Saturday, December 14, 2024
Homecoming
While walking the dog yesterday morning, I came across this advertisement on one of our characteristically filthy public phone boxes. Marijuana is not legal in the UK except for certain prescribed medical uses, as I understand it -- so I'm not sure what "legal weed" means. But I thought the doobie-smoking Santa was kind of amusing.
So, YES! Dave is home! I went to the hospital after lunch yesterday and collected him. One of his co-workers very kindly sent him a wedge pillow and a blanket via Amazon, which arrived at his hospital bed in a gigantic box yesterday morning. Of course Dave can't carry anything, so that meant I had to carry Dave's backpack containing his clothing and personal effects, that big box and my own stuff from work. Plus I had the poor foresight to buy a cup of coffee just before we left the hospital. So my hands were more than full.
We said goodbye to John, Dave's terminally ill roommate. I heard John telling someone on the phone that the doctors told him he would be lucky to see January. Given his condition, I'm not sure that would actually be lucky. The medical staff are apparently trying to find him a Hospice bed.
Somehow we got everything into an Uber and home. Dave rested for a few minutes in his chair before taking a shower, which he pronounced a "glorious" experience.
Olga, meanwhile, was happy to see him but not inordinately so. She acts like he left yesterday. I don't think she has any sense of time.
My main concern now is getting him to eat. He's supposed to have soft food, like soups, Jell-O, mashed potatoes and stuff like that. He's just not very hungry, though. I made him some chicken broth and white toast last night, and he ate a little of it but not much. He did eat an ice cream bar for dessert, though, so at least he got some calories. He said he might try an egg this morning.
He has to go back to the hospital outpatient clinic on Monday for a checkup and to get his drain removed. This drain is a sort of vacuum bottle that is meant to collect fluid from his wound, and everywhere Dave goes he has to carry it in his hand. It's about the grossest thing in the world -- I call it "the tomato" -- and I will be glad to see it gone.
I finally got caught up on some blogs last night and answered some comments. I'm hopeful I can keep abreast of things better now that I don't have to make my way to the hospital every night. Meanwhile, if Dave needs medical marijuana, we know who to contact!
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Governments may as well give up on marijuana unless it's being used by drivers who are under the effect of it. Better that they focus on nasty drugs.
ReplyDeleteSo good that Dave is home. It will probably be an initially slow recovery. I remember I came home, Ray went to work the next day and it wasn't strenuous to put on a load of washing and hang it on the drying rack.
I agree about marijuana. There are bigger problems to be solved!
DeleteI wish Dave a speedy recovery, chicken soup always helps in situations like this. From many years of experience.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Yes, fortunately, soup is one of Dave's permitted foods.
DeleteAs he is the Head of Music, I am aware that Dave normally has a lot to do at Christmastime with concerts etc.. Perhaps he has earned a year off from those duties. I hope his appetite picks up over the weekend but it's nice to know he is back home.
ReplyDeleteYes, he had to skip this year's concerts. He helped get the kids ready but another teacher conducted at the actual shows.
DeleteThat was thoughtful of Dave’s colleague but they should have sent the medical marijuana instead. Glad he’s home. I’m sure having the drain removed (blech) Monday will make a huge difference.
ReplyDeleteMedical marijuana would have been the perfect gift!
DeleteHere, I would just make a couple trips to the car ahead of the patient release. What you describe carrying home via mass transit, all the while guiding Dave, sounds heroic!
ReplyDeleteWell, it was an Uber, so it wasn't as bad as taking the tube. But yeah, I had to get everything in one go!
DeleteI'm glad to hear Dave is home, the hospital environment couldn't have been good for his state of mind. Getting the drain out will make a big difference, too.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you're ready for a break, Steve. You've had a hard time, too.
I am SO ready for a break!
DeleteSo glad to hear Dave's home, though the idea of your having all that stuff to carry and balance was a bit of comic relief! I expect the painkillers have dulled his appetite. But it will come back. Yes to chicken soup!
ReplyDeleteYeah, I'm sure it looked pretty comical too!
DeleteLuckily, for me because I get queasy around some medical issues, Carlos needed no Tomato Bag after his hernia!
ReplyDeleteGood though, that Dave's home, and I'm sure his appetite will resume in friendler surroundings.
Yeah, the tomato is pretty awful. I don't know why he even has it. His body could have handled that fluid just fine.
DeleteI do have to say that I'm not exactly 'queasy', but those vacuum devices really are just about the most disgusting thing. My sister had two years back. She was recuperating with us. She had to handle that part of things herself. I could not.
ReplyDeleteFortunately, Dave only has to tote it around -- no other handling required!
DeleteOh yes, the first shower back home from hospital! Although I was shown many ways of taking safe showers while in an iv drip/pouch/drainage etc. in hospiral, nothing beats your own bathroom. Have a good weekend, soft food can be delicious.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I think that probably brings home the fact that you ARE home -- bathing in your own shower and sleeping in your own bed.
DeleteI'm glad he's home and I hope he is feeling better soon.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Ellen!
Deleteglad to hear Dave is home. I imagine his appetite will come back once he's shed of that drain.
ReplyDeleteYeah, that thing is enough to kill anyone's appetite.
DeleteActually, weed would indeed help Dave with his appetite, at least. There is some weird loophole here (and in other states) where you can buy gummies that contain something called Delta 9 (and sometimes 8 and 10 and 11) over the counter. I saw three different brands for sale yesterday in the compounding pharmacy where I get my hormones. I have looked up Delta 9 and it is THC! What? I do not understand this. I was tempted, however. Glen has his health card and can legally buy at any of the bazillion dispensaries here.
ReplyDeleteBut. Mainly I wanted to say that it's so good to know that Dave is home!
Yeah, all the different types of medical marijuana and its derivatives are a mystery to me, too. We went into a dispensary when we were in Ann Arbor a couple of years ago and it was completely confusing. And everything was so bright and shiny!
DeleteCan you get your hands on some edibles rather then the smoking kind of pot? They could help not just with appetite, but for any pain Dave might be experiencing!
ReplyDeleteOlga might be a bit standoffish because she can smell that something isn't quite right with Dave! The fluid bag could be a bit off-putting even for her!
Enjoy the weekend ... rest and relax!!
I don't know whether edibles are a thing here or not! I'm sure they're around but I wouldn't begin to know how to get any. (I suppose I could visit Santa's website for starters!)
DeleteIt sounds like they nearly killed Dave. I hope he makes a rapid recovery.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure he would agree with that assessment!
DeleteNow I know why Santa is so jolly! ;-)
ReplyDeleteGood to hear that Dave is home again. I can relate to that drain thing. When I had my breast surgery, I had a drain in for a little over two weeks. I hated it but at least mine was pretty well hidden under clothes. Here's hoping he responds well to being home and heals up nicely.
Ho ho ho, indeed! Dave's drain is a hard-sided plastic bottle -- not something that can fit under clothing.
DeleteStoner Santa at your service...Glad Dave's home!
ReplyDeleteWhich goes a long way toward explaining Santa's constant jollity! (And maybe his appetite/weight.)
DeleteGood news! Getting that 1st shower is one of the best experiences a person can have! Drains, while necessary, are a real pain. Heal Dave! :)
ReplyDeleteYes, good news all around!
DeleteGreat news about Dave's return. It may take him awhile to get his appetite back. Meanwhile you'll have to suffer with YOUR cooking! :^D
ReplyDeleteMy cooking is barely cooking. It's mostly warming things up!
DeleteWhew! I'm glad he's home! As I like to tell my kids, today's marijuana is NOT your mother's marijuana. Literally! Seriously, it's a shame he doesn't have any since it could help with appetite. I've always been told dogs don't have the sam sense of time we do.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I've heard that too -- that today's marijuana is much more potent. And also about dogs and time. Olga always greets us with the same level of excitement, whether we've been gone a week or a day!
DeleteThe tomato doesn't sound pleasant--for anyone! Yes, just contact Santa for the weed; maybe put it on your wish list. I imagine all the elves at the North Pole stoned and dolls without heads, backwards trains, etc. LOL
ReplyDeleteNo wonder they needed an island for the misfit toys!
DeleteI'm glad Dave is home! I understand his appetite situation - my weight loss drug almost completely suppresses my appetite. Makes it hard to get proper nutrition (as you saw with my blood test results from last week). Hopefully you'll hit on just the right nutritious food that piques his interest.
ReplyDeleteOh, I didn't make the connection between your weight-loss drug and your nutrition. That makes a lot of sense! I think Dave just needs to focus on variety and he'll feel better.
DeleteOh, my goodness, you almost needed a moving company just to get Dave home. Being home is always good for healing and recovery.
ReplyDeleteYou could also consider some chicken soup to encourage appetite. It's my favorite when feeling a bit low.
You should have seen this box. Insane! Yeah, nothing beats chicken soup.
DeleteI'm so glad Dave is home and hope the appetite returns. Yes, as Sabine says, nothing beats your own bathroom. Have a quiet, good weekend.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jeanie!
DeleteIf the drain bottle is what I imagine it to be, you could put it in a sock or somthing similar to disguise the tomato effect.
ReplyDeleteGlad he's home where he belongs.
Oh, that's a good idea. Why didn't I think of that?!
DeleteYo Mr Reed ,
ReplyDeleteYes , Glad Mr Dave Is Home
Yes , Olga Girl Knows Not To Jump
Yes , Edibles Have There Place
After Living A Six Month Lifestyle Of Plant Based Meals , I Highly Encourage This Behavior - Minerals And Vitamins Are Extremely Important For Dave Right Now - Roasting Vegetables , Toss Them Into A Food Processor Or Blender , And Them Reduce Them Down In A Pot As A Soup - Obviously I Have All Kinds Of Options / Recipes For Adding Calories To His Diet - That Is My Soap Box For The Evening And Will Happily Leave It Be If You Would Prefer I Keep My Opinions To Myself
Stay Strong My Brother ,
Cheers
P.S. More Olga Girl Photos Please
Thanks for the tips! I agree, he needs more veg and fruit in his diet, but he's being told to steer clear for the moment. He's getting some juice so at least that's something. I assume puree or smoothie-type veg would be OK?
Delete100% , Puree Would Be Ideal - Fruit Smoothies Might Fall Into The Comfort Category For Mr Dave - Ether Way , Thanx A Million For The Continued Care That You Are Providing - Someday Down The Road He Will Acknowledge Your Perseverance - Until Then , A Few More Olives For You And A Pink HEATED Blanket For Olga Girl
DeleteCheers
P.S. Thanx For Not Taking My Advice As A Personal Attack. You Know How The W W Web Is These Days. Be Well & Thanx For The Olga Photo!!
"Hello? Santa?" HaHa. I thought marijuana isn't legal here either, but apparently it is legal to grow one plant (or two) for your own use, it's just illegal to sell it to others. I hope Olga's indifference didn't hurt Dave's feelings. I remember that first shower after surgery, bliss wiht a capital B.
ReplyDeleteWell, she wasn't quite indifferent -- she was glad to see him. It was just very matter-of-fact, as if he'd been at work and came home as usual.
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