Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Fog


I got up at about 4 a.m. this morning to get some water, and this is what it looked like out the front window. Remember the estate agent's office that I mentioned in Monday's post, the one that glows blue at the top of the street? You can see it up the hill on the left. That building across the road has been under renovation for some time. God only knows what they're doing to it.

Sometimes when I look out at the street in the silent, unmoving early hours, I'll see a fox running down the pavement. While the city sleeps, the foxes are in charge.

Well, this has been a dispiriting couple of days, hasn't it? To put it mildly. The shooting at Brown, the shooting in Australia, the heartbreaking family tragedy of the Reiners. I loved "All in the Family" when I was a young teenager, though I wasn't permitted to watch it when I was a small child -- my parents thought it was too mature. Rob Reiner, just like his character Michael Stivic, represented a liberal sensibility that I always valued and I will miss him. I can't imagine the degree of parental anguish he and his wife must have felt in dealing with their son's addictions, not to mention the torment and alienation of the son himself. And I hate the fact that Reiner died with Trump in office. He deserved to see the end of this reign of destructive narcissism.


Today is our last day with students -- and it's just a half-day, so I'll be home in the early afternoon. And then we're on Winter Break! Woo hoo! Dave and I have a couple of days to get ready for traveling -- laundry and that kind of thing -- and then we're off to Florida.

I made our end-of-the-year charitable donations yesterday. Same cast of characters as usual: the ACLU, Planned Parenthood and the Southern Poverty Law Center. I'm also going to support Hope Not Hate in the UK, a sort of British equivalent to the SPLC.

And I wore my London Christmas sweater to work yesterday, even though it's overly warm and the lights no longer work. I'm always glad to get another use out of it. Hard to believe I bought it 11 years ago! Here's the little video Dave and I made back then to show it in action, which I apparently never embedded on my blog, though I did link to it:


What a time capsule that video is. Look how tiny our houseplants are! That's the avocado tree in the background by the window, now much taller than I am. And of course Olga on the floor behind me, gnawing on her Kong.

Anyway, I'd say I've gotten my money's worth out of that sweater.

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  1. I like the way the jumper lights up. Old photos can be very revealing about how things around the home looked many years ago.

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    1. It's funny, because I feel like things haven't changed much. But clearly they have!

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  2. Great jumper!
    Shame about the lights. Perhaps you could add new ones!!

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    1. I cut the wires out when I washed it. Adding new ones would be a job!

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  3. It is fascinating that although fog limits light it also lends a luminous quality.

    A new battery for the jumper?

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    1. No, the lighting mechanism is gone. I washed the sweater some time ago and had to remove the wires and everything to do that. (They had already stopped working.)

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  4. It's disappointing that you didn't dance along to Christmas tunes while wearing that sweater. When I was a schoolteacher, it was always such a welcome relief to reach the Christmas holidays - as though I had just trekked across a continent.

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  5. The best Christmas sweater! The fog photos are stunners. My heart hurts from the world. Drumpf is worse every day.

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    1. Yeah, it seemed an emotionally draining week. (And it's only Wednesday!)

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  6. That's a snazzy jumper. Shame about the lights, though.

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  7. I love your Christmas sweater video! The last couple of days have felt like tragedy after tragedy. Have a safe journey to Florida and good luck with your last day of school!

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    1. Thanks, Michael! I will post from Florida so you'll hear about the trip. :)

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  8. Yesterday was our last day of school! Hooray for winter break!

    The last few days have indeed been tragic and heartbreaking. I can't imagine how devastated the Reiner family must be. And the other shootings are just horrible. Drumpf is beneath contempt. I don't have words for the depth of my disgust that that person is POTUS. Just pure evil.

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    1. He really does just get worse and worse. Only Trump could make the death of Rob Reiner all about himself.

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  9. Love the sweater video -- that is a wonderful way to end a sobering post. Those events have pulled us all down. Tragic and senseless. My heart breaks for every family who has lost a parent or a child and to such violence. Will it ever stop?

    Hooray for short days, Christmas sweaters and getting ready to travel. I hope all goes well with the flight and that you have a wonderful holiday!

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  10. I have been rocked by the Reiner murders. I just cannot fathom a child killing his own parents and his sister discovering the bodies. Both Rob and Michele did wonderful things film wise, and really helped move the cause of marriage equality forward so they hold a special place in my heart.

    Now, the Christmas sweater. It's hilarious and you have gotten miles of use out of it. Luckily I have never worked anywhere that seemed to suggest we wear Christmas sweaters because I'd take a sick day!

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    1. It really is an appalling conclusion to the family story. And yes, as you said, the Reiners did a lot for the LGBTQ+ community.

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  11. So lovely to see a young Olga and to hear your voice. That sweater is surprisingly nice for a Christmas sweater. I love the blue.

    Addictions destroys so many lives, in so many ways. I can't imagine what that family went through, their own particular version of hell. It breaks my heart.

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    1. I think that's partly why I liked it -- it was more wintry than Christmasy (despite the Santa motif on the front). And yes, my heart is broken too.

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  12. Archie Bunker was on during the years I lived without a television so I only remember it when we stayed with our grandfather for an overnight. As you might suspect, I would guess he identified with Archie more than he did Meathead. I would like to perhaps watch a few of the more controversial episodes of it and see how it has aged over the years. I'm guessing it has aged toward Meathead's attitudes and away from Archie. I would also like to watch "This Is Spinal Tap", a movie I missed in my youth though I think I have seen the bulk of Rob's other works and enjoyed them all.

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    1. It's been a while since I've watched "All in the Family" but I imagine it's both dated and surprising in its embrace of issues our society still can't address comfortably.

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    2. Well I did watch "This Is Spinal Tap" yesterday afternoon. It was funny in spots but overall, just a "meh" for me. His many other movies were much better.

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  13. So much sadness happening all around. We need some peace and goodwill right now.
    Your sweater is so cute!

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    1. Peace on Earth, goodwill towards men! Has that ever been true, since the words were written?

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  14. Such struggles with a son in terrible mental illness, their private life was not one you'd wish on anyone. It's a sad time in many ways. I'm glad I have oasis points like my fiber arts group where we don't dwell on current events. It's a relief.

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    1. I can see how anything to lift you out of current events would be a good thing, especially when it's something with a creative purpose.

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  15. Olga Girl , Tag , Lights , And Fog - What A Post - So Stoked That You Are Heading Back To Florida

    Way Cool ,
    Cheers

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  16. It just gets worse and worse.

    I imagine tomorrow at SHARE all the good church folk will be wearing their christmas duds.

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    1. Do you have a Christmas sweater so you can blend in? It's probably too warm for a sweater there!

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    2. The only reason I would wear a Christmas sweater is if it was the only thing I had to wear. And too warm here for sweaters, at least today.

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  17. I love you Christmas sweater. It's perfect even if it doesn't light up any longer. I agree about this week's events. It's been a sad week everywhere. We could use some good news now.

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    1. I do love how specific to London the sweater is.

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  18. That sweater is still a hoot. And you can still wear it! It is sad that it no longer lights up.
    Yeah. When I think about how horrible it must have been to see a child suffer so much, to do everything within your power to help the child and to never really find the answer and THEN to be the victims of his rage...
    I can't.
    Foggy night in London Town. Nice shot.

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    1. I mean, they put him in rehab something like 18 times! It's hard for me to imagine that level of dedication. And then for THIS to happen. It's appalling to think they might have been better off if they'd let him kill himself with his drug use.

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  19. Happy travels and a Merry Christmas to you both.

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  20. I can't imagine the heartbreak the Reiner family experienced over many years and to no avail. Such a sad ending for everyone.
    The sweater is still great even without the lights.
    Safe travels!

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    1. It really is unimaginable. I'll be sure to let everyone know how the trip goes! (We don't leave until Saturday.)

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  21. I adore old videos with much loved pets, the chance to see them agsin is priceless. Love your jumper even if the lights don't work.

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    1. Yeah, having Olga in the background is a special treat. I'd forgotten how focused she'd be on chewing her Kong! She stopped doing that in later life.

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  22. Those foggy scenes are how I dream of London. Must have been all those Sherlock Holmes stories I read as a boy. And the first time I viewed the sweater video I didn't have the sound on and almost said out loud, "The tag's still on in the back!" Great laugh though.

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    1. Yes, "Foggy London Town" is a real thing, though apparently in the old days the "fog" was largely coal smoke.

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  23. That is a great Christmas sweater.

    All the best Jan

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  24. Where I live (northwestern Canada) the deer own the streets at night. They took out our Christmas lights the other night! (I think I'd prefer a fox.) Christmas sweaters...I say, why not? However, the only one I have is a t-shirt with a highland steer in a Santa hat. It makes me happy.

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    1. Christmas t-shirts DO have more flexibility, in terms of when and where they can be worn! How did the deer take out your lights?! Are they now wearing them on their antlers?

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  25. Awwww.... a young Olga! It really has been a rough few days. Hell, it's been a rough year.

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    1. It HAS been a rough year. Every year in January we're so hopeful, and then reality comes crashing in.

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  26. From what I recall, Archie Bunker was supposed to be repugnant, even back in those days. Carroll O'Connor was nothing like him in real life. Love the Xmas sweater! It's a classic.

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    1. Oh yeah, he was always meant to be a backward-thinking dinosaur. I always heard Carroll O'Connor was very different in person.

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  27. That sweater is great! Happy last day of school.

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  28. Love the sweater which we Aussies call a jumper. Happy Holiday, will you be posting from Florida?

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    1. Absolutely! I have to keep up my run of posting every day!

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  29. Yes, the tag's still on at the back of your great sweater! I have not (yet) worn my Christmas jumper this year; it never had lights but the first photo of me wearing it when it was brand new shows me still with brown hair - so, a sort of time capsule, too.

    Fog lends a magic quality to the most familiar places, doesn't it.

    The Reiners were on our main TV news here, too, but then over the next two days or so I wasn't home at the time when I usually watch the news and haven't caught up with the full drama yet. The world as a whole seems extremely far away from anything resembling the festive and peaceful mood Christmas is supposed to bring, doesn't it.

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    1. It has definitely been a challenging week. Probably just as well you took a couple of days off from the news!

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