Friday, November 7, 2025

Time Management and Raw Pie


Our Japanese maple has lost most of its leaves, as you can see above. It still makes for a very autumnal scene, although we do not have weather to match. I walked to school yesterday in short sleeves with no jacket and was perfectly comfortable.

I don't know what has happened to my time management skills. I never used to feel harried or pressed for time, but lately I'm having trouble getting everything done. If I laid out a timetable of my day it would look something like this:

5:30-7 a.m.: Coffee, unpack dishwasher, write blog post
7-8: Get ready for work, household stuff (make bed, etc)
8-8:30: Walk to work
8:30-12: Work
12-1: Lunch, answer blog comments
1-4:30: Work
4:30-5: Walk home
5-7: Catch up with Dave, read blogs
7-9: TV
9-9:30: Bed

Now, obviously some down time will occur periodically during the day. That's when I'll grab time to read the news -- and reading is how I absorb the bulk of my information about current events. But "work" is much busier than it used to be, given that the other assistant is only half-time now. And when do I read books? This is why it takes me forever to read a novel nowadays. I pretty much only read on weekends.

I could cut out TV, but that's what Dave and I share in the evenings -- watching our shows. In other words, it's not just TV. It's bonding time for us.

I guess I shouldn't lament all this too much, since in six months I'll become unemployed and although I'll be poorer, my time will open up considerably.

At the risk of overkill, here are some more shots of our Thanksgiving cacti:




I would not say I'm the cactus whisperer, by any means, but they're doing better this year than they have in a while.

A couple of days ago we had sixth-grade classes come into the library for lessons on how to find non-fiction books. The Dewey Decimal System is a mystery to most kids -- and many adults, as well -- so they need some help navigating that. The lessons are a good idea, but these kids are a whirlwind. This is how they left one shelf:


As my former co-worker Tabatha used to say, "You gotta laugh to keep from cryin'!"

In comments on a recent post, some of you questioned the wisdom of eating week-old pasta sauce. Well, here's another food-safety dilemma for you. Dave ordered a pre-made apple pie from Waitrose and had it delivered with the rest of our groceries. He left the pie on the kitchen counter for three or four days -- he figured it would be fine since it was already baked.

But when I went to cut it last night, it seemed very soggy, and I realized that although the top looked browned, the dough was basically raw. I looked more closely at the box, and the pie was supposed to be refrigerated and then baked for another 30 minutes before serving! Oops.

Needless to say, we threw it out. I wonder how many people make that mistake.

58 comments:

  1. Always read the small print!!

    We were instructed in the Dewey system when we started secondary school...and the numbers were on the wall in the library as well.
    I suppose those books were at least ON the shelves !!
    When you retire .you'll be wondering how you found the time to go to work for someone else!!

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    1. We have a poster up featuring the numbers as well, just so people understand there IS a system!

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  2. Short sleeves and no jacket? I've been wearing my padded winter coat already, and last night when I went to my Mum, for the first time this season I was wearing a woolly hat. Also for the first time this season, I saw my breath in the cold air on Tuesday morning on my way to the train station!
    Good job you threw that pie out. As for the untidy book shelf, even as a small child I loved my books too much to NOT keep them tidy.

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    1. Some kids just shove books wherever they will fit. (And often where they will not!) I'm always surprised by that, because like you, I instinctively kept my bookshelves neat.

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  3. Three or four days in your sub tropical climate?? Crikey .. bacteria heaven 😄

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  4. AAAARGH! No more Christmas cacti pictures! PLEASE! As for your daily schedule, I am surprised that you never shower, pee or dump. Finally, as Dave is a great amateur cook, I think he could do with some basic lessons in food hygiene.

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    1. I make no promises re. the cacti. Re. my schedule, I don't think anyone needs THAT much detail.

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  5. Glad that you approached that pie with caution. 3 or 4 days on the counter top is terrible! The pictures of your cacti are lovely to see.
    Wendy (Wales)

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  6. I would have probably eaten the pie, if it looked, smelt and tasted ok.
    Just you wait until your are retire and you will really find out how busy life can be.

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    1. 994 is imprinted into my brain.

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    2. Yes, that's your territory! Our 994 section is sadly quite small -- one shelf. We do have "The Fatal Shore," though.

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  7. Love your cacti and greetings from ours as usual. They add a nice touch of colour when things pack up outside.
    I watched a kid stuffing books willy nilly back onto a shelf in our local library recently and when the parent gave her a stern look, the kid said, books are too heavy, I had to give up.
    I can still read books but find watching movies tough going, no series breaks, no recaps, no cliff hangers, just one long slog to the end.


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    1. "Books are too heavy" -- I hear that too. Kids who enthusiastically take home an armload of books for a vacation suddenly are unable to carry them back to school when it's time to turn them in!

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  8. I am counting the moments until I retire--and I still have 2 years to go. And I personally love your cactus pictures.

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    1. I'm glad. I may inflict more on you. :) Hang in there -- two years is not long.

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  9. My little Christmas cactus plans in being like yours one day. How incredibly early you go to bed! I'm up early, but 11pm is early enough to retire, and then I listen to an audio book while I play free cell! Different folks.

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    1. Oh, Lord, I could never stay up until 11 p.m. Sometimes I read a little in bed but I often find my eyelids will not stay open.

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  10. Your cactus plants are quite lovely, and the colours are very pleasing, especially on a dull day.

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  11. I haven’t worked for a wage for over a decade. I’m busier now than when I did. So temper your dreams of retirement or learn to say no, something I’m not very good at.

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  12. Our Christmas cacti is in full bloom now, it's obviously a very good year for this sort of plant.

    I usually buy long life milk and store it in the cupboard, once I bought a very similarly looking carton of fresh milk and put that in the cupboard ... it got very fat as it went off and the carton filled with whatever gas it gave off, luckily I found it before it exploded!!

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  13. You ARE the cactus whisperer. Mine just never like me. I’m pleased to read you threw the pie away.

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    1. Yeah, you know, I'm stingy but I'm not THAT stingy.

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  14. I did find a few blooms getting ready to open on my cactus but it is looking a bit limp - too much water or too little water? I never know...
    We may get a bit of snow on Monday so warm coat, mittens and a hat for me!
    I used to love working in the library and knowing just where to look for nonfiction books. The kids were always impressed when I could take them to the exact shelf for the book they were looking for - like a magic trick! :)

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    1. if the leaves are plump then possibly too much water, if they are a bit wrinkled/shrivelled then not enough water.

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    2. Some of my cactus leaves look a bit limp too, so I'm not sure I'm an expert. It is a sign that the cactus isn't taking up water. This could be because there isn't enough of it, or because the roots have stopped functioning well (which can paradoxically be caused by too much water, as in root rot). So, hard to say.

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  15. My goodness, those cactus are blooming like crazy! They must be very happy there. That library shelf looks a lot like it was tipped over and hurriedly set back upright.
    That pie situation sounds a bit confusing. How can you call it pre-cooked it you still have to cook it again? I bet a lot of people make that mistake.

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    1. It was especially weird because the top was brown! It was very deceptive.

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    2. They brown it with one of those "flame thrower" things chefs use for Creme Brulee though for mass production it is probably an overhead something that browns many at once as they travel along a conveyor belt.

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  16. The cacti are gorgeous; it amazes me the beuatiful flowers cacti porduce.

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    1. Not the kind of blossoms you'd expect to come from a spiny desert plant! (Or jungle plant, in this case -- Christmas cacti are not true cacti. They're succulents.)

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  17. I get you on time management. Believe me, it won't necessarily get any better after retirement. Maybe at first until your time get restructured. It takes me forever to read book these days. I used to check out two at a time, now only one and it's generally late getting returned. The cacti are so pretty.

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    1. Isn't it weird how reading has become so challenging for so many of us? I think our attention spans have suffered and there are so many distractions beyond our keyboards.

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  18. Keep posting your flower pictures [don't listen to YP!]
    As for the pie compared to the sauce ... one was kept safe in the fridge and still good after a week! The pie, however, ... it is important to read the damned directions! Good grief, Steve and, Dave, too!

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    1. I know better than to listen to YP on anything. :)

      As for the pie, well, I agree -- but it WAS very weird because it LOOKED baked. Besides, whoever heard of buying a half-baked pie?

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    2. LOL ... it was definitely a half-baked idea!

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  19. Outstanding Schedule And This Time Next Year , Hours Of Free Time To Explore , Adventure , And Live Like Prince And Party Like Its 1999 - You Got This Winter Brother Reed - You So Got This - Stoked You And Mr Dave Still Have Evenings Together

    Walk On ,
    Cheers

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  20. The older we get the slower we get

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  21. The pie story--it's something I would definitely do. I think a week is legitimate to keep sauce, but nothing past that. (unless it's been frozen) Love the cacti! My mom had several and was very good with them. I killed the only one I had. Plus, my cat likes to nibble on plants.

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    1. Cats can be hard on plants, it's true. I had that problem when I had cats.

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  22. Your cacti are outstanding bloomers. It is great to see blooms when everything outside is going to sleep for the winter.
    I tend to refrigerate everything, and warm-up things as needed. As mentioned earlier, I have my 3-day rule for tossing food out. Even with my rule, on occasion I find something in my refrigerator growing mold or in the freezer with freezer burn.
    Nobody is perfect. Imperfection rules.

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    1. I've eaten stuff with freezer burn before. It doesn't harm the food -- just makes it look uglier!

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  23. Your plants are always so happy! Great light and care. Though we share the same basic climate and lack of sky here , our plants are not as glad.

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    1. Yours always seem quite happy when you post photos of them! As you know, England is an ideal climate for many plants.

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  24. My Christmas (Thanksgiving?) cactus is done. I have never had it bloom so early.

    I would not worry about time management, really. You are probably subconsciously slipping into retirement time. Do you have a countdown clock going yet?

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    1. Nah, it's still too far away. I am feeling a combination of excitement and dread.

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  25. I make my own apple pies so there's no mistake there. On the other hand, I am retired, so you'd think I have a lot of spare time, yet I've been "reading" a noel for two weeks now and I'm only up to page 72.

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  26. Maybe in the Dewey Decimal lesson they could also get a few hints on how to at least put books back upright (preferable in more or less the order removed!) Those cacti are gems. And yeah, I get the fridge thing. Sometimes it just happens. Unfortunate about the pie, though!

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  27. As a new visitor I think your cacti look lovely, and such a beautiful colour.

    All the best Jan

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