Monday, April 20, 2026

A Fox, a Pig and a Ceilidh


This fox visited our garden yesterday evening, when it was still light enough for me to get a photo of it peering at me from behind the birdbath. I'm always happy when I catch a glimpse of the foxes in daylight so I can appreciate their coloring, and now that we have daylight so late in the day that's likely to happen more.

I spent most of the day reading "London Falling," which I finished. I powered through that book. It was so good -- a real page turner. It tells the true story of a London teenager who died in 2019 in a fall from the balcony of a luxury apartment on the Thames. Why he fell, and the circumstances surrounding his presence in the apartment and what might have happened there, are a mystery. It turned out he was pretending to be the son of a Russian oligarch and had become mixed up with some unsavory characters who wanted his nonexistent money -- and that's the barest of the bare bones of the story. The author wrote an article in The New Yorker about the case in 2024, which he then expanded into this book. An outstanding read! I sent it to school with Dave this morning, to donate it to the library.

It did make me marvel at the underground world of con-men, liars and thieves that surrounds us all every day -- particularly in a cosmopolitan, global financial city like London where people come from all over the world to invest their ill-gotten gains, real or imagined. It's enough to make a person a little paranoid.

On a happier note, I went to my first ceilidh yesterday. It's basically a Scottish dance party, similar to what we'd call square dancing in the USA. In fact I'm sure square dancing derives from these kinds of dances, or maybe vice versa -- one we danced yesterday was the Virginia Reel. The colonials have come back to haunt the motherland!

One of Dave's colleagues in the music department hosted this ceilidh (pronounced "kay-lee") for her birthday, in the gym of a school right around the corner. Dave insisted on the walk over that he wouldn't dance, but of course he wound up dancing twice, one of those times with me. It was fun to watch and I got to chat with some of his co-workers and even some kids from our school, who were there with their parents. I'm glad to be able to say I am no longer a ceilidh virgin.

No. There are no videos. At least not that I'm posting publicly.


On the way home we stopped into Waitrose to pick up some stuff for dinner and I found this item in the garden section. This little ceramic pig is stuffed with sheep's wool, and supposedly, hanging it in the garden gives the birds something to nest with. I bought it for £7 even though it seems a bit ridiculous. Who doesn't want to give their birds a cozy nest?! We'll see if any birds use it.

There's a sucker born every minute, as P.T. Barnum supposedly said. Or was it W.C. Fields? Someone like that.


In the evening I poured a glass of wine, using these glasses that Dave's parents and sister sent me for my retirement. They capture my mood pretty accurately!

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  1. I've recently read about how it can attract birds to a garden when we provide them with nesting material such as sheep wool, and they can help themselves easily from such a dispenser like "Curlie".
    The Ceilidh sounds like fun! I've not been to any kind of dance in ages, since this February O.K. and I didn't even attend the masked ball in the village hall for carnival.

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    1. PS: Of course you made my day with the fox picture!
      And I must admit I don't think I have ever heard of the case of that teenager falling from a balcony before, but it sounds like a fascinating story, even more so because it really happened. Poor parents!

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    2. Maybe "Curlie" wasn't a total waste of money, then! Yeah, I can't imagine what those parents have been through.

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  2. I wish I had been a fly on the wall at the Ceilidh, that would have been fun to see and hear. I like the little pink pig.

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    1. It was fun but not very sophisticated. Lots of children!

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  3. Hmm.. Curlie is a good idea but ... I am not sure I would want a bright pink pig hanging from my tree! Now, if it was a more tasteful colour to blend in wth the foliage, well ...

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    1. I think the pig is pretty cute, though I'm not sure what it has to do with birds!

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  4. I have the sunflower version of your pig. Once they empty it, you can fill it w/dryer lint, etc. Birds love it.

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    1. OK, I'm glad to hear your birds have gone for it!

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  5. Of course ceilidh is pronounced "kay-lee"! I am a virgin, but I would love to try. The wine glass is perfect. Curlie is kind of cute. I’d be surprised if the birds don’t love it.

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    1. Like the name Niamh is pronounced "Neeve." I will never understand Celtic or Gaelic pronunciations!

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  6. Once Curlie's bowels have been emptied and are no longer woolly, you could possibly put a handful of seeds in the cavity - a snack bar for tits.

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    1. Yeah, I was thinking it could be a seed feeder, or we could get some more organic fluff to stick in there.

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  7. We used to do square dances in elementary school back in the late 1800s, and invite the parents to watch.
    I like the wool stuffed pig but wonder why a pig??
    That wine glass is spot on.

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    1. Yeah, we square-danced in elementary school too. In fact I told Dave I thought that was the last time I'd done it!

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  8. Beware of the message on the glass once retired.

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    1. Don't worry, I won't just sit around quaffing wine. :)

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  9. The ceilidhs at our school were Irish, but it was largely English country dancing, Stacks of Barley, all those. Very challenging for someone like me with no sense of direction and not much large coordination. We could pronounce it, but we left the spelling to the Irish girls.

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    1. I wonder what the difference is between an Irish and a Scottish ceilidh? This one involved men in kilts!

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  10. It has been attributed to Barnum over the years but I think scholars these days agree he wouldn't use such a disparaging term as "sucker" and no proof exists of him saying it. Scholars say it was probably one of a handful of con men at the time that coined the phrase.

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  11. I love that glass! And the pig - it's a cute idea even if it was pricey. I would at the very least like to see a picture of you & Dave dancing together.

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  12. the word ceilidh originally meant a gathering, usually neighbours coming together in one house with music, food, gossip, storytelling...

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    1. I guess that's pretty much what this was, but not in a house!

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  13. Sounds like a delightful day. I wrote a few years ago, about leaving feathers where they land, wildlife use them to "feather their nests."

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    1. Funny -- I never stopped to think where that expression might come from! I don't see many feathers in the garden. Mostly gray ones from pigeons.

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  14. We used to throw our dryer lint in the bushes for the birds. They also took advantage of any loose ends of bright blue tarps. Amazing creatures.

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    1. I've seen pictures of nests that used all sorts of innovative materials!

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  15. .I love the wine glass - what a 'thoughtful' gift. I like the pig. I put the brushings from the dogs out for the birds, but have never yet seen any birds availing themselves of them.

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  16. Love the fox pictures. Look at those eyes. They look like they've seen it all.
    The dance sounds like fun. What a great idea for a birthday party.
    I throw the hair from my hairbrush outside for the birds but have since heard that's not a good idea. I can't remember why. Sheesh.
    The wineglasses are perfect.

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    1. Foxes are very worldly creatures. There's a reason they're always so crafty and conniving in children's stories. Seems like hair would be great for birds, unless they can get tangled up in it or something?

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  17. I thought that story sounded so familiar to me and then you explained it by mentioning the New Yorker article where I originally read it.
    Your post reminded me of when we learned square dancing in high school gym class. ;)

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    1. I wish we'd square-danced in high school PE! We did nothing that fun. Just endless team sports: football, kickball, volleyball, baseball. Ugh.

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  18. I spent most of the day yesterday reading as well. The 'villain' was finally revealed (didn't know there was one), still have about 200 pages to go.
    I put some dryer lint in a mesh basket used for birdseed packed in lard for that very purpose. The birds ignored it. I finally threw the lint away.
    The ceilidh sounds like fun.

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    1. Two hundred pages after the revelation of the villain? What else is there to say? LOL! (What book is this again?)

      I imagine birds are choosy about the lint they like. Probably nothing that smells like a predator and maybe nothing too perfumed from the laundry? Just guessing.

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    2. King Sorrow by Joe Hill. He apparently hasn't finished his villainy.

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  19. I love that glass! It's a perfect retirement gift. I read a story in the NY Times about that kid from "London Falling". The article left me wondering what on earth possessed him to do the things he did and why he couldn't see how dangerous it was.
    The Virginia Reel in London! That's something totally unexpected.

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    1. Why that kid did what he did will always be a mystery. All kids experiment with identities but he really took things to an extreme. I have to wonder about his mental health, but he didn't live long enough for that to be fully explored.

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  20. Like Bob, I remember learning to square-dance in elementary school. We also learned "tinikling" and "lummi sticks". Do they even do stuff like that in schools anymore?

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    1. The kids at the school where I worked did dancing in PE class, but I'm not sure about square dancing. More like aerobics, I think. I don't know what tinikling and lummi sticks are!

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  21. Although I don't like wine, I love the sentiment on the glass. When I first retired, I was still so tied in emotionally to what happened to the students I left and my friends on the staff. Now I don't even think much about school and have no desire to go back; it's not the same anyway, from what I hear. I was hoping for dance videos! :)

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    1. Yeah, it takes a while to psychologically separate from the school. I'm not there yet, I'm sure. Dave comes home with stories about the kids and I'm all ears!

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  22. That is a handsome fox in your garden. Nice photo.
    The dance sounds like fun. Our school Gym classes included square dancing. Oddly enough, I remember the circle right, circle left and grand right and left.
    Your retirement wine glasses are ideal and carry the perfect sentiment.

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    1. I remember square dancing in school but I think we did it in music class. Gym was always for serious team sports, though I do remember playing "Red Rover" in elementary school. I hated that game.

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  23. My daughter sent a video from her ring camera. It showed a fox running down her sidewalk. Hot on his heels was her cat Mango.

    Those glasses are excellent!

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    1. Ha! It's a good thing the fox didn't turn around and take on Mango. I think a fox could do some damage, even to a fierce cat.

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  24. I love this post, Steve. Everything in it is fun. Sending your photo to my fox-loving grand, who is envious that you have foxes in your yard. Your ceilidh sounds like our contradances here. We used to go to those all the time and haven't in ages. It used to be called by some (many) "the folkie meat market" because so many met that way! Sounds like a great way to celebrate a birthday. I love the pig! And I have to get that book!

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    1. Oh yeah, I've heard of contra-dancing, though I don't think I've ever been to one. "Folkie meat market" -- ha!

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  25. Late to the party, I know (what is new) but congratulations on retirement! I love those glasses.

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  26. I do like those glasses.

    All the best Jan

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  27. So the first day of retirement and you find something new.

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    1. The first day of the rest of my life, as they say...

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  28. Looked it up and it looks like fun! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0AaMeAawXU&t=11s

    Great shot of Ms Fox.
    The wine glass is the best sentiment for everyone these days.

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    1. That's actually the EXACT SAME BAND that performed at our ceilidh!

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  29. I followed Linda Sue's link and it does look like fun. I would like to learn dances like that.

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    1. It was fun, especially with someone so clearly explaining what we had to do!

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