This was the sky yesterday morning as I prepared to go to work. It was still cold -- about 22º F (or -5.6º C) -- but you can see a thin layer of clouds beginning to drift past the moon. Those clouds built up over the next few hours until we had snow right around lunchtime.
Fortunately, as the clouds increased, it got warmer, so "Operation Guacamole" began to wind down. When I went to work I reluctantly left the heater running inside the avocado's shroud, because of the extreme chill, and all morning I had visions of the house burning down in my absence. But I came home at lunch and disconnected all the electrics, wound up the extension cord, and left the avocado covered but without supplemental heat. The snowfall was minor -- maybe half a centimeter -- and melted quickly, and it didn't freeze last night. I think we've passed the critical period. All the low temperatures in the coming week are in the 30s, though some hover right around freezing. With more snow possible, I'll leave the shroud on the tree.
Blogger Meike made an interesting observation in the comments yesterday -- that my attention to the avocado might be "a bit of an Olga replacement, caring for a tree like you did for your dog." There may indeed be some transference going on there, but I also think, as Ms. Moon said, protecting the tree simply became a challenge for me. I enjoyed trying to figure it out.
Remember the envelope of photo negatives I retrieved from my stepmother's house -- the ones labeled "Stephen's pictures"? Well, I got them scanned, and here are some of the results. That's my stepbrother, above, in the living room of the apartment where he lived before his mom married my dad. It would have been 1975 or so. I see Phoebe Snow's first album leaning up against the record cabinet, and that came out in 1974, which helps date the picture. And of course Jim is giving us "Fonz" thumbs, so we know it's from the era of "Happy Days."
Here's my stepmother's mother and grandmother, whose family nickname I cannot for the life of me figure out how to spell. It's pronounced like "yeah," the informal word for yes, but repeated twice with Ms replacing the letter Y. So "Meahmeah," or something close to that. That's my stepsister on the floor to the right.
Here's the real mystery -- my stepsister on the beach with some man who none of us can identify. Even my stepmother said she doesn't know who he is. As my stepbrother said, "It was the '70s, when rando hairy guys in Speedos could jump into any picture."
Anyway, although they are labeled "Stephen's pictures," I'm certain I didn't take that last one, and I doubt I took any of them. Maybe my stepmother just assumed they were mine because the negative format matched my camera. But they are from right around the time when I first met my step-family, and I visited the apartments in both of those first two pictures.
Remember how I pledged to do "Dry January"? Well, between running "Operation Guacamole" and having a very busy day at work, I was in sore need of a glass of red wine last night. Let's call it "Slightly Damp January."




The photo of the stranger with your stepsister looks disturbing, but I am sure it isn't.
ReplyDeleteYou've fallen off the wagon and have picked yourself up from the floor this morning with great regrets, until tonight. Just one won't hurt.
I am reminded of the massive speakers we used to need to produce almost decent sound in years past.
I love to see those blasts from the past. Great memories.
ReplyDeleteI wish that your stepmother's grandmother had also crossed her legs. The photographs look as though they have come from distant history which I suppose they have. The beach god with the visor looks like an Australian fellow of my acquaintance called Andrew. Currently he resides in Melbourne.
ReplyDeleteCodex: It's not transference. You have obsessive traits (not a bad thing, ALL scientists do as well) and you like to look after things. One has little to do with the other.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed operation guacamole.
But was it a DRY red?
ReplyDeleteTwo laughs. Mitchell's comment and your slightly damp January. Meike's observation was interesting. Keep the avocado off the new couch.
ReplyDeleteI'm kind of sad at the end of Operation Guacamole (or as I've been calling it in my head, As the Avocado Turns). That hairy guy kind of reminds me of Jeff Goldblum. Ha!
ReplyDeleteI hear you on slightly damp January. I've been mostly dry but we're having friends for dinner on Saturday and I can assure you, it will be damp. I think you just love the avocado, have put a lot of years in time for it and you're not about to let it die in the cold because you didn't at least try something. My two center!
ReplyDeleteWe had a dry 2025, so might try a little watering this year. I liked Mitchell's comment! 😀
ReplyDeleteI do like the sound of a 'Slightly Damp January'. I finished off the last of a bottle of wine the other day, and I resisted the urge to put my last Christmas bottle of wine into the fridge, I only like my white wine well chilled so it's usually safe when it's in the cupboard. But now that you've made me think about it, it might have to be moved!!
ReplyDeleteI keep thinking that you'll find some old photographs or negatives of my parents from when they lived in England in the late 50s, or my grandparents even!
ReplyDeleteThe one thing I miss about the 70's is in your picture of your step brother Jim. The stereo systems. Back then, they all had these silver fronts to them with big knobs and words imprinted on them that were clearly legible and easy to read. Then in the 80's they went to the all back fronts and shrank the labeling until one must have clear bright light shining on the thing to see which button to press.
ReplyDeleteThat's an interesting gallery of people, especially since you mostly know who they are. I think everyone's denying their boytoy!
ReplyDeleteYears ago, in the 80's I grew an avocado tree taller than me. Here in Michigan, I set it outside every spring and then it wintered in a stairway landing with lots of light. One day I noticed little bits of "sawdust" on some of the branches. There were small holes bored into the plant. Upon further inspection, I discovered little worms, which were later identified as peach borers had eaten the heartwood out of several of the branches. The tree did not survive the winter. So be watchful of your lovely plant.
ReplyDeleteGreat photos from the past. That hairy guy that no one knows is a bit suspect but he must be a long forgotten family acquaintance. I'm sure that whoever took the photo wouldn't let your step-sister get so close if he was a stranger.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad the freezing temperatures are drifting away. I did check the Abbey Road webcam yesterday afternoon to see if it was snowing but all I saw was wet streets.
These pictures are fascinating to me. That first one is so much a part of its time and place from the mammoth speakers to the Fonzie thumbs to the beige and brown "art" on the wall to what looks to possibly be shag carpet. I can almost guess what would be in that collection of record albums.
ReplyDeleteAnd then the two women on the couch. Your stepmother's grandma looks as if she is holding on to it with dear life, her daughter beside her, relaxed and at ease.
That final picture- whoa. Who WAS that rando guy? He sure looks like he thought he belonged there. The plastic Halloween pumpkin being used as a sand bucket is disconcerting too for some reason.
Life in the seventies. So odd.
Mary, I had the same startling reaction to grandma on the sofa- upsetting.
DeleteThings that struck me...your step brother wearing short shorts. Do boys and men wear shorts that short anymore? Idon't think so. And the grandmother, poor thing, her legs/ankles/feet are so swollen. And rando guy on the cusp of the time when everybody started getting fat from the adulteration of our food supply and fast food. And speedos were so shocking!
ReplyDeleteMoist January:)
ReplyDeleteLove the old photos. Rando guy, the old days before all the young got fat or ripped.
Call the wine medicinal. Love the short shorts, remember footballers in the 1970's wearing shorts like that and they normally had permed hair too - think Kevin Keegan. Xx
ReplyDeleteI thought the brother had no pants- not alarming really- no pants - better than short shorts. Phoebe Snow caring for her daughter for some 30 odd years was more admirable than just about anything! I liked her for that reason.
ReplyDeleteThat random speedo guy, yikes! In looking at old pictures, I often wonder what we were thinking. We had some interesting poses. Glad that it's warming up there so there isn't as much worry about the plants. We're going colder with possible snow tomorrow. Eek!
ReplyDeleteOld photos bring back lots of memories and show a record the times. So many changes between then and now!
ReplyDeleteThe avocado is surviving well with all your care...even though you had to recover with a glass of red. Well deserved.
Ahhh, the 70s. Best decade ever. (Can you tell it was my teenage years? lol) The hair, the stereo system, the furniture, the clothes ... all so very familiar :)
ReplyDelete"Random hairy guys in speedos" Yikes!!
ReplyDeleteIt so interesting to study the details in the old photos. So much to notice and guess at. It's funny how we each notice different things and it sure brings back memories from a different time!
ReplyDelete"Slightly damp January". Hahaha! Oh, well.
ReplyDeletePerhaps call the wine medicinal!
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
Your step-sister seems quite comfortable with the stranger so perhaps he is/was a family friend at the time.
ReplyDeleteSlightly damp January is acceptable.
You like solving mysteries. You've got lots of mysteries here.
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