Sunday, August 10, 2025
Alligator Doubt
I had a somber task this week -- figuring out what to do with Olga's leftover food, treats and other dog items. She left us with six cans of food, two big unopened boxes of Dentastix, a box of brand-new rolls of poop bags (probably about a thousand of them!), and some towels and dog blankets. Oh, and her tennis balls.
I would never throw any of it out, but I also didn't want to save it all for if and when we get another dog. Who knows when that will be? Even canned food has a shelf life, and tennis balls deteriorate. I e-mailed the organization where we adopted Olga back in January 2013, thinking they might want the stuff, but I never heard back from them. So I looked around online and found that the Battersea Dogs & Cats Home accepts donated pet items. I made sure everything was clean and on their list of requirements, packed it in two big tote bags, and took it to Battersea yesterday morning.
I did not give away her collar and leash, her Kongs, her food bowls or her dog bed. Stuff like that will last until we get another dog. And remember that silly alligator dog toy we bought her in Florida a couple of years ago? She would never play with it -- I think it was too unlike her balls and Kongs and she never understood that it was a toy. We just kept it on our bed as a decorative item. Well, I put it in the donation bag, and then took it out again, and then put it in again. (Repeat cycle about three more times.) Finally I kept it.
I actually feel OK about the donations. I'm glad that other dogs will benefit, and Battersea is a wonderful organization. I am happy to support them. But of course it was still not a fun task.
I've also been trying to clean out some other stuff around here. I have two bags ready to go which I will take to Oxfam later today.
Oh, and remember how I said Dave would be back today? Well, never mind. It's actually tomorrow that he gets home! I guess I got the date that he leaves the USA (today) confused with his arrival date in the UK (tomorrow). So I'm on my own for one more day of meals. I think I'll manage.
These photos show a few flowers blooming at the moment. We only got one globe thistle (top) this year, for some reason. The cardoon (middle) has also not had an especially robust year, though it does have several flower heads, which as you can see the bees and hoverflies love. And that hydrangea (bottom) is the one I rescued on my walk home from work in the spring. It has leafed out quite happily and has loose white flower heads.
I'm finally making headway in my latest Ian Rankin paperback, "Even Dogs in the Wild," which I've been carrying around since before Blackpool. I like his books but it took me a while to break into this one, with all the distractions of travel and life in general. I'm about halfway into it, following retired detective John Rebus on his adventures in the Edinburgh criminal underworld, and will probably zoom through the rest.
Last night I watched an excellent documentary on Netflix, "Aftershock," about the 2015 Nepal earthquake and its effects not only on the Nepalese but on climbers on Mount Everest and a team of backpackers in a remote valley. Some harrowing stories, made worse by a cultural misstep by one of the backpackers. When I first started it I was ambivalent, because I'm not into mountaineering at all, but I ultimately found it riveting.
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As I read your first paragraph I was thinking " donate to dog rescue" , which of course I then found out that you did. We rescued Tommy only 3 weeks after losing Lex so food and toys etc are being used by him. Coats and harnesses were donated.... too big for little Tom!
ReplyDeleteThe hydrangea is very pretty.I like the whiteness of it. We have a huge one like that in pink.
I think it provides a nice sense of continuity to have the next dog in the family use some of the previous dog's stuff!
DeleteThe flower photos are delightful. The top one has a bit of magic. So nice that you could donate some of Olga’s things. Yeah, I would have kept the alligator, too.
ReplyDeleteIf only because we brought it all the way from Florida!
DeleteThose plants are amazing. Stark.
ReplyDeleteI am currently battling with my bookshelves. I don't know how but I have to do it. Part of the problem that libraries, not even charity shops, will take them. Even when hardbacks, pristine. And before you say Ebay, please don't. Books are heavy.
It's strange how easy it comes to most of us to dispose of the superfluous yet when it comes to books it feels like sacrilege to chuck them in the bin. Burn them? You've got to be joking. Too many bad associations there.
Am in pensive mode. My mother is dying. No need to commiserate. It happens. Particularly at age 92. Still ... having prepared myself for years I have realized that some things we are never prepared for.
Olga greetings,
U
A good comment . Seconding all that, U
DeleteSome charities, like Oxfam, have specially dedicated bookshops that will take books. There's also a charity called Better World Books that has drop-boxes in various locations. They usually don't want textbooks or certain types of highly academic nonfiction, but they'll take most everything else, I think. I agree about throwing away books -- unless they're utterly trashed I always try to pass them on.
DeleteI'm so sorry about your mother. No matter the age it is never easy.
It's interesting how you can become interested in something you aren't interested in.
ReplyDeleteThe first photo is great.
I used to take our old towels to the Lost Dogs' Home, where they were gratefully received.
That's the hallmark of a good storyteller, whether in print or on film -- can they make the audience care about something they might not otherwise?
DeleteDonating Olga’s things to Battersea was such a thoughtful way to honour her, and it’s lovely that her belongings will bring comfort to other dogs in need
ReplyDeleteI agree. It's nice to know it will all get used.
DeleteThanks for the tip about "Aftershock" Steve. I will definitely watch that. Good on you for parting with some of Olga's stuff. As Olga might have said... "ARRF! ARRF!"
ReplyDeleteYeah, you would like "Aftershock," I think. It took me a while to get into the first episode, which is mostly setting the stage, but after the earthquake hits toward the end the series flies.
DeleteYour first photograph is stunning - architectural beauty.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteKeeping the alligator toy was obviously the right thing to do. You may have regretted giving it away after a while.
ReplyDeleteIt wouldn't be the first time I've regretted giving something away, but it's always better to be cautious!
DeleteWhen Ozzo died a few years ago we donated some of his things to a dog rescue but kept his bed--Consuelo sleeps there now--and his collar and leash--which sit on a bookshelf as a memory.
ReplyDeleteCollars and leashes in particular seem so personal to the individual pet!
DeleteThat is a day well spent. The plus is that others will benefit. Quadripeds and bipeds alike. I have been able to read again and it feels luxurious to have that time.
ReplyDeleteYeah, you must be breathing a sigh of relief to finally have some spare time in your life!
DeleteOne of the understood things about freecycle here is when a lot of pet items are offered, it means a loss. People are very nice about it, and often people who rescue and foster will step up and accept them. My late husband always kept the name tags and licence tags after everything else went.
ReplyDeleteI thought about putting all this stuff on Freecycle but when I saw that I could donate it all at once directly to a shelter that seemed easier. I still have license tags for Ernie and Ruby, our old boxers.
DeleteGood job, donating those items to that shelter. I'm sure it was greatly appreciated. Beautiful flower photos. That globe thistle is quite striking. I like it a lot.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I don't know why I never thought to photograph them from the top before, but it made a good angle.
DeleteThe globethistle blossom reminds me of some sort of psychedelic explosion in space. I love it.
ReplyDeleteI know it was very hard for you to pack up Olga's things and to donate them. An important step, I suppose, in letting go. A little bit, at least. Some things just cannot be let go.
I'm sure you'll be glad to see Dave when he gets home.
Yeah, little by little we are adapting to Olga's absence, but it still feels so weird.
DeletePleased about your trip to Battersea, we always watched the TV progs with Paul O'Grady filming there. The first flower pic was amazing and showed how delicate and perfect it is.
ReplyDeleteWendy (Wales)
It's a great organization and I'm happy to support them!
Deletewonderful photographs of the globe thistle and cardoon. The hydrangea is an oak leaf hydrangea judging by the flowers. Getting rid of the personal effects is so final, sort of a total acceptance of death. I'm glad you found a place to donate them to.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's an oak leaf (because the leaves are not oak-shaped). I think it's an Annabelle. Not sure yet though.
DeleteYour globe thistle photo captures the intricate and organized center of the flower. I find, the small triangles and diamonds aligned throughout the center are delicate and lovely.
ReplyDeleteSadly, there are many dogs and cats in rescue organizations. All your donations will be well utilized and greatly appreciated.
Yes, so many animals in need of homes. Dave cautioned me NOT to adopt a dog while I was there! I promised him I wouldn't even look at the dogs -- just drop off the stuff. If I looked I'd probably adopt ten of them!
DeleteWhen we lost our second dog, Mavis, this year we put all her leftovers ...and there were lots my husband obviously thought she would be eating treats and food until the cows ALL came home ... out in a big box at the front of our house with a sign explaining what had happened and telling people to help themselves. We are on the route to the canal where all her doggy friends pass by numerous times a day, so most things were gone within 3 days. All the leftovers and the NINE dog beds that our TWO dogs had, were taken to the local animal rescue centre who were happy to receive them. It's heart-breaking but a good thing to do isn't it. We kept her biggest water bowl and that is now filled with fresh water outside our house permanently, for all her doggy friends to drink from on their way to and from their walks.
ReplyDeleteOh, that's nice, to have the bowl handy for the other dogs! We had an oversupply of treats, too. Dave is a zealous shopper sometimes. :)
DeleteThat's a nice idea to donate those dog items. Hope Dave has safe, smooth travels home. I bet you can't wait to see him!
ReplyDeleteYes, and I know he is eager to be home!
DeleteYou have some tough decisions. You can always give away more later on.
ReplyDeleteI think the stuff we have left -- at least, the dog stuff -- we'll be keeping.
DeleteI'm glad you made the donations, especially to an organization where they can help dogs in need. I don't think we've been without at least one dog in 40 years, so I've not had to make those decisions.
ReplyDeleteThat top photo is amazing!
Yeah, when you have multiple dogs and they all overlap, it's a little different! Nothing is ever out of use!
DeleteSuch amazing photography here!
ReplyDeleteIt took us ages to give away all the cat stuff we had, I can relate. We still have two doors with fancy cat flaps that will stay.
As long as the foxes don't use them! :)
DeleteWhen we were clearing out Jim's Mom's house, the guys that took stuff to auction said used towels always went first. Shelters and groomers (dogs) always wanted them.
ReplyDeleteInteresting! I would have thought towels would be hard to dispose of!
DeleteI'll add my agreement that the first photo is chef's kiss - gorgeous! I'm glad you kept the alligator.
ReplyDeleteYour "chef's kiss" phrase gave me pause -- I thought, "Is that a common expression?" And then I realized you meant to make the sound of a chef's kiss and I got it. LOL
DeleteI think I Xd out before my comment posted. But I'll try again. Just saying I know how hard it is doing that final sorting and finding the Battersea people was really a wonderful thing to do. I know Olga would like that if dogs like such things. And I'm glad you saved the collar, bed and more. And of course the alligator. I'm sure it was extra hard having to do that on your own.
ReplyDeleteActually, Olga was very possessive of her tennis balls and would probably hate other dogs playing with them! LOL! But hey, she doesn't know.
DeleteThis too shall pass. Get a pup!
ReplyDeleteWe will indeed, when the time is right. :)
DeleteI have a Rankin book in my queue and have been procrastinating on it as I fight my way through a couple Book Club reads. I'm glad you went through some of Olga's things and decided what to donate/keep. SO hard! I'm finding the same thing with my mom's stuff.
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