Wednesday, January 15, 2025

Moving Forward


Thanks for all your comments on my post yesterday. (And so many comments! I don't think I've written anything in weeks that has garnered that much attention!) Let me make clear that Dave and I aren't going anywhere immediately. I think for the next couple of years, at least, we're staying put. This is all big-picture pondering.

As some of you said, I think it's natural to think a little more deeply about the trajectory of life in the dark depths of winter, after the distraction of the holidays, especially amid medical uncertainty. I think planning a trip to visit the states may be enough for us for the time being, and that's what we're working on now.

Meanwhile, things have warmed up a bit here. Warm is relative, of course, but at the moment, in the pre-dawn darkness, it's 44º F (or 6.6º C). I actually uncovered the avocado last night to let the poor thing breathe and get some sun over the next couple of days. It's a little bent and battered by its fabric shroud, but otherwise it seems fine. Apparently that tree is tougher than I think it is. I'm happy to say no sub-freezing temperatures are in the forecast for the next ten days, though a few nights come close.


I made a little reinvestment in our garden yesterday when I sent the gardeners approval to come and do some cleanup for us in the next month or two. We've asked them to remove a bunch of ivy that has threatened to consume the north side of the garden. I hate pulling ivy. It is one of the least pleasant gardening experiences. But English ivy is only slightly less virulent than kudzu and it will swamp everything if left to run amok, so we need to get it in check. It's a job I'm happy to pay someone to do.

Also, the flat management company has asked to do a walk-through of the property on Jan. 22, so they can inspect the place and make sure we're not demolishing it or turning it into a grow house or meth den. I'm glad they're coming because I'd like to point out the several maintenance issues that I've reported that have been left completely unaddressed, like our missing kitchen cabinet door.

We still haven't heard any more about trimming the front garden, either. The Russians weren't happy with the quote I got from the gardener -- they thought it was too expensive -- so they went to get estimates of their own and last I heard they and our landlords were working out what to do. (Under the terms of our lease we aren't responsible for front garden upkeep.) I thought they'd settled on someone but I've heard nothing in weeks and meanwhile the garden still looks like the rain forests of Suriname. I wouldn't be surprised if there were monkeys living in there.

As I have occasionally mentioned here, I listen to a podcast called Q-Anon Anonymous that I absolutely love. (It's actually just called QAA now, because it has grown beyond Q-Anon to dissect conspiratorial thinking in general, in both historical and current events.) About a week ago I bought myself a Christmas present and became a paid subscriber, so that I can hear all their premium episodes and some of the special series they've done in the past. (Where else would I learn about the Tartarian Empire?) I'm psyched that I have that to listen to on my walks to and from work.

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  1. Missing kitchen cabinet door? How long have you lived there and was it missing to begin with? That's not good. I like the look of ivy but would never plant any myself given it's take-over habits.

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    1. It fell off last summer and I can't (easily) put it back because the hinge is broken and needs to be replaced.

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  2. We have battled against rampant ivy in our garden since we moved here but it now seems to be under control.
    A rainforest front garden sounds quite eco friendly!
    I have just looked up QAA. Sounds interesting.

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    1. I do think our front garden is an ecological hotspot. I think the foxes hide out in there fairly often!

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  3. Under Tom Homan, Trump's new "border tsar", will you and Dave be allowed back in The United Sates? You might have to wait your turn, lining up behind the Mexicans, Guatemalans and assorted asylum seekers. "The Trajectory of Life" sounds like the title of your first novel but you may need a pen name to hide your true identity. How about Suriname Kudzu?

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    1. Suriname Kudzu would be a fabulous name, actually! As for Trump, who knows if he'll let us back in. He might see that we're Democrats and ban us.

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  4. Oh kudzu!!! I had never seen anything like it until we moved here and I've never seen anything grow so fast!

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  5. Ivy is a saponiferous plant, braggy way of saying you can make soap from it. When my neighbors pulled out some ivy, I collected a bunch, boiled it up, strained it, and had laundry soap. I can't see you doing that, but it's a thought.

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  6. The Tartarian empire? Wow, it boggles the mind what people will make up to suit their own theories. Confirmation bias much:)
    January is generally when I want change in my life so badly, that I may actually do something to make it better. I live with an angry man who can't communicate. It's hard.

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    1. I think there is something about this time of year that makes us all restless. We're deep in midwinter and we just want it to be over!

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  7. I've often wondered how your Russian neighbors can do so much construction work on a building they just rent.

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  8. Mike & I have often traveled a road in NC with so much kudzu encroaching that we figured that it would have completely taken over the next time we tried to drive that way. There was a LOT of kudzu on my grandparents' dairy farm. It's weird now because the family sold the property to developers & they've built a lot of homes & now there's no more kudzu.

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    1. Haven't the southern states waged an eradication effort to knock it back? There was a time when whole forests were consumed by it.

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  9. Good for you for hiring someone to get rid of that ivy! I should take your example and hire someone to get rid of some of the invasive plants I have around here.
    The podcast sounds great. I might check it out. I do love a good podcast.

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    1. Well, I hope I've hired him. I haven't heard back and it's been several days since I wrote this post!

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  10. That podcast sounds fascinating. I really don't understand how people get caught up in such outrageous ideas.
    Hopefully, the management company walk-through will see that the front garden needs a good trim.

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    1. Yeah, I have a few things to show the management on the walk-through. I'm making a list!

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  11. The click back to April was just what I needed, flowers, tulips , sunshine and Olga!

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  12. Getting rid of invasives is always great. My invasive is wild bamboo. Total and complete removal is next to impossible. If one tiny root remains a new plant shoots up. Another removal project is scheduled for the Spring.
    I'll check out the podcast.

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    1. Yeah, bamboo is another plant that can only barely be contained. Ask Ms Moon!

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  13. It's good that the avocado is hanging in there. We did not cover the bougainvilleas because we just didn't, and the ends of the branches are looking crispy. They're not dead, and I had planned a big pruning after all danger of frost. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Someone planted eleven or so Texas Sages in the yard, and they're all woody and ugly. Some are 7-8 feet all. We're going to have someone cut them to ground level and then spray the stumps with brush killer. Keeping them dead will probably be an ongoing project.

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    1. Well, there's something to be said for letting some superficial freezing happen and then just cutting things back.

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  14. The podcast would probably inflame my already sensitive temper. It would also make me even more angry at people's gullibility. Ah, well. On my walk, I listen to music, usually distracting rock. :) I hope your front jungle gets dealt with soon!

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    1. For some reason I've lost my enthusiasm for listening to music while I walk. I'm not sure why.

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  15. I'd take that 44F since it was 24F when I set out on my walk this morning. it's supposed to be even colder next week.

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    1. Ugh! Yeah, I see you're all headed for a deep freeze. :(

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  16. I have no idea what a Tartanian empire is (a bunch of kilted folk?). Let us know some of the best of it! And I'd kill for 44 -- it's only 23 now (which has warmed up) but the wind chill makes it feel worse. That's good about the walk through. Oh, that the garden might have the same results!

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    1. The Tartarian Empire is so bizarre that it's barely worth explaining, but my linked post explains it a little bit. :)

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  17. Regarding the front garden, it sounds like a bit of a saga with the Russians and the landlords. Having a well-kept garden can really enhance the overall appearance of the property

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    1. It is definitely a bit of a saga! And it's ongoing!

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  18. Did you hear President Biden's farewell address and, if so, what did you think of it?

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    1. No, I didn't watch it. I read about it, but I didn't form an opinion.

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  19. Uh oh, maybe Mr. Russia will take on the front garden himself. THAT will be a year-long project. I admire you being able to listen to that podcast which does sound fascinating, but I think it would blow the top of my head off by the time I got to work. (But, you know, the Tartarians did build some incredible buildings.)

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    1. He'd be out there with scissors, individually cutting every leaf and twig!

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  20. A crude phrase, perhaps Australian or perhaps English, could be used to describe the instructions at the pedestrian crossing, being 'No shit Sherlock'. What? I have to press a button to bring up the walk signal. Who would have thought!

    From your podcast subscription, are you learning anything real that you did not already know?

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    1. I know! It seems self-explanatory, doesn't it?! But there are some clueless people out there, I suppose.

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    2. Oh, and as for learning anything "real," I suppose I'm learning that people really believe these crazy theories!

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