Monday, September 2, 2024

Barbra and Olga


Here's our pink Japanese anemone, which grows near our fence by the back steps. It sent up a tall flower stalk earlier this year, and then suddenly part of the plant shriveled and died. I don't know if it got too dry or what, but I was glad to see some of it has survived and bloomed. (Even if the flower is slightly lopsided!)

I spent most of the day in the garden yesterday with Barbra. I'm 200 pages in, so about a quarter of the way. What's struck me so far is how wildly unusual her life is. She was so young when she became famous -- still a teenager, really -- and she had a fairly meteoric rise. There was a brief period of singing in nightclubs and couch-surfing, but really, as an adult, she's never not known success. She's never not been famous.

I'm not sure she's even fully aware how unusual her life is. She says she doesn't think of herself as a star. But she treats quite casually the small moments when she exerts that star power -- like when she calls up Tim Cook at Apple because the newest generation of Siri mispronounces her name, and by golly Tim Cook corrects that mistake. Or when she asks to buy a painting from the Philadelphia Museum of Art (granted, the museum turned her down). I'm sure she knows on an intellectual level that most people can't do those things, but does she fully perceive her privilege?

Still, she comes across as likable and sensible, and the book is a smooth and easy read. I'm enjoying it, and I love hearing the backstory of how she came to sing a legendary duet with Judy Garland, for example, or how she questioned the lyrics of "People," one of her signature songs. She asked Bob Merrill, the songwriter, "Isn't it people who don't need people who are the luckiest people in the world?" His terse reply: "No."


I washed our back-door mat and set it out in the sun to dry. I wonder if Barbra ever washes her own back-door mat? Probably not now, but as a young star she used to hand-wash her clothes in a bathtub in the kitchen of her apartment. Kind of an amusing image.

Some of you may be wondering how Olga's teeth are doing. Here's your answer:


You would never know that dog just had eight teeth removed, would you? Sorry I kept getting my fingers into the frame. I was having trouble holding the phone at that angle.

Thanks to those of you who warned me about mint and how it's likely to take over if planted in the ground. That hasn't been our experience here -- we planted it in one flower bed and it struggled along for a couple of years before being utterly consumed by English ivy. To be honest, I wouldn't mind it taking over. We need some ground cover that can out-compete the weeds in the central flower bed. So we may take the plunge and put it in the ground anyway. I'll let you know.


I can't resist closing with this photo of sleeping Olga. She was zonked.

61 comments:

  1. The Japanese anemone grows here as a wild plant in the fields and blooms only in winter. Here, of course, it has another name that has nothing to do with Japan.

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  2. The end picture looks like Barbra Streisand after she was zonked.

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  3. Possibly the flower bud was damaged? It is a pretty plant anyway.

    Sleeping Olga...how beautifully relaxed!

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  4. I hope Olga never finds out you shared that final photo. She will NOT be pleased. She sure is adorable.

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    1. Ha! Fortunately dogs are not very self-conscious.

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  5. We're having the same thoughts about Barbra; I think her diva label came from the fact that she asked questions, not because she disagreed but because she wanted to know why things were a certain way.

    Like how Olga passes out like a drunken soldier ... something I say about our cats when they flop on their backs to nap!

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    1. Yeah, it sounds like she was insistent about what she wanted, but that's not a bad thing! Animals really do crash when they sleep.

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  6. What to say... Olga has copied her master's sleeping position.

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    1. I beg your pardon! I do not sleep like that. I'm a side-sleeper.

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  7. Maybe British mint is less assertive than American mint? I currently have a purloined bit of peppermint firmly in a pot. I have enough trouble with lemon balm, which I've never planted but which grows everywhere.

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    1. Oh no...it is definitely assertive 😄

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    2. Ha! We've had several instances of plants that people say are thuggish simply dwindling and dying in our garden. I think our soil is problematic for some.

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  8. Glad Olga is doing well and enjoying life!

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    1. She is definitely living in the moment and apparently loving it!

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  9. That Olga! So glad she has no seeming effects from her dental work. She sure is worn out -- it's always fun, seeing her sleep. The mint can easily spread but is that a bad thing? You can always tear out if it goes where you don't want -- and it smells great and can be used for cooking or drinks, so what's not to love? I'm glad you're enjoying Barbra. I hadn't thought about the always being famous for so many years and the privilege that comes with that. A good insight!

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    1. That's how I feel -- so what if it spreads? We can mow it if it gets into the grass, and in the past when I've done that it smells amazing. :)

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  10. That struck me about Barbra too- how she can just call almost anyone in the world to ask for favors or give advice or...whatever. Have you gotten to the part where she becomes one of Bill Clinton's unofficial advisors? She truly has no idea of the enormity of her privilege. Of course she did work very hard to achieve what she has but you're right- it came at such a young age that I'm sure it all seems very natural to her.

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    1. I haven't reached the Clinton connection yet. I don't mean to suggest this all came to her without any effort on her part, but yeah, you wonder if she understands the everyday annoying BS that most of us have to put up with!

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  11. I like mint as a ground cover. I find it mows just like grass.

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  12. I was going to caution you about the mint which did take over an area when I lived in the city but my sister planted some in the ground here and it pretty much behaves.

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    1. I think it depends on where it's placed and what the soil conditions are like.

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  13. I agree with Barbra - it feels like people who DON'T need people are luckier than those who do (but maybe I've worked in HR too long - ha!).

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  14. Zonked Olga made my day! That freckled soft underbelly of the magnificent ! She is such a lovely pooch! Mint is successful and delicious- tea the Moroccan way. If it takes over that is a good thing! Ground cover of mint and lavender- YES!
    Never much of a fan of "people needing People" , I am glad that Barbara tried to set the writer of the song straight.

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    1. Olga really does have a very photogenic belly, unlike many of us. :)

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  15. My boss' boss has mint growing in her garden, and there is so much of it that she brings bags of it to work and distributes it among us. She says it has developed into a veritable plantation, and there is only so much tea she wants to make of it.
    I don't use it for tea, but love it in Tabouleh, in cocktails and just chewing on a freshly picked leaf is very refreshing in summer.

    Steve, have you read "Our Missing Hearts" by Celeste Ng? If not, please do! It is a great book for anyone, but even more so for Librarians. A friend of mine has lent me her copy, and it is the kind of book I can hardly wait to return to at night, reading longer than I should be staying awake.
    I find it very apt these days, and (sadly) most of it very plausible.

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    1. I haven't read that book yet but I'll be sure to grab a copy! I loved "Little Fires Everywhere." It's always great to read a book that you can't put down.

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  16. Olga has such a lady-like bark.
    And your garden is stunning. At first I thought that was a castle turret in the background. Hard to believe you're in the city.

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    1. She barks more and more as she gets older, and it's a higher-pitched bark than she used to have. Funny how it's changed over time!

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    2. She's probably getting a little deaf.

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  17. I'm glad to see that Olga can still enjoy her Kong. Was her bark saying "look at me chew!" or "get that camera away from me!" ?

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    1. Probably the latter. She hates having her picture taken. (Probably because she doesn't understand it and thinks it's some kind of game.)

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  18. That's interesting about Barbra; I guess when you grow up with the attention and the easier life, you can't necessarily understand what regular people deal with. I grew up and live in the suburbs so country or city life (besides a visit) would confuse me. I could probably adapt after a while but I'm not sure Barbra can. Olga is back to normal!

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    1. I don't know if it's an easier life, because I'm sure she has a whole different level of drama to deal with -- but the everyday annoyances that plague us (like not having calls returned) probably never happen to her.

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  19. Around 15 years ago, my close friend David was dating someone who was on the Phoenix city counsel. Consequently, he met a lot of famous people and celebrities. He met Barbra some years ago when she was here for a concert and he told me that of all the famous people he met, she was the most genuine and down to earth. He said most of the others hated the meet-and-greet sessions and let it show. Instead, she engaged him in conversation and seemed totally interested in what he had to say. I've thought of her as a down to earth person ever since I heard that.
    I love the look of the garden through those purple flowers and of course it's always a treat to see Miss Olga.

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    1. Interesting! I'm not surprised to hear it, having read some of this book. She definitely seems that way.

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  20. Your borders are truly lovely …and I’m not flirting

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  21. Olga sleeps beautifully. She's so relaxed.

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    1. She does really crash. As she's aged and her hearing has gotten worse, it's sometimes hard to wake her up!

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  22. Wow! A double dose of Olga! That's much better than 970 pages of Barbra!

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    1. I'm so glad to hear that in blogland, there's no such thing as too much Olga. :)

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  23. You really plowed through the Barbra book! I love the last picture of Olga - that belly! and that blanket that matches the pink of it! She looks so, so comfortable there :D

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    1. Oh, I'm not done with it. I'm less than a quarter of the way through! The pink blanket is in tatters these days but we just can't throw it out.

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  24. Olga is looking good and she came through the dental surgery with flying colors. I've admired BS for many years. She always seems very genuine. My mint grows very well on both sides of a small staircase leading to my Magnolia tree. As I walk by, the mint scent fills the air.

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    1. See, that sounds wonderful. I would love smelling mint out in the garden. And we'd have more mint moths!

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  25. A lawn of mint sounds divine to me, although it is invasive and becomes sort of scraggly. And Olga -- she's just so Olga.

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    1. I guess you'd have to keep it cut back. Even in pots it gets scraggly. I like "Olga" as adjective. :)

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  26. I have to disagree with Bob Merrill. I'm a loner, I don't need other people to be happy, and I think I'm lucky to be that way. I have neighbours who can't bear to be alone and they are always having people visit or going places to see other people, or talking on their phones for hours.
    I'm glad Olga has recovered from her teeth extractions and love that photo of her sleeping.

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    1. I disagree with Bob Merrill too. Maybe he just thought it sounded way too misanthropic to write it the other way, even if it's more truthful!

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  27. I would have a hard time identifying with Barbra since I have lived most of my life frugally when compared to even my peers.

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