Sunday, April 6, 2025

Too Much About Plants, and 'Queer'


Remember how last year was a banner year for our forget-me-nots? We had masses of them, all around our roses and in two locations at either side of the lawn. I don't know what made them so prolific, but I left them all until the end of May, giving them plenty of time (I thought) to go to seed.

This year? We have almost none.

I am completely mystified about why they didn't come back as they always have. The only place we have them is in two pots next to the back steps (above), where they re-seeded. Those pots are supposed to contain lobelia, on the left, and masterwort (Astrantia) on the right -- and they're there, but the lobelia is barely hanging on.

Before you conclude that my mulching of a few weeks ago is what drove them away -- I intentionally didn't mulch where the forget-me-nots usually grow. So who knows what happened.


Another garden mystery -- our tree fern. It was doing fine, apparently, all winter, and then suddenly within the last week or two all its fronds shriveled and turned crispy. It happened almost all at once. I thought perhaps it got too dry, but we had quite a rainy winter and I watered it a few times over the past month -- so I'm not sure how that would have happened. I cut most of the shriveled fronds off yesterday (which I discovered belatedly I'm not supposed to do). We'll see if it recovers.

Yesterday I repotted our toadflax and threw away the Plectranthus, which you may remember we got from Mrs. Kravitz (along with our mint) during the pandemic. Our local garden center was giving away its plants before lockdown and she took so many that she couldn't use them all. Plectranthus is usually grown as an annual, but we kept this one going for years. I'd bring it in every winter even though I sort of semi-hated it -- it was incredibly messy and dropped leaves everywhere. Finally, yesterday, I looked at that nest of dry sticks, only a few of which showed any signs of spring growth, and decided I'd had enough. It's in the trash.


Olga and I walked through the nearby housing estate, where she checked for the cats beneath a certain courtyard doorway, as is her custom. I'm not sure those cats are even alive anymore. There was no sign of them yesterday.


Afterwards, she lounged in the sun in the garden as I sat nearby and read. I just started a book called "The Satsuma Complex" by Bob Mortimer, a humorous mystery that I'm enjoying. I haven't read a book in several weeks -- I've felt overwhelmed just staying on top of the news online. But I finally made a conscious decision to set aside my devices and get back to books and The New Yorker, so that's what I'm doing.


As you can see, we have another healthy crop of teasels growing in the lawn. I may not mow this back area once again this year, so we'll have long grass and tall teasels and hopefully insect life.

Last night we watched "Queer," with Daniel Craig, a movie version of the William S. Burroughs novel released last year. It was directed by Luca Guadagnino, who also did "Call Me By Your Name," which I loved. I cannot say I loved "Queer." I've never much cared for Burroughs -- I find his writing impenetrable -- and movie versions of his work leave me feeling grimy. Too much sweat, alcohol, heroin and dissipation. Just watching could put a person in liver failure!

"Queer" also employed weird, artificial-looking sets and CGI effects, which I think are supposed to heighten the trippy feeling, but at the end of the day I was not impressed. I made it to the end, but Dave gave up about halfway through.

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  1. Your tree fern shrivelled? That doesn't sound right. I hope it grows back. I need to get back to reading also, I keep getting interrupted by neighbours who want to chat and "catch up".

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    1. I hope it grows back, too! I'll feel so guilty if it dies.

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  2. Shame about the forget me nots. They are usually quite good at coming back each year, although ours are in the garden not in pots.

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    1. Ours are usually in the garden; they just happened to re-seed in these pots.

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  3. I had noticed a few days ago that the usual mass of forget-me-nots was absent from the veg.plot!

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    1. Interesting! I wonder if something more widespread is happening? Too wet or too dry or too cold or something?

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  4. Maybe the fern shrivelling up all at once has something going on at its roots, where you can't see. Some rodent gnawing them off or so.

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    1. Hopefully not a rodent (YIKES!) but it's possible there's been some root damage or root rot, I suppose.

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  5. We see the same in our garden, far less forget-me-nots than in previous years. Maybe they are on strike. Or having a rest year, or mabye because it's very dry here compared to last year's wet March.

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    1. Isn't that interesting? Something must be going on.

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  6. I am glad you mentioned Queer because I was never able to see it at my cinema because they only showed it in the evening. I was unsure about it because the trailer showed a few scenes of a very sweaty Daniel Craig and lots of heavy breathing but I would like to have seen it. However, I am not so bothered about missing it after reading your post.

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    1. He got so many kudos for his acting -- but even though it's very "against type" for him, I didn't think he was all THAT great.

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  7. A day in the garden with a book ... peace.

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  8. life is too short for shite films. AND books for that matter. You really give everything a solid chance- following through tenaciously. That is admirable. Olga in the garden is the best thing of the week!! She does bring joy - thanks for the great photos! I will spend the day looking at them!

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    1. the forget-me-nots must want to be forgotten.

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    2. I do try to stick with something once I've started it. I can only think of a handful of books or movies I've abandoned.

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  9. I long for the day to read outside again! It looks like a beautiful day. I read about the Hands Off demonstration at Trafalgar Square and wondered if you were there. The one here was very big! And inspiring. So sad about the forget me nots.

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    1. I would have gone if I'd heard about it ahead of time! The last time Trump was elected, in 2016, I went to the protest against him.

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  10. I think that plants sometimes just need a rest to gather their strength for another year. Or perhaps the weather conditions have been unsuited to their needs in some mysterious way that we can't fathom.
    I started reading a book about the journeys of Captain Cook and at first I was extremely interested. I really knew nothing about the man. Last night I was not quite as enchanted. Possibly because I really don't feel well. I'll keep going though.
    Burroughs? Oh man. What a mess he was. I never liked his books although I did read them. I read a book written by one of his children and the man should NOT have been a father. As you can imagine.

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    1. He WAS a mess. And yet he lived to be quite elderly, despite all that abuse to his body. Go figure!

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  11. I'm sad about your forget-me-nots, but happy you have a few potted up. They are such a wonderful blue.

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    1. I thought I'd set the pots out in the garden when they go to seed, so maybe next year we'll get more in the ground.

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  12. The plant rescuer threw a plant in the trash? I planted forget me nots a couple of times but the never reseeded for me. Perhaps they'll be back next spring.

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    1. Even I reach my limit with some plants! I think keeping an annual going for four years is pretty darn impressive.

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  13. I love all the Olga photos, especially the last one. There's nothing quite like frog-legs!

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  14. Lots of blooming going on in your beautiful garden. Lot's of sunshine too! I see Olga was soaking some up.

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    1. Yeah, we are hitting prime time in the garden! Next month everything will be out in all its glory.

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  15. Oh, Steve, I know nothing about plants so I've got no garden advice for you. I like that photo of Olga relaxing in the yard.
    I'm happy to say that I joined a Hands Off protest yesterday and it was fabulous! Thousands of people with lots of clever signs! It was so great to be around so many, many people that feel the way I do about this administration.

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    1. I'm glad you went to the protest! As I told Jeanie above, I'd have gone to ours if I'd known about it.

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  16. I'm no expert, but I notice some plants in my garden disappear for a year or two and then suddenly reappear. They are like old friends reuniting. The forget-me-nots might surprise you next year.

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    1. It does happen. We used to also have something called "fox-and-cubs" or hawkweed and I haven't seen it in several years.

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  17. Lovely to see Olga splooting on her bed in the sun. What a shame your forget-me-nots forgot to seed on.

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    1. I love that you know the word "splooting." :)

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  18. I admire your dedication to the plants. Now that I'm older, and less into the garden, I stick to shrubs. 1996 - 2006 were my peak gardening years.

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    1. We're actually less into it than we used to be. Dave is much less likely to plant new things now. That's fine -- we have enough!

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  19. I love the photos of Olga, as always. Especially the splooting one :)
    Decades ago, I scattered some forget-me-not seeds over the place in our yard where we buried our first cat. They have spread and spread, not just at the edges of the lawn, but through it. But last year, for the first time, they were noticeably less plentiful. I wonder what will happen this spring when nature finally wakes up here. I would hate to lose them, although I guess it would be easy enough to grow more with new seeds. The blue in your photo of the pots is spectacularly true to life!

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    1. I hope they return as faithfully as they have in the past! I honestly have no idea what happened to ours. I thought maybe I'd pulled them too early, but it sounds like others have fewer too.

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  20. Spring is an interesting time when you find out what made it and what didn't.

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    1. That's true! I've found several things that don't seem to have survived.

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  21. Boroughs equals dissipation on a grand scale and having seen this in others, I don't look for it in entertainment. Olga looks happy in her garden. I long for a private patch.



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    1. I can't take it in a movie, much less in real life! I don't think I've known anyone whose level of dissipation matches Burroughs' though.

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  22. I feel like it's a sign of growth for you to throw a plant away. Good for you! Maybe next time you'll stop watching a movie you don't enjoy (although if you're like me you get a sort of morbid fascination & need to watch to the end).

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  23. I have a question. Were the forget-me-nots where the gardeners cleaned out all those leaves? Perhaps they cleaned out all those seeds too. I love Olga sleeping in the sun.

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    1. They did rake the entire middle bed, so they could have swept away the seeds, I suppose -- but you'd think they'd have been in the ground by then!

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  24. Sorry about the flowers/plants. It's always a mystery to me which of my perennials come up or flourish. Weather? Soil? I try not to take any responsibility for it! (only when they do well) I've never heard of that person but am now curious and will look him up.

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