Sunday, November 9, 2025
A Nighttime Stroll
Yesterday turned out to be very busy. I did a lot of stuff in the morning around the house, including some plant care and sponge-mopping the bathroom ceiling. Yes, you read that right! The ceiling above our shower tends to get a bit discolored by damp, so every year or so I sponge-mop it with a mild bleach solution. Difficult to do but good for upper-body strength!
I also vacuumed and did laundry, cleaned our bathrooms and hauled our sheets and towels to the laundromat, where I have them washed in larger machines than our washer at home.
After that busy morning, I read "The Old Curiosity Shop" for a while, had a light lunch and then made my way to the dentist, where I had to have a filling replaced. I told my dentist I'm surprised that some of the fillings I got in the mid- to late '90s seemed to be failing or wearing down, while my oldest filling -- the only metal amalgam filling in my mouth -- is still functioning perfectly well. The dentist said those old amalgam fillings are strong and it may well last me the rest of my life. (Now that I've said it, it probably won't.)
In the evening, I was meeting up with my friend Sally near Sloane Square for drinks and a concert. I decided to walk there, which meant meandering through Marylebone and Marble Arch, across Hyde Park and through Knightsbridge into Chelsea. It was a beautiful evening and perfect for walking. I passed Lee Simmons' sculpture "Circadian" at Marble Arch (above), like a giant calla lily sprouting from the pavement.
In Hyde Park, the Winter Wonderland is about to open. I've never been to the Winter Wonderland. Maybe I can convince Dave to go!
The cafe at the east end of the Serpentine was busy in the twilight...
...and I stopped to watch bats fluttering over the water. (I had my AirPods in my ears at the time so I didn't realize when I made the video that a crying baby was nearby -- hence the added music track!)
In Chelsea, Peter Jones is all lit up for Christmas. I've never been in that store. I've always assumed it's too swank for me, being in the very swank neighborhood of Sloane Square, but it's owned by John Lewis and apparently it has a restaurant on the top floor. I should check it out sometime. So much to do!
Sally, her neighbor Chris and I met at the nearby Antelope pub, where we had a drink before making our way to the show. We saw a music group called Cloudbusting, which specializes in performing the music of Kate Bush -- in this case with the West London Sinfonia, at Cadogan Hall. Bush rarely performs her own music live, so this group has sort of stepped into the breach and they do it justice. We thoroughly enjoyed the show.
Afterwards, Sally and Chris headed for the tube and I decided to keep walking. Why don't I walk more at night? It was really enjoyable. I hope I'm demonstrating to all the MAGA Americans who think London is a giant no-go zone full of dangerous immigrants that it simply isn't true. I was out for hours after dark surrounded by people of every race and many nationalities and never felt any sense of threat or danger.
I put Kate Bush on my iTunes so I could listen to her music as I headed toward the Green Park tube station. I walked past Elizabeth Street in Belgravia (above)...
...and past the softly lit Buckingham Palace. As I crossed in front of the palace, coincidentally, Bush's song "Oh England My Lionheart" began to play from my iTunes:
Oh, England, my lionheart
I don't want to go
And that reminds me to tell you -- remember the Iceberg? That looming life change that looked like it might happen and that was giving me agita? Well, we have safely sailed past it, or so it appears. Basically, Dave was considering pursuing a job opportunity, but he has decided not to apply. It would have meant moving back to the United States, which neither of us are particularly eager to do -- and though there were several reasons he decided against it, we mainly don't want to tear out our life here by the roots. (I'm using a plant metaphor because the prospect of giving up all my plants was a major part of my stress!) I'm happy to report that we are staying put in England, My Lionheart.
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A beautiful nighttime stroll through London. Although new to reading your blog, it's good to read that you'll be staying put in England, as even I'm stressed at the thought of all those abandoned plants. Xx
ReplyDeleteThanks for sympathizing with my poor plants! We can all breathe easier now. (Well, to the extent that plants breathe.)
DeleteLovely photos. London looks magical by night but then it is. I am glad your ice berg has drifted away and your plants are safe! Regards Sue H
ReplyDeleteIt was such a different experience taking a long walk at night. I don't know why I haven't done more of it.
DeleteOh Steve! As soon as I read "Oh England My Lionheart" I immediately burst into tears!!
ReplyDeleteI hadn't realised how patriotic I am with a strong emotional attachment to the country of my birth.
I am so pleased that you have decided to stay. Your blog would just not be the same without your wry observations of life in London from an American point of view x
That song is very poignant -- I got misty myself as I walked in front of the palace with it playing in my ears. And I've never been a patriotic person in my life!
DeleteGlad to hear you are staying here in London, I do love your post and used two of them in our recent trip to the capital, we saw the statue of the animals on the scooter, and did an evening river cruise, I did a post called Thanks to Steve, it's here if you want to look https://poppypatchwork.blogspot.com/2025/11/thanks-to-steve.html
ReplyDeleteI looked at your post and thanks for the shout-out! I'm so glad my tips worked out for you!
DeleteI think you chose rightly. You seem to fit right where you are at so perfectly, I can't imagine you moving back. Especially right now.
ReplyDeleteIt's partly an issue of timing and partly, as you said, feeling like we're already home.
DeleteSo much in one post and some gorgeous photos. The recent creed I heard, read or saw was, if you are well qualified, go to the US to earn money. If you want quality of life, stay in Europe and Great Britain. Mind, so many English YouTubers say the quality of life is even better in Australia.
ReplyDeleteI think there's a lot of truth to that. Work-life balance is definitely better in the UK, from what I have experienced.
DeleteOn my fairly regular visits to London to see Ian and Zach and Sarah, I have never felt any particular danger but as in any city anywhere, it makes sense to be vigilant. I have been in Peter Jones and I have eaten in the pleasant top floor cafe. As in any other John Lewis store, pricing is always fair and competitive. I doubt that you will be denied entry but you might want to think about your outfit. No "Tampa Bay Rowdies" T-shirts, flip flops and tight denim shorts.
ReplyDeleteDo the Rowdies still exist? I haven't thought of them in years. Absolutely, vigilance is always warranted in an urban area. I may sound like I was being oblivious but I wasn't.
DeleteIt sounds like a great relief to stay put, particularly since you only just got your Uk citizenship. I think the plants were a big concern!
ReplyDeleteWell, having citizenship actually made us MORE comfortable with considering a move, because we knew we could always come back. But I'm glad to stay put!
DeleteThat "Circadian" sculpture is really quite beautiful, and the Peter Jones store really lights itself up.
ReplyDeleteTis the season ... ALMOST!!!
Definitely strong holiday vibes out there!
DeleteI loved every second reading this post. The concert sounds wonderful and so does your walk. I've never felt unsafe in the parts of London I've been in before, day or night. I'm sure there are some neighborhoods but the main part has always been a haven for me. Your photos, the video, everything -- perfect. Loving the lights. I read a lot about Winter Wonderland this time of year in the Londonist. (And the holiday light switch-on dates!) I'd love to be there right now. I'd go to Wonderland with you!
ReplyDeleteBest news about staying in England. You don't want to be here right now. Every day, worse and worse.
There are neighborhoods where I would feel less comfortable walking at night, but in daytime I've walked all over this city and I've never felt insecure. I worry about changes coming to the UK too, but I suppose if we can't have our own little utopia, it's the next best thing!
DeleteI'm glad your iceberg has been negotiated safely and that you don't have to up sticks.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your walk through London. The sculpture is beautiful and the video shows that there is beauty everywhere, if you know where and how to look.
It was perfect timing to arrive at the Serpentine as the last traces of sunlight were diminishing. Perfect bat time!
DeleteI am pleased that you are staying in England, and no doubt your plants will be too. I guess that moving to the United States would not be on many peoples wish lists at the moment!!
ReplyDeleteNobody I'd be comfortable hanging out with, anyway!
DeleteSo glad you’re staying put. And thanks for the evening tour. Amazing that you’re still finding new things to see. But then, it’s London!
ReplyDeleteBTW, when I lived there briefly (my father was there for a year at the Imperial Defense College) we lived on Cheltenham Terrace, just off Sloan Square and I’d walk up to my school bus stop at Knightsbridge.
I was right in your 'hood!
DeleteSo glad to read you’re staying in England! Circadian is stunning. The walk photos are, as well. I have never had an old filling replaced. Now I understand.
ReplyDeleteGetting a filling replaced is easy. It's not like having a tooth freshly drilled.
DeleteIt's good hear that you are staying in England. You fit in there so very well and you show us her beauty every day.
ReplyDeleteThe photos today are fabulous. I love night photos. I have not seen that sculpture and it's beautiful especially at night. When I'm visiting London, I walk at night all the time and I have always felt completely safe. And, I'm betting I would have loved that concert you went to. I LOVE Kate Bush. I discovered her music on one of my very early trips to London and I've listened to her ever since. I still have clear memories of hearing her music playing in the old Tower Records store in Piccadilly Circus and asking a clerk who it was.
Great night view of Buckingham Palace too and perfect timing to walk past with "Lionheart" playing in your ears.
I also noticed the guy pulling the suitcase in the photo of the Peter Jones store. I swear there is no place in London that you won't find someone (or many people) pulling suitcases down the street. It's part of the city's charm.
The suitcases are a charm and an annoyance! There really is no musician like Kate Bush -- so talented and so smart. Perhaps Suzanne Vega is similar!
DeleteReally lovely images of your walk. And well done on choosing to stay in London.
ReplyDeleteWe are breathing a sigh of relief.
DeleteI love the sculpture in the first photo. I'm unfamiliar with Kate Bush. I might have heard some of her music but I wouldn't know if I did.
ReplyDeleteAnother traumatic move and having to start over? And I can't imagine any job necessitating moving here especially now would be worth it. And you just got your UK citizenship!
Her song "Oh England, My Lionheart" is linked in the post if you want to try one of her tunes! That's one of her older songs.
DeleteAs I told Boud above, having citizenship actually made considering the move more viable -- but yeah, it would be traumatic in many ways.
Lovely photos. I have a friend who believes that England is in turmoil and being overthrown by Islam, I think I know where she's getting these ideas now. I did explain to her that I have family in friends in the UK and not one has ever mentioned any problems like this. I hope she believed me.
ReplyDeleteI love that photo of store but when I clicked on the link, some of the furniture reminded me of IKEA. Strange.
That is a common right-wing perspective, held especially by people who have NOT been to England! (Though admittedly some on the English right feel similarly.)
DeleteJohn Lewis furniture IS a bit Ikea-like, I agree.
It is good you both will be staying in London. The photos are excellent a good record of a colourfull city. As for Kate Bush she is in a class of her own.
ReplyDeleteShe really IS unlike any other musician.
DeleteI rely heavily on my iPods to make me forget about my live in MIL!
ReplyDeletePerhaps in another 3 years, our country will be a more hospitable place to live and we have all returned with a sense of decorum. But I wouldn't bet a nickel on that happening and I'm somewhat of an optimist!
Yes, AirPods are perfect whenever you want to, shall we say, block out external sources of distraction.
DeleteI'd like to think that, post-Trump, people will return to some semblance of sanity. But yeah, that may be a vain hope.
You have a wonderful life in London and have made a great decision to continue. I was thinking a job change or home purchase was under consideration. Decision made!
ReplyDeleteThe night lights in the city are spectacular. London proves to be very walkable, day or night.
A home purchase may be forthcoming, but we love where we live and we've been reluctant to part with it! (Even though we waste a lot of money on rent.)
DeleteIf I had established the life you two have in London, I would never leave, especially for the US. It's bad here.
ReplyDeleteDave wouldn't have considered it if it weren't, at first blush, such a good job opportunity. Only upon looking deeper did a lot of questions arise.
DeleteGlad to hear that you have decided to stay in London. There are so many reasons to avoid the US right now. As far as MAGATS claiming that London is a hellhole, it's important to remember that the majority of them have never been there, they get their info from Faux news, Breitbart, OAN, or some other right wing propaganda site that spew ignorance non-stop. Re mattress sizes: https://www.nestbedding.com/blogs/mattress-education/mattress-sizes-dimensions?srsltid=AfmBOopEImaP0uXiZdv5HIEgx8g2rsNdLDKYzbqaKcRVDXLqGQKPmZNW
ReplyDeleteOh, so a California King is narrower but also longer? I had it exactly the wrong way around in my mind! I wonder why it's so long? To accommodate a surfboard?
DeleteI thought it would be that although I didn't think the US, more Europe. Still, it would have been a major change with lots of adjustments. My grandpa was my dentist and put in preventative silver fillings in my molars when I was under 10. They're still there, over a half century later. I've never had a cavity but this was before sealants and I had deep crevices in my molars.
ReplyDeleteWell, there was a secondary opportunity in another country, but we didn't like the looks of that one either.
DeleteI have never heard of preventative metal fillings! Did they require drilling, or did they just fill the crevices?
Whew! IMHO, Dave made a good choice in these unsettled times.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the bat video. Ours are long gone or hibernating by now.
Chris from Boise
I'm relieved for you that there will be no move back to the U.S. at this point in time. I think things will get worse there before they get better. But I imagine the pull of your home country will always be there.
ReplyDeleteYour cacti pictures are beautiful. I have my mother's plant now, and it's covered in blossoms this year.
Good decision! I can't imagine moving back to the US now, for any amount of money. When I lived in London way back in another century, I'd sometimes shop in Peter Jones. I lived nearby, before Chelsea was considered hip and all gentrified.
ReplyDeleteSweet relief.
ReplyDeleteI wasn't aware MAGAs thought of London that way! Glad you don't have to leave your plants. ;)
ReplyDeleteI've never had a filling replaced, though I had a tooth pulled a couple of weeks ago.
YAY!!!!! Damn, you scared us! Walking through London at night is beautiful, peaceful and I found, friendly. the Magoots live in self imposed fear. Ha! Look at Portland!!
ReplyDeleteThe only Kate Bush song I know is Running up that hill from Stranger Things. I could listen to that over and over again.
ReplyDeleteThe lights help make it a magical nighttime stroll. Glad you had such a nice evening with friends.
Good for you!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you are staying put - after all that effort getting your citizenship. Although I wouldn't have minded a move to somewhere else in Europe.
ReplyDeleteYour walk looks absolutely lovely!
Glad you're feeling more settled. This post is like you're constructing a list of places to visit and things to do when you're retired?
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear the iceberg passed without incident! Will you fully retire come April or dabble in something else?
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely evening walk, I did enjoy seeing your photographs.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
Though I would love to have you return to your homeland, I equally love having you in London to tell us all about life there. I find it fascinating and hope (without any malice) that you'll remain there.
ReplyDeleteIf I had the joy of living elsewhere, I would never think for a second of returning to this hell-hole of a country.
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