Friday, September 27, 2019

Watching the Wildlife


Well, we got the Tina Turner nails taken care of yesterday. I know Mom appreciated getting rid of them. Afterwards she kept looking at her hands and saying, "Oh, that's wonderful!"

We'd made a single morning appointment for a mani/pedi and to have her hair cut, but as it turned out, we needed a second visit for the pedicure. So we went back in the afternoon. The beauticians said they're going to put Mom on a regular schedule and coordinate it with the staff in her memory care unit, so her nails won't get so out of control. Let me just say they deserve a medal. I think I seriously am going to buy them each a gift card or something.

Mom and I spent most of the day together. After the beauty shop we went to lunch at the cafeteria, and then sat on a bench by the river, where we saw this long-tailed skipper butterfly (above). We also saw a red-bellied woodpecker, some titmice, a yellow-throated warbler and a yellow sulphur butterfly. Mom used to be really into birds, and although she's lost interest in recent years -- I think she can't remember all their identities -- I pointed them out and she watched them.

I also went to Target and bought her some new bedsheets, as well as a stuffed alligator that now sits on her bed. It's a completely ridiculous gift for an 82-year-old woman, but was so cute I couldn't pass it up.


My brother and I were driving through her complex the other day when we came upon this guy and his dog, and I had to take a picture through the windshield. How is it possible for one man and one tiny dog to occupy the entire roadway?! The man didn't realize we were behind him, so we had to inch along for several minutes before he finally reeled in that yappy critter and we could pass. We didn't want to beep the horn. We were afraid he might die.


One of the items we came across in Mom's apartment is this quilt, which was made many decades ago by my great-grandmother. Pretty amazing, isn't it? All those little cloth bits no doubt came from discarded, repurposed articles of clothing.

Several of Mom's neighbors around her old apartment have approached me and my brother to ask about her. Apparently people knew she was slipping and sort of kept an eye on her, but Mom is a bit of a "lone wolf" (as one of them put it) so she defied close contact. I think they expect us to be sad about having to move her, but honestly, I'm just relieved. I have no doubt she's in a better situation now and she seems to have adapted to the change just fine.

My brother and I have just two more items to get out of her old unit -- a chair and a floor lamp -- and then we're done.

14 comments:

Yorkshire Pudding said...

It is surprising that you didn't also request a manicure and a pedicure for yourself. The image of you sitting by the river quietly observing Nature with your mother is a pleasant one. Perhaps one to cherish in the years ahead.

Sharon said...

That quilt is beautiful. It is amazing to think about all those little pieces of fabric and where they came from. I agree with YP about the image of you and your mother by the river.

Ms. Moon said...

The quilt is stunning.
And the amount of work and all you have accomplished this week is too. I think your mother is going to be very happy.

Sabine said...

You have done your mother proud with your dedicated care. I love reading about it all.

Anonymous said...

That quilt is so beautiful. The detail is truly grand. I love that your mother is settling in comfortably. Sitting on the bench with her watching butterflies and birds is is an unseen photograph of love.

John Going Gently said...

I have a very similar quilt made for me by a blog reAde.. quite lovely

Edna B said...

Such a beautiful quilt. I love that you are spending so much time with Mom. At 82, today's memories are just so much more precious. I envisioned you and her sitting by a tree near a little brook, and watching nature do it's thing. Precious beyond words.

BTW, that little yapper looks very much like my precious little Pogo. You have a super day, hugs, Edna B.

Catalyst said...

Two good sons.

e said...

That quilt is a treasure and I bet she'll get a kick out of the stuffed animal too. I'm glad you are able to spend quality time with her.

The Bug said...

We have a quilt made by Mike's grandmother - lots of polyester in it - ha! I also love the image of you two sitting & watching nature. I could use some of that myself!

jenny_o said...

You and your brother are getting a lot accomplished in a short time. It must be such a relief to know your mom will be in good hands.

ellen abbott said...

I love that quilt especially because it shows how frugal people used to be. no little piece of fabric too small. just stitch it to another piece for the pattern. I'm glad you are getting to spend some time with your mom.

Sally S said...

The stuffed alligator is a great gift. My mother, like yours, was kind of a loner, and her stuffed reindeer was a very stable and constant companion as she drifted into dementia. If you find him charming it's very likely she will too.

37paddington said...

You are good sons.