Monday, February 16, 2026
Málaga With Screaming Children
Yesterday might well have been the longest day of my entire life, from getting up at 4 a.m. in London to going to sleep at 8:30 p.m. in Málaga. I was exhausted by the end of it. But we're here now!
That's the view from our hotel balcony, looking down at a souvenir stall on the Calle de Granada below. As you can see, the weather is so far cooperating, with bright sun and blue skies.
Getting to Málaga was not that fun. Soon after 5 a.m. we took the tube to a very crowded train -- surprisingly crowded, given the hour -- and got ourselves to Gatwick. There, we stood in the British Airways queue to check in, since I'd bought the ticket through BA, but it turned out the flight was actually operated by Vueling, so we had to go stand in a different queue. And then my boarding pass didn't work at security, because of a printer defect at the Vueling counter, so I had to go back and get a new one.
And then we were on an airplane with a family with three small children in the row in front of us, and those kids fought like cats and dogs the entire flight -- screaming at the top of their lungs. The girl, probably kindergarten-age, was upset because her brother was playing the video game that she wanted to play, and then she was convinced he had Internet and she didn't, and the completely ineffectual parents kept trying to negotiate with the kids to use this or that game console or iPad and the kids were having none of it. Tantrums, tantrums, tantrums.
As Dave and I remarked later, the negotiation needed to stop. The parents should have separated those kids and taken away all the digital devices, and after about 20 minutes of staring at their shoes they would have been more compliant. There was a similar meltdown from the youngest daughter just before landing, and the flight attendant actually came by to ask them to be quieter. Permissive parenting -- ha!
A pre-arranged driver collected us from the airport and we found the hotel and, praise God, they sent me the access codes so we were able to get in. We dropped the bags and set off for a wander around town, where I saw this clever monk parakeet snatching food from the pigeons on the Plaza de la Merced.
We settled into a sidewalk cafe, where we had a few drinks and some tapas like gazpacho with cubed salmon, sardines on a skewer (apparently a Málaga specialty) and a ham & cheese board. There was some kind of carnival event going on and there were people wandering the streets in costumes, mainly children.
I found this sticker near the gelato place where we went after our tapas. I guess some family made a cartoon of themselves to post here and there on their travels? They look like a friendly bunch.
As the afternoon wore on, Dave went back to the room and I set out for the water. I wanted to see the sunset and the Mediterranean. So I climbed up a series of paths to the hilltop Castillo de Gibralfaro, overlooking the waterfront. Lots of people had gathered there to watch the sun go down.
That's the bullring down below, in the district of La Malagueta with the beach beyond.
And here's a 40-second video clip so you can get a better sense of what it was like on that hillside, with the sun going down and a guitarist playing nearby. (The "birdcalls" are actually whistles, being sold by another vendor.)
As the sun got lower I found myself on the waterfront near the glass cube of the Centre de Pompidou, a branch of the Paris art museum.
I made my way back to the hotel and joined Dave, who had already collapsed into bed. Today, we're off to Córdoba, but we'll be back to Málaga for one more night at the end of our trip.
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That sounds exhausting. Young kids should travel in the hold!!
ReplyDeleteI am so pleased that the weather is behaving itself now. It looks splendid ☀️😎
Have a lovely day...you are missing the sun here!! ( It is about to come through the Velux windows and blind me as I sit typing.)
ReplyDeleteI agree with your child comments, our 3 younger ones can be a nightmare for their mum (our daughter), but with us we have no issues, it's down to how you treat them, and gentle parenting set no rules.
ReplyDeleteParents! The trip sounds unpleasant but I’m glad you made it and the hotel turned out fine! Can’t wait to see you!
ReplyDeleteIs it any wonder that I much prefer going by train (if feasible) and have stopped traveling by plane? Of course, screaming children can (and do!) happen on trains just as much as on planes, but it is usually easy enough to find yourself another seat if it's getting too bad, or you are lucky and they get off long before you.
ReplyDeleteThe video shows the atmosphere beautifully. Will we get to see what your hotel room looks like?
The incredulous look on that pigeon's face is priceless!
I really don't understand parents who can't control their kids. They aren't doing them any favors by letting their antics go unpunished.
ReplyDeleteI love that video complete with music. What a great view. The weather looks perfect. That glass cube is great.
Lovely video clip. I like to read on flights and I cannot be doing with noisy fellow passengers such as those badly schooled brats. I would have tapped one of the parents on the shoulder and loudly demanded, "Make your kids shut the **** up!" Try it next time Steve. It usually works a treat.
ReplyDeletePermissive parenting has a LOT to answer for. Children actually need firm boundaries for their own peace of mind ... and everyone else's sanity. I hope you have a lovely holiday. xx
ReplyDeleteI have said this many times, perhaps even in the comments of your blog, but I blame many of the world's rising problems on the lack of parenting.
ReplyDeleteLooks like a lovely place to spend a few days.
I blame the parents when kids get out of control. Kids need structure and clearly these kids have no structure.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your holiday. The Mediterranean looks great.
I would have offered the children some nice grape flavoured candy manufactured by Benadryl. :-) No more screaming children.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you got there and got in your hotel. And sunshine, too.
ReplyDeleteOh don't try to manage the little darlings!! Parents!
ReplyDeleteThe weather and the views are gorgeous. Have a fabulous time.
Your photos and the video are wonderful! Although the scenery is magnificent, the pigeon and the cheeky little parakeet are just too good.
ReplyDeleteThose kids sound like a nightmare. I would like to point out there have always been parents who have no idea how to control their children. This is not just a now-problem. In fact, Glen and I just watched an old Alfred Hitchcock Presents episode last night that featured a most annoying and undisciplined child on a train.
Cordoba! Please give hugs to Mitchell and SG from me!
Absolutely Love Those Whistles - Travel On
ReplyDeleteCheers
This looks like an interesting place to visit.
ReplyDeleteThe bull fighting ring in your photo reminds me of the one and only bull fight I ever attended. My dad decided it would be a fun family thing to do when we were in Barcelona back in the early 1960s. It turned out to be six different bull fights and it only took the first one for me to hide my face behind my father. Gruesome. Of course, that lasted only until there was a tremendous outcry from the audience and I, unfortunately, quickly looked up and saw that a young man had jumped into the ring with a boost from his 'friends.' As I briefly watched, he was gored by the bull despite efforts of the matador trying to distract it. Ugh. Never again.
ReplyDeleteLove the strutting parakeet and outraged pigeon photo. Great capture.
Enjoy your time with the Cordoba "kids." Lucky you. :)
Such an odd 'sport', the torture and killing of bulls. One of my favorite books when I was small was Ferdinand, the peaceful flower loving bull who sat on a bee and got chosen for the ring for his fierceness.
ReplyDeleteI think I need one of the bird twittering whistles for my collection.
I looked up the whistle images and I actually have one of those you put water is. The flat plastic thing that goes on the tongue is weird.
Delete“Gentle parenting” is ineffective parenting, and that flight sounds like hell.
ReplyDeleteSix years ago I stood by that very tree and took a picture of the bullring.
The moment you enter negotiations with unruly children is the moment you have lost. That Monk Parakeet is a cheeky little guy. Great video!
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful there. I'd like to be there.
ReplyDeleteThe guitar sounds like something from Windham Hill music. How beautiful. Those children needed a firm hand, and I am NOT talking about a smack. The parents needed that!
ReplyDeleteNo snow, sunny skies, and birds and the ocean. Heaven.
ReplyDeleteI was worried you wouldn't be able to get into the hotel, now I'm calm. It looks like you'll have a wonderful trip.
ReplyDeleteadults giving electronic devices as mental "dummies" have a lot to answer for.
ReplyDeleteThe last flights I went on with Emirates gave out books and (mainly)soft toys..age appropriate..
The staff also.ineracted with the children where necessary. Happy all round
I usually feel sorry for the parents with crying kids on a flight but it sounds like these parents weren't adequately managing their offspring. We didn't fly with our two until they were over 10 (to Hawaii) and they were exquisitely behaved. What a magical place! I loved Spain the one time I visited--and didn't expect to.
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