpless without my glasses. Curlie the pig is cute. Your flowers are pretty. The flowers in my window boxes are okay, but I'm not having much luck otherwise. We still need rain.

    Love,
    Janie

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    1. It's sometimes hard to find things that will grow well in Florida sand! Try Mexican petunias.

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  4. Your garden is looking extremely pretty. Everything's taking off now.
    I buy my glasses online - there are several outlets.

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    1. My former boss used to get hers online too, and she always had trendy frames. Warby Parker, I think she used.

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  5. I used the off the shelf readers for years, and if you only need reading glasses, they are fine. The lower magnifying glasses might even be ok for medium distance. Annual eye tests after a certain age is wise.
    Ah, young men. So troublesome, and often so ignorant, as I was at their age. The InCel movement disturbs me, blaming others, the system and empowered women because they can't get a root. Well, more than that. They want relationships where they are the boss of the little woman at home. Move on guys, to the 21st century.

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    1. It's crazy to me that these guys feel so deprived. I don't know what kind of world they think they're living in. Maybe if they quit playing video games and get out in the world they'd have better luck!

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  6. Sometimes my old glasses are better than the new ones but I think it is best to go to the opticians. Your garden looks lovely, both of you must be well pleased with it.

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    1. We are pleased, though it's not very well tended for those who like a more manicured look. Ours is a little rough around the edges! (We like it that way.)

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  7. The garden looks so happy. Exciting to see the pig getting used. I have prescription bifocals with lenses that are really too small for bifocals, and I’m up to 4 pair of drugstore glasses for the computer. None is quite right.

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    1. I would love to know what's using the pig. Maybe I should aim the garden cam at it?!

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  8. All the time that I have "known" you in the blogging sense, "The New Yorker" has hovered in the shadows like a poltergeist groaning, "Read me! Read me!" It's like a treadmill, running to keep up but never getting there and there so much guilt and self-blaming connected with your subscription. Because of this, I am quite glad that I have never even picked up a "New Yorker".

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    1. Steve reads the New Yorker so we don't have to!

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    2. It is exactly like a treadmill -- but it's also the best magazine I've ever read, and although I complain about its relentlessness it always teaches me something. Call it a love-hate relationship!

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  9. My optometrist recommended the cheap readers. If they work for you, no need for prescriptions.

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  10. The garden looks lovely. Me and Alan managed safely and very successfully with off the shelf reading glasses for years. You will be able to tell yourself when a 'proper' pair might be needed. As long as you have an eye check every two years the optician will most likely be happy for you to do your own thing, ours was.

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    1. I think that's the path I'm going to take. I feel like I'm just wasting money trying for bespoke lenses.

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  11. Your garden is looking very lush. No wonder it is popular with all the wildlife.

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    1. It IS lush, even though a lot of that is weeds! LOL

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  12. I like your garden, and with so much growing and wildlife in it, I think leaving just a small patch for "No Mow May" is alright.
    If those standard reading glasses suit you fine, I'd stick with them. You could buy them cheaply in all sorts of colours and change them according to the day's outfit - it's what my Mum does all the time (the same with her handbags, walking canes, shoes, earrings...) :-D
    Because my eyes need special attention, I can't buy off the shelf; the money I've spend for specs (both the frames and lenses), operations and so on over the years must amount to the worth of a good car. Good job that I don't drive!

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    1. That's what I thought -- our whole garden is No-Mow May, practically. I can't imagine trying to manage glasses as a fashion accessory. LOL!

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  13. The surgeon who did my cataract surgery said cheap readers are fine!

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  14. The garden looks beautiful; so peaceful.

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  15. The few young men I know that I would describe as far right fear the left are destroying the world, not the right, so I'm not sure I would characterize it as a self destructive belief.

    From my couch, I think the left loses the young men population mostly with their stances on taxes and focusing on small minorities in our population. If they would just go back to their populist stances of the Clinton era, I think they would gain them back.

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    1. But there IS a segment of young men who want to "tear it all down," because they're so convinced everything is broken. (This is the Steve Bannon approach.) I just don't get that. The country mostly works just fine. Yes, there are problems, but blowing up the system (or, to use Bannon's phrase, "destroying the regulatory state") is a drastic overreach.

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  16. I've had several pair of prescription glasses and eventually either lose or just discard them. I could never get used to having to wear glasses all the time, my vision just isn't bad enough. The drug store magnifiers work just fine for reading and those are the ones I use.

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    1. I don't need them either, unless I'm reading. (Although I wore them last night when I sat across from a friend at dinner, and her face was blurry without them!)

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  17. Your garden looks fantastic. I very much love the contrast between the mowed, tidy area and the wild beauty that borders it.
    I have got to contact the New Yorker and switch over entirely to online. I am so far behind that there is no way to catch up.

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    1. I've been thinking about doing that too, but I know I wouldn't read as much of the magazine if I did. Having it in print makes me see things I'd miss otherwise.

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  18. I'm not as far behind as you with the New Yorkers. I wondered the same things as you when I read that Nick Fuentes article. I often do not read the really long articles too much anymore - I will read the beginning and scan the last paragraphs before I decide if I want to slog through the whole article.

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    1. I read them if the subject interests me. I suppose that goes without saying!

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  19. My grandmother grew overflowing petunias, I didn't appreciate how pretty and sweet smelling they are until a few years ago.

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    1. Petunias are rock-stars of the flower world -- they produce like crazy and they're so colorful. And inexpensive! (Unlike rock stars.)

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  20. Your flowers are lovely. I have yet to plant any annuals outside yet. Two nights ago we had frost.
    I think the majority of people would prefer to blame others for their problems, rather than look at themselves. I'm guessing that young men would prefer the old status quo that benefited men so much, who wouldn't?

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    1. Wow! We are done with our frost, thank goodness. You must be close to that point, no?

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  21. The garden and the flowers are looking great. A few years ago I ordered several pairs of reading glasses from a vender called Zenni. I know it sounds silly, but I have a pair in every room of my house. That way, they are always handy. I've been using over-the-counter readers for years.

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    1. If I did that I'd take one pair into another room and pretty soon they'd all be in one room and I'd have none anywhere else. Constant redistribution would be the order of the day!

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  22. The cost of new glasses can be outrageous. When the glasses do not function well that makes the high price sting.
    Off the shelf glasses can work well. I've got a pair or two for reading.
    Your petunias will be wonderful bloomers all summer. Deadheading them is important to keep them compact and blooming.
    Having an unmanicured (no-mow) area is great.
    My inner garden (close to the house) is somewhat manicured but the further away you go from the house it is woodlands with paths for walking.

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    1. I bought expensive lenses last year and had to have them replaced almost immediately, and I don't like the replacements either. I think readers are the way to go.

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  23. Personally I'd pay out for proper prescription glasses, you only have one pair of eyes and need to take the best care you can of them. Just imagine not being able to do all the things you enjoy, reading and gardening. I love to do both, so will look after my eye health. Xx

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    1. I would certainly miss having good vision! But I'm not sure prescription lenses are necessary to maintain that, at least not at my stage of vision loss. (I still have pretty good eyes.)

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  24. Mike's eye doctor actually recommended drugstore readers for him. I have a weird prescription (one eye is worse than the other one), so I need the prescription ones. Well, also, I have progressives for the office for computer distance & reading distance.

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    1. Yeah, I think if you have astigmatism or some special variability in your vision, I could see how prescription lenses would be necessary.

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  25. I've paid ($500+ even with insurance) for prescription glasses. I do need them for (driving) distance so I got a pair of sunglasses which I wear even on cloudy days and a pair of progressives. Do I use them? Only the sunglasses. The last several pairs I've gotten from the optician's office for reading--and supposedly for my computer--have simply been useless--no matter how many times I've taken them back for a 'fix.' The reading area on the progressives is so small I have to tip my head backwards to read a line of anything. Needless to say, I have readers (5 for $15--various colors) that are stashed around the house and in my bag. They do a far better job, not only for reading books, labels, etc., but even for my computer screen that sits about two feet from my face. I've been using the same ones for several years. Only one pair has broken. So frankly, they are a bargain. Good luck with whatever choice you make.

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    1. I had the same experience with progressive (varifocal) lenses. I wrote about it on the blog in a post called "hourglass," because that's how the optician explained the focal area to me. I hated the fact that so much of my computer screen was out of focus when I was looking right at it!

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  26. First of all, bravo on the garden. It looks gorgeous and so healthy! I used those reading glasses for years, buying multiple pairs for every location I might need them at the dollar store. If you only need them for reading, not distance, they're great. If you order online, you can get multiple packs for $20 or under, just about any style you want.

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    1. Maybe I should try this multiple-pairs thing that everyone's mentioning. I'm always wandering around trying to find my glasses!

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  27. I would love to spend time sitting in your garden with a good book. I have a feeling I wouldn't get much reading done, though. Too many delightful distractions.

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    1. It can be hard to concentrate, which is why I have such a backlog of New Yorkers! LOL

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  28. i buy these frequently, since I will leave them in a shirt pocket, bend over for something, and then the lens is scratched. Two pair for $17. They're good quality and don't make me feel sea sick like some do.

    https://www.amazon.com/AQWANO-Blocking-Computer-Protection-Lightweight/dp/B07L622ZVV?pd_rd_w=J6ljH&content-id=amzn1.sym.5b28a964-6fd3-4c72-8c58-6450e7d02f5f&pf_rd_p=5b28a964-6fd3-4c72-8c58-6450e7d02f5f&pf_rd_r=KE8698BNEC7F57BNXX3P&pd_rd_wg=kz0tM&pd_rd_r=c6f75bcc-670b-44db-8611-1bcb4df61158&pd_rd_i=B07L622ZVV&th=1

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    1. Thanks for the recommendation! They do look promising. I'll look into them if I need another pair.

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  29. I'm frightened by many trends in our country right now, especially among young men. When I hear that Christian Nationalists want women in the kitchen, not working, subservient to husbands, NOT VOTING, I get enraged. Not good for my blood pressure. My petunias and geraniums are also doing well; they could use a little more sun!

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    1. I don't understand why so many young men see success as a zero-sum game. Can't they collaborate with a spouse, rather than dominate them?

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    1. Thank you, John! Probably not as neat as yours, as I don't have your sister to help out. :)

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  31. What A Gorgeous Backyard And Seeing What You Read Is What Matters

    Stay Amazing ,
    Cheers

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    1. Yes, I can at least see enough to read, that's the main thing!

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  32. I think your garden is looking lovely.

    All the best Jan

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  33. You are ready for a garden party.

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  34. If off-the-shelf works then keep doing that and save your money for more holidays. Or plants. They don't work for me because I have crossed vision.

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    1. Yeah, I know off-the-shelf readers don't work for people with specific vision issues. I don't need to buy plants! In fact I need fewer plants! LOL

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