Monday, March 9, 2026

Bombax and Road Rage


I came across this jungly scene while driving through Bradenton yesterday with my brother. Doesn't it look like something from "Tarzan," or maybe one of those "Road" movies from the '40s -- "Road to Zanzibar" or "Road to Bali"? That tree with the red blossoms is what grabbed my attention. It's a kapok, more appropriately called a Bombax, and it has huge, rubbery, prehistoric-looking flowers that fall in profusion at this time of year.


I was happy to see one blooming.


We also passed this magnificent pink Tabebuia, a relative of the yellow one I posted a couple of days ago. (My brother took this photo at my request, and I can hear him now: "STOP TALKING ABOUT PLANTS!")

Yesterday was the day to go visit Dave's family. My brother and I got into his low-slung shiny blue Subaru -- it's so low that it makes me groan when I get in and out of it -- and drove down to Bradenton over the Sunshine Skyway bridge. We met up with Dave's sister Dawn at the family mobile home in Cortez, and then took his parents to lunch at the Anna Maria Oyster Bar. (Or actually, they took us, since his dad paid as usual.) I had fish tacos with mango, which were delicious, and we said hi to Pearl, the robot waitress, who has lost her coconut bra since the last time I saw her.

We all video-chatted with Dave in London via Facebook, and then my brother and I headed back to Tampa. My brother has loved cars since he was a tiny kid, and he loves to drive and spends a lot of time on the road, and he has lots of opinions about the proper ways to drive. Those opinions emerge in his hilarious habit of psycho-analyzing all the drivers around us. Most of us see someone driving crazy and say, "Wow, that guy is a jerk." My brother sees them and says, "That guy is a frustrated slave to the manosphere who's boiling with rage and fears he's an incel." He will judge someone's character based on whether their truck has racing stripes from Amazon or a certain style of hubcap. About 35 years ago I sold him my own car, a Honda, and he still holds it against me that I had spilled coffee on the center console and it had sticky spots. To hear him tell it, I replicated a Jackson Pollock painting inside that car.

He has an eagle eye for any kind of highway oddity. He spotted one pickup truck with a sagging back end that looked so scary and unworthy of the road that I couldn't believe it was legal to drive. Once he pointed it out I was astonished, but I know if I'd been in the car by myself I'd have breezed past without a glance.

Today I'll be helping my stepsister and her husband tidy up the house after all their hosting this weekend, and then I'm off to the airport in the afternoon for the journey back to London. I'll let you know tomorrow whether the wildlife cam picked up anything interesting in my stepmother's yard. (I'm sure you can't wait!)

27 comments:

  1. Your brother sounds like a lot of fun to ride with! I normally hate long car trips, but his commentary would make it so much better!

    Safe travels back to London, Steve.

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  2. That pink Tabebuia looks glorious. I don't suppose I could grow one here.
    Safe journey home.

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  3. Happy Landings!! It will be interesting to see a different assortment of wildlife

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  4. The flowering trees are beautiful. It sounds as if your brother is to cars as you are to plants. For me, plants win.

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  5. I would probably get along well with your brother on a road trip. I too analyze the drivers of vehicles around me. Many I think are trying to compensate for things missing in their lives.

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  6. I can remember when, Florida did away with mandatory car safety inspections.

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  7. I think I'd love to ride in the car with your brother and listen to his musings and ramblings!
    Safe travels home.

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  8. I am reminded of the Kapok Tree Restaurant in Clearwater, where we used to take our parents when they visited in the 70s. I don't remember ever seeing it in bloom, the tree, I mean. Pretty flowers. Enjoy your trip!

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  9. Sounds like you two had fun riding together - you rambling on about plants and him going on about cars! Just like when you were younger, I bet! Sweet!
    Safe travels home, Steve!

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  10. Like Barbara, I thought of the Kapok Tree Restaurant too. It was sort of legendary at one time. I never ate there, though. And I'm not sure I've ever seen a Kapok tree!
    Your brother is a hoot. I think we all make assumptions on drivers based on their vehicles but he's taken it to a fine art.
    I really have been wondering if you got any got footage from your camera.

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  11. It amazes me that you can do all the 'whirlwind trips'. Ye gods. I would be a mess for days.

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  12. I've taught Katie, by accident, to use hand gestures while driving. She thinks it's hilarious and loves joining in.
    Have a good trip home.

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  13. I believe your brother has a point in his analysis. Show me your car, and I tell you who you are, or something like that!
    The flowering trees are fantastic.
    Have a safe flight home!

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  14. I love the kapok flowers and that pink blossoming tree is gorgeous. Nice that you went and visited with Dave's family.

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  15. A sagging back end is an unpleasant thing to have. Once again I am hoping that the frog/lizard creature with the glasses is not sitting next to you on the aeroplane home... actually, I am telling a lie. Secretly, I hope he is sitting next to you! That would be something to blog about instead of plants, plants, plants, plants and MORE PLANTS!

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  16. Those flowers are worth a photograph. They are very pretty. I do love the way your brother analyzes the other drivers. I bet his observations are pretty close to the truth.
    Safe travels today!

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  17. Those Kapok blooms are stunning.
    I hope your return flight is trouble-free.

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  18. Back in the USA- gun and car culture, drive in everything. I do hope that the so called war will eliminate gas guzzlers and save shat is left of Nature. That is my hope. I love your brothers game- imaginative, hilarious. so much more clever than "jerk", wouldn'[t you say?
    Nice that you went to see your folks in law, next time you can pick up the tab.

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  19. I hesitate to know what your brother would say about my driving (although we all know that it's PARKING that's my real issue).

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  20. It sounds like a good trip and fun with your brother! I like his description of bad drivers. I think Rick is more of the "Jerk" territory (actually, that would be tame, only if small children were in the car!). But they would agree with the analysis of the driver! I hope the trip home is a safe one, no screaming children. And those trees are spectacular!

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  21. I love it that your brother notices so much about all the other vehicles on the road while he's driving. I do exactly the same whether I'm behind the wheel or a passenger. I'm always driving my husband mad saying 'Did you see that?' nine times out of ten he didn't and it makes me wonder if I'm even safe to be in the car with him when he's driving!!

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  22. I would love to drive with your brother; he sounds hilarious! The plants are beautiful especially that prehistoric flower. I've never seen one like it.

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  23. You brother is a car enthusiast.
    My neighbor's son is the same and has been forever. He's always ready to talk cars even as a small boy. Today he likes Subaru but drives a Mazda and an older Mustang convertible (2-seater) for fun. He is full of good facts, especially if you are preparing to buy another car.
    FL has some lovely tropical plants. They remind me of flowering plants I've seen in the Caribbean.

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  24. Those blooms are big and beautiful!

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  25. I’ve never heard of bombax. Those flowers are spectacular and, yes, prehistoric. I can just hear the grown crawling in and climbing out of that car. My uncle, when he was 76, bought himself a Mustang convertible. The way he saw it, everyone was envious and stared whenever he dropped it at valet. The way my aunt saw it: “Yeah, everyone started at the two old farts trying to get out of and back into that ridiculous car.” Wishing you a safe and pleasant return!

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  26. It sounds like you have your brother analysed as for as his car craze is concerned.

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  27. You spilled coffee and didn't clean it off? Tsk Tsk.

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